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T O P I C R E V I E WLishXOI was looking up birthcharts of potential guys in my life and I ran across this:"165 Conjunction Venus - Uranusindependent in love. His love life is rich, but with passing love affairs. He tires quickly and is scared of losing his liberty. If he marries, he will regret it. He has that little something that attracts the opposite sex: he likes amorous adventures, he is romantic. He is the eternal lover and, of course, is unfaithful if he has a serious relationship. He likes art, anything new."Now, he has all positive aspects in his chart it seems, A LOT of Scorpio but this is the only thing that worried me. I know his viewpoint on marriage and he desperately wants a family and children one day but that doesn't always mean a marriage... He tells me he wants to get married and have that perfect family but who doesn't say that. Here is his chart, i'm not sure what time of day he was born... http://www.new-astrology.com/index.php?page=graph03&index=1056079 earthypiscesComing from someone who also has Venus conjunct Uranus...That part about being unfaithful and having many passing love affairs couldn't be any further from the truth for me at least, so I wouldn't worry too much about that silly little description. waxlobsterThat's a terribly written excerpt. If you want to get deeper into Venus-Uranus google it, read other interpretations.As a conjunction it is highly creative, this guy will have his own unique approach to love, to many things (houses and house rulers need to be consulted here).I have the square EXACT it dominates my chart and well learning astrology is no surprise. Neither is it that I take unusual photographs and notice things others don't.In relationships I'm terrified of losing my freedom, I know what makes me happy and I know how creative and expressive this requires me to be. Most men are liable to suck this energy from me, so I'm drawn to the ones who let me be free. Even if this means loving from afar.It doesn't sound like your guy has this dominating his chart, but to some degree he will need to be fascinated and stimulated by life and any important relationship he has. If you want the stable, predictable, nice car, decent house, go for a meal fridays life then you may as well rule him out. If you're creative, intelligent and can show him the world in ways he hasn't seen it. If your eyes have electricity and depth and you really love meeting new people and exploring new things then not only is he likely to be drawn to you this is all you need him to see about you.Not only are us Venus Uranus folk creative, eccentric and fascinated by new and electric things. We're drawn to others who are too as we know instinctively they will neither bore us, nor have any interest in pinning us down. We'd prefer an unstable relationship with great love and great excitement, to the stable predictability which stifles our creative, innovative souls. earthypisces quote:Originally posted by waxlobster:If you're creative, intelligent and can show him the world in ways he hasn't seen it. If your eyes have electricity and depth and you really love meeting new people and exploring new things then not only is he likely to be drawn to you this is all you need him to see about you.Not only are us Venus Uranus folk creative, eccentric and fascinated by new and electric things. We're drawn to others who are too as we know instinctively they will neither bore us, nor have any interest in pinning us down. We'd prefer an unstable relationship with great love and great excitement, to the stable predictability which stifles our creative, innovative souls. Great description!crabbypattyI've got Venus conjunct Uranus in my natal and I agree with what Wax Lobster wrote ...I just don't want to be stifled and controlled but I have it in me to be faithful and loyal ...to the right person !RunAroundScreamingWaxLobster, what a wonderfully written description------------------$3.50 ebay compatibility readings | testimonials | Past readings | Ideal compatibility (3rd post) | Q&A | What's a Love stellium? | Most important aspects descriptions | Aspects to avoidwaxlobster:-SPhoenixFireExcellently stated, wax lobster Id say the signs and house placements modify how this energy is expressed. I have the conj in Scorpio 11th house, ruler Pluto is in Libra 10th and Aquarius rules my 2nd house, which is empty except for asteroid Juno (love/marriage). I am on my second marriage, the first ended due to domestic violence and stifled personal growth not out of reckless affairs. I love very deeply and do not embrace casual flings, reckless emotional storms are not my cup of tea. However, I must feel my