I wonder if the patterns below - depending on the 7th house - influence relationships to go through crises? I ask this at the point where I believe that I suffer from lack of integrity due to my personal Jupiter-ruled 7th house. It consents too fast, it doesn't anticipate the bigger picture, it's kind of naive and compulsively giving, especially with Sun and Mercury in 7th. It's so non-confrontational at any price, until issues pile up and are hard to be traced and fixed.
Do you have any of these issues with your 7th:
7th house Aries – decisions made too quickly
7th Taurus – rigidity about values
7th Gemini – overly negotiating, lose scope of a big picture, "superficial", whatever that means
7th Cancer – emotionally unstable, fragile sense of security, too much focus on responsibility
7th Leo – too much “ego” centered-ness
7th Virgo – absence of emotional flow, overly critical
7th Libra – indecisiveness,
7th Scorpio – fear of change, or fear of imposed change
7th Sagittarius – too giving without a plan
7th Cap – overly controlling
7th Aqua – lack of predictability
7th Pisces – lack of clarity
Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
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