"Demura"? I'm not sure how well this asteroid fits me.I have Mercury semi-square Demura with an orb of 1. I'm going to assume this means my style of communication tends to lack modesty. When I speak, depending on the topic at hand, I am most definitely not shy. Reserved though? This is likely to be true, because I've heard that I'm not emotionally expressive. Granted, my Mercury is in Aries. It's probably obvious from my Mercury sign alone that I'm extremely direct and straightforward.
Venus sextile Demura with an orb of 1. I'm a great deal more shy if I'm into someone romantically.
Jupiter opposite Demura with an orb of 1. I have no idea how to interpret this one. Maybe with the opposition, Jupiter expands my tendency to not be these things. It's not like I relate to my Jupiter in Virgo anyway, not in the ways that people would assume based on its conjunction to my Midheaven.
Demura conjunct IC with an orb of 2. Shy, modest, and reserved accurately describes how I was as a child. These qualities seem to be lessening with each passing year. Granted, it's still up in the air if I was ever truly modest. My self-esteem used to be extremely poor.