partner is loyal and devoted to positive growth. Loving w commitment does not automatically equal paralyzed growth and boredom. My husband is above all my friend/companion, which suits the 11th house very well. I couldn't love someone who isn't my friend and companion first. That's how I see it, he is Watson to my Sherlock Holmes. It'd be boring to seek the mysteries of life without someone who understands the desire and goes with the flow. I love art and am intrigued by esoteric mysteries, especially astrology and different spiritual paths. My husband isn't particularly spiritual, but loves that I am and enjoys discussing subjects such as aliens and the paranormal w me. He likes that I love cleansing the house from negative energies w incense, and encourages this by bringing home my favorite scents. He also set up a special prayer/ritual space for me and doesn't bat an eye when I do tarot readings. He gives me my space and I do the same. To summarize, I think this aspect brings about souls who think outside of the box and are a little quirky we wish love and companionship as anyone does, but must be w someone who encourages us to be our nonconformist selves when there is a purpose, friendship, understanding and respect we are happy and will not recklessly throw it all away. To do so would mean casting away our best friend Layla84Yeah I agree with the above, that should not be taken literally. I know someone with that aspect of venus conjunct uranus who is a scoprio sun, mercury in scorpio, neptune in scorpio, and he has been married twice (they both lasted a year each). However, it wasn't him who decided to leave, it was the two wives. It was very much a love at first sight thing, but he really loved them. I don't think this aspect alone can decide someone's fidelity measure. nordicsoul quote:Originally posted by waxlobster:That's a terribly written excerpt. If you want to get deeper into Venus-Uranus google it, read other interpretations.As a conjunction it is highly creative, this guy will have his own unique approach to love, to many things (houses and house rulers need to be consulted here).I have the square EXACT it dominates my chart and well learning astrology is no surprise. Neither is it that I take unusual photographs and notice things others don't.In relationships I'm terrified of losing my freedom, I know what makes me happy and I know how creative and expressive this requires me to be. Most men are liable to suck this energy from me, so I'm drawn to the ones who let me be free. Even if this means loving from afar.It doesn't sound like your guy has this dominating his chart, but to some degree he will need to be fascinated and stimulated by life and any important relationship he has. If you want the stable, predictable, nice car, decent house, go for a meal fridays life then you may as well rule him out. If you're creative, intelligent and can show him the world in ways he hasn't seen it. If your eyes have electricity and depth and you really love meeting new people and exploring new things then not only is he likely to be drawn to you this is all you need him to see about you.Not only are us Venus Uranus folk creative, eccentric and fascinated by new and electric things. We're drawn to others who are too as we know instinctively they will neither bore us, nor have any interest in pinning us down. We'd prefer an unstable relationship with great love and great excitement, to the stable predictability which stifles our creative, innovative souls. good descriptionDrewMannI have venus conj uranus in leo. I think the strongest influence for me is my freedom. I hate bieng tied down. starfairyMy sister AND her bf have this aspect, and neither of them would ever, ever cheat. Their conjunctions are in Scorpio.The way it manifests for my sister: She is attracted to men who are not from her ethnic group. She has a funky style, and finds "different"-looking people very attractive. Same with her Bf. They are an interracial couple. LishXOThanks for the interpretation guys! Greatly appreciate it Lobster! I'm happy to hear C1ND3RRussell brand has the square.Lotis WhiteHis Venus Uranus square is 5 degrees apart!!! I looked at the link to his chart and had a peak at it. An orb of 5 degrees is very wide for an outer planet/personal planet aspect. The influence of the Venus/Uranus conjunct will bearly show in his nature. I wouldn't worry about him having Venus/Uranus in his chart. It's hardly an issue... Not that Venus/Uranus is 'bad', it's just not a particularly strong aspect in this person's chart.Lotis White quote:Originally posted by PhoenixFire:Excellently stated, wax lobster Id say the signs and house placements modify how this energy is expressed. I