Hi Villy,When I was taking my break I saw this but was a bit overwhelmed with the children and the Studio. I am now getting a break to look at your chart.
Wow you have three planets in ARIES? (I have 2 in Aries--Mars/Moon and that Sag Rising--been there..... )
Under ordinary circumstances I would see those configurations as making you quite direct, fast with opinion and action and relatively upbeat and optimistic. You do however have your Pisces Sun and Cancer Mars! (my young son has this in the 12th house but with Sag Sun) I think these critical placements (watery, private, sensitive, deeply emotional, and possibly shy) curb the fire; sometimes you may feel as though they are actually dousing, drowning and putting out the fire!
The other thing is that lovely Venus conjunct Mercury --especially tight like yours --confers a degree of social grace and skill. You're amiable and friendly and will typically express an opinion in a friendly, placid--rarely offensive manner. It's interesting that these, however, are in ARIES which is fiery and known to be direct and a bit impulsive (egged on and cheered on by a Sag fire Ascendant). But I would think it would/could be a lovely combination where the Mercury Arian edge brings light and honesty to issues but is softened by the honest affection of Venus.
The major challenges I see in the chart are the MARS in Cancer which can be a tough places for expressing emotions especially direct action and anger. Sometimes you feel something so strongly, but you can't get it out and when you do wow volcano lava everywhere.There is always repressed or smoldering emotion with Cancer Mars.
You also have MOON opposite PLUTO which can make one a bit obsessive and domineering about their feelings and getting their objects of desire. This is particularly important with that MOON in house 5... Neptune in the first house can confer deep introspection around spiritual and issues of the psyche but it can also cause one to delude oneself, to lose focus on the fact and reality of matters. See how it is opposite the 7th House --that may indicate a tendency to be dreamy and fantasize about relationships...You do have a great deal of emphasis on House 4 which is family, your roots and your psyche. I have that and find many of the emotions and energies I display fervently at home and with family do not get displayed necessarily all over the outside world.
You have those two gorgeous trines creating an easy flow between many of your planets ... one of them being a Water Trine of Sun/Mars and Uranus! The thing I find with trines is the challenge side of that fun is that trines can make one very self sufficient emotionally--perhaps too much so and then loathe to push oneself out into the world, into conflict, into relationships ect. Some say they can make one "lazy". I think this is because they indeed make it easier to live within ourselves, something PISCES sun is already much too astute at (smile).
The fact that you have a North Node in Libra (lucky you) sort of chides you not to go to entirely into yourself as Libra is about relationships, grace, fairness, artistry and BALANCE.
"North Node in Libra creates a horizon of pink, soft rose and lighter shades of blue. The world of Libra is laced with refined negotiations, companionship, romance and peace...The Libra North Node is the “Master Negotiator,” striving for cooperation and fairness. Creating an atmosphere of peace and compromise, as well as listening to other points of view is the potential surrounding a soul mission in Libra. Transcend to be the role model who maintains an aura of artistic refinement, culture, and appreciation for beauty. You envision life as a means of self-discovery through the mind. Sharing experiences with other people will keep you in a state of balance. While Libra maintains an easy going, charming, and almost impersonal attitude for humanity, the need for approval is great. Continue to evaluate the facts of a situation, and not the flattery behind a hidden agenda. Integrate self-reliance with the sweetness of your great strength."
I think that speaks beautifully to where you need to go and where I see you trying to get. I am intimately familiar with Aries energy. It's amazing but can sort of morph out of control with our desires, even the innocent ones. I think you have your Sun transiting the 7th house now. Don't hide too much. Now is a nice time to learn and shine within the confines of relationships.
Hope this helps.
Lily