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T O P I C R E V I E WPreomateusI wonder if the patterns below - depending on the 7th house - influence relationships to go through crises? I ask this at the point where I believe that I suffer from lack of integrity due to my personal Jupiter-ruled 7th house. It consents too fast, it doesn't anticipate the bigger picture, it's kind of naive and compulsively giving, especially with Sun and Mercury in 7th. It's so non-confrontational at any price, until issues pile up and are hard to be traced and fixed. Do you have any of these issues with your 7th:7th house Aries decisions made too quickly7th Taurus rigidity about values7th Gemini overly negotiating, lose scope of a big picture, "superficial", whatever that means7th Cancer emotionally unstable, fragile sense of security, too much focus on responsibility7th Leo too much ego centered-ness7th Virgo absence of emotional flow, overly critical7th Libra indecisiveness,7th Scorpio fear of change, or fear of imposed change7th Sagittarius too giving without a plan7th Cap overly controlling7th Aqua lack of predictability7th Pisces lack of clarityThanks for sharing your thoughts!----------------- http://www.astroknowlogy.com/questions/why-do-relationships-wax-and-wane starcrossedleo7th Sagittarius too giving without a planYep-pretty accurate, I can get a man just don't have a plan to keep one and I am very generous to a fault-sometimes I give myself awaycurbroI have Neptune in 7th Cap. I actually HATE controlling relationships and do my best to avoid controlling others.amowls**Ah ha hahahahhahaI have 7th in Sagittarius too. With Saturn and Uranus conjunct the DSC. As well as Neptune in the 7th.I jump into relationships, get too bored, break it off and then pine for them.Rosalind7th Taurus rigidity about valuesQuite true.Betty BoopI read the whole list but I cant actually relate to any of them. My first serious relationship went through crisis due to lies, dishonesty, manipulative behaviour, nosy people getting involved and causing more lies and dishonesty to come into the picture, gossip, inability to have a normal/reasonable conversation about ANY of our problems, impatience on his part (huge problem)My second serious relationship didnt really go through crisis but it ended because I was a bit disinterested overall and he got tired of waiting for me to be more involved. There was a lot of friendship, but not enough sexual chemistry. I wont count the rest because theyd fall under the 5th house. My DC is Capricorn.. conj Mars/Neptune. Aya_and_babyMost of my relationships just don't survive any crises I have 7th house Gemini, but none of what is mentioned really applies to me. Perhaps superficial in a way, and I overanalyze relationships, love and everything about it. Also emotions, but hey... I do have Gemini moon too Interestingly, I do have a thing about freedom and the ability to maintain my own identity which often leads to a crisis in a relationship. Well... I've only really had two relationships which lasted long enough to have crises... The first one ended because the man in question wanted to keep me locked up in a golden cage and I resisted heavily. In the second relationship that lasted long enough, it was slowly heading the same way. I couldn't do anything without him questioning my actions, whereabouts etc, and whenever I practiced my hobbies, he criticized them heavily and constantly (books were for crazy people who lived in a dream world, for example... ), with every male friend I had he wondered if we were getting it on and in the end I just felt miserable because I couldn't go out, do any of my hobbies or meet any of my friends (which are predominantly male) without meeting his criticism - and being the conflict-avoidant girl that I am (I know, hard to believe, but I really do try to avoid conflict as much as I can) I just avoided doing anything that could get a rise out of him. It was more subtle and passive-agressive than my first long relationship, though. the first one was clearer about where he thought I should stand with him... ------------------[Insert catchy signature here.]starfox"House VII in LeoMarriage for love, based on confidence, honesty, sincerity."I'm actually a really easygoing guy, but all the women I've known have had such issues about their fathers that it has broken down the whole thing.PreomateusHi Curbro and BB, just curious if Neptune in 7th Cap. includes some religious believes, either on your side, or the side of your partner. Thanks.
I ask this at the point where I believe that I suffer from lack of integrity due to my personal Jupiter-ruled 7th house. It consents too fast, it doesn't anticipate the bigger picture, it's kind of naive and compulsively giving, especially with Sun and Mercury in 7th. It's so non-confrontational at any price, until issues pile up and are hard to be traced and fixed.
Do you have any of these issues with your 7th:
7th house Aries decisions made too quickly
7th Taurus rigidity about values
7th Gemini overly negotiating, lose scope of a big picture, "superficial", whatever that means
7th Cancer emotionally unstable, fragile sense of security, too much focus on responsibility
7th Leo too much ego centered-ness
7th Virgo absence of emotional flow, overly critical
7th Libra indecisiveness,
7th Scorpio fear of change, or fear of imposed change
7th Sagittarius too giving without a plan
7th Cap overly controlling
7th Aqua lack of predictability
7th Pisces lack of clarity
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
----------------- http://www.astroknowlogy.com/questions/why-do-relationships-wax-and-wane
Yep-pretty accurate, I can get a man just don't have a plan to keep one and I am very generous to a fault-sometimes I give myself away
I have 7th in Sagittarius too. With Saturn and Uranus conjunct the DSC. As well as Neptune in the 7th.
I jump into relationships, get too bored, break it off and then pine for them.
Quite true.
My first serious relationship went through crisis due to lies, dishonesty, manipulative behaviour, nosy people getting involved and causing more lies and dishonesty to come into the picture, gossip, inability to have a normal/reasonable conversation about ANY of our problems, impatience on his part (huge problem)
My second serious relationship didnt really go through crisis but it ended because I was a bit disinterested overall and he got tired of waiting for me to be more involved. There was a lot of friendship, but not enough sexual chemistry.
I wont count the rest because theyd fall under the 5th house.
My DC is Capricorn.. conj Mars/Neptune.
I have 7th house Gemini, but none of what is mentioned really applies to me. Perhaps superficial in a way, and I overanalyze relationships, love and everything about it. Also emotions, but hey... I do have Gemini moon too
Interestingly, I do have a thing about freedom and the ability to maintain my own identity which often leads to a crisis in a relationship. Well... I've only really had two relationships which lasted long enough to have crises... The first one ended because the man in question wanted to keep me locked up in a golden cage and I resisted heavily. In the second relationship that lasted long enough, it was slowly heading the same way. I couldn't do anything without him questioning my actions, whereabouts etc, and whenever I practiced my hobbies, he criticized them heavily and constantly (books were for crazy people who lived in a dream world, for example... ), with every male friend I had he wondered if we were getting it on and in the end I just felt miserable because I couldn't go out, do any of my hobbies or meet any of my friends (which are predominantly male) without meeting his criticism - and being the conflict-avoidant girl that I am (I know, hard to believe, but I really do try to avoid conflict as much as I can) I just avoided doing anything that could get a rise out of him. It was more subtle and passive-agressive than my first long relationship, though. the first one was clearer about where he thought I should stand with him...
------------------[Insert catchy signature here.]
Marriage for love, based on confidence, honesty, sincerity."
I'm actually a really easygoing guy, but all the women I've known have had such issues about their fathers that it has broken down the whole thing.
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