have the conj in Scorpio 11th house, ruler Pluto is in Libra 10th and Aquarius rules my 2nd house, which is empty except for asteroid Juno (love/marriage). I am on my second marriage, the first ended due to domestic violence and stifled personal growth not out of reckless affairs. I love very deeply and do not embrace casual flings, reckless emotional storms are not my cup of tea. However, I must feel my partner is loyal and devoted to positive growth. Loving w commitment does not automatically equal paralyzed growth and boredom. My husband is above all my friend/companion, which suits the 11th house very well. I couldn't love someone who isn't my friend and companion first. That's how I see it, he is Watson to my Sherlock Holmes. It'd be boring to seek the mysteries of life without someone who understands the desire and goes with the flow. I love art and am intrigued by esoteric mysteries, especially astrology and different spiritual paths. My husband isn't particularly spiritual, but loves that I am and enjoys discussing subjects such as aliens and the paranormal w me. He likes that I love cleansing the house from negative energies w incense, and encourages this by bringing home my favorite scents. He also set up a special prayer/ritual space for me and doesn't bat an eye when I do tarot readings. He gives me my space and I do the same. To summarize, I think this aspect brings about souls who think outside of the box and are a little quirky we wish love and companionship as anyone does, but must be w someone who encourages us to be our nonconformist selves when there is a purpose, friendship, understanding and respect we are happy and will not recklessly throw it all away. To do so would mean casting away our best friend I love this description of Venus/Uranus. Too many people jump to the stereotypical interpretation about how Venus/Uranus people are players. Perhaps some are, even to the extent of being shameless in certain cases. But many others find other more positive ways to express their Venus/Uranus energy... Like simply having unusual interests, liking partners who are a little different somehow, and being interested in all kinds of people on a friendship level. stella87 quote:Originally posted by PhoenixFire:Excellently stated, wax lobster Id say the signs and house placements modify how this energy is expressed. I have the conj in Scorpio 11th house, ruler Pluto is in Libra 10th and Aquarius rules my 2nd house, which is empty except for asteroid Juno (love/marriage). I am on my second marriage, the first ended due to domestic violence and stifled personal growth not out of reckless affairs. I love very deeply and do not embrace casual flings, reckless emotional storms are not my cup of tea. However, I must feel my partner is loyal and devoted to positive growth. Loving w commitment does not automatically equal paralyzed growth and boredom. My husband is above all my friend/companion, which suits the 11th house very well. I couldn't love someone who isn't my friend and companion first. That's how I see it, he is Watson to my Sherlock Holmes. It'd be boring to seek the mysteries of life without someone who understands the desire and goes with the flow. I love art and am intrigued by esoteric mysteries, especially astrology and different spiritual paths. My husband isn't particularly spiritual, but loves that I am and enjoys discussing subjects such as aliens and the paranormal w me. He likes that I love cleansing the house from negative energies w incense, and encourages this by bringing home my favorite scents. He also set up a special prayer/ritual space for me and doesn't bat an eye when I do tarot readings. He gives me my space and I do the same. To summarize, I think this aspect brings about souls who think outside of the box and are a little quirky we wish love and companionship as anyone does, but must be w someone who encourages us to be our nonconformist selves when there is a purpose, friendship, understanding and respect we are happy and will not recklessly throw it all away. To do so would mean casting away our best friend Thanks for sharing this. My boyfriend has this too. Are you born around November 19th 1978? Aries23DegreesI dated one with Venus-Uranus in Scorpio conjunct. And he disappeared(literally) When he called to apologize I said " Its cool. I don't think you want a relationship" and left it there.I think they can go off on tangent and leave one in a tailspin-if you are the needy ,clingy type.The one I dated wasn't exactly "exciting". I suspect he had a passive,feminine Asc sign.But there are other things to consider. Venus-Uranus conjunct could also mean that the individual is very gifted artistically charlieI don't have the conjunction, but the square. This is what I need: -Mental stimulation-this is MOST important! -Excitement through traveling, books, movies etc -Need the "freedom" to express myself through thoughts, feelings, clothes etc etc This is also very important! I cannot stand someone that cannot think outside the box. Just because I play with ideas doesn't mean I'll follow through..If this is given I am the most loyal and stable person ever! If not given, yes, I'll get bored quickly. Also, please don't be clingy/needy. Just go with the flow. If I wanna be alone for 3 hrs studying astrology or whatever, please join me or leave me alone. ariesdragon quote:Originally posted by Lotis White:His Venus Uranus square is 5 degrees apart!!! I looked at the link to his chart and had a peak at it. An orb of 5 degrees is very wide for an outer planet/personal planet aspect. The influence of the Venus/Uranus conjunct will bearly show in his nature. I wouldn't worry about him having Venus/Uranus in his chart. It's hardly an issue... Not that Venus/Uranus is 'bad', it's just not a particularly strong aspect in this person's chart.This good to know because the one I was looking at is over 6 degrees...Thanks Plut0nian2I don't know if this is helpful but I have Uranus conjuct 7th H cusp.I need mental stimulation more than anything. Freedom is keyword of course. But I can chat with the one I like all day long via messages/internet etc..I had platonic relationships like that.. I had one for 2 years and two other ones for a year and a half. I mean it's not what most would call normal relationship.. I don't find the reason to cheat because once I am bored it's the end. I am not easily bored though when I have physical freedom. ariesdragon quote:Originally posted by Plut0nian2:I don't know if this is helpful but I have Uranus conjuct 7th H cusp.I need mental stimulation more than anything. Freedom is keyword of course. But I can chat with the one I like all day long via messages/internet etc..I had platonic relationships like that.. I had one for 2 years and two other ones for a year and a half. I mean it's not what most would call normal relationship.. I don't find the reason to cheat because once I am bored it's the end. I am not easily bored though when I have physical freedom. cool thanks for sharing Plutonian2 scorpiovenus*88i have venus conjunct uranus in scorpio. i'm definitely not a player although people may think i am since my venus is in the 11th. i heard it gives off venus in gemini energy. i want to find love but i don't like the typical kind of love like dating, falling in love, then getting married. i don't want my story to fall into that very usual category. i think this is when the uranus comes out. i would say because of my own experiences, i've never been married by the way, and the people around me, having personally observed their love relationships/marriages, i've come to the conclusion that marriage is jus a paper. this might sound controversial or debatable but this is how i think a venus-uranus conjunct would probably have in mind. i basically don't wanna end up in the same cycle that people would inevitable fall into after getting married so i vowed to myself to never get married even if i'm open to domestic partnership.angryant2021I have Ven-Ura Conjunct 1 deg orb. Fall in love very fast but not quick to commit. In 5h even, but faithful. Unless ive checked out of the relationship. RandallBump!
"165 Conjunction Venus - Uranus
independent in love. His love life is rich, but with passing love affairs. He tires quickly and is scared of losing his liberty. If he marries, he will regret it. He has that little something that attracts the opposite sex: he likes amorous adventures, he is romantic. He is the eternal lover and, of course, is unfaithful if he has a serious relationship. He likes art, anything new."
Now, he has all positive aspects in his chart it seems, A LOT of Scorpio but this is the only thing that worried me. I know his viewpoint on marriage and he desperately wants a family and children one day but that doesn't always mean a marriage... He tells me he wants to get married and have that perfect family but who doesn't say that. Here is his chart, i'm not sure what time of day he was born... http://www.new-astrology.com/index.php?page=graph03&index=1056079
That part about being unfaithful and having many passing love affairs couldn't be any further from the truth for me at least, so I wouldn't worry too much about that silly little description.
As a conjunction it is highly creative, this guy will have his own unique approach to love, to many things (houses and house rulers need to be consulted here).
I have the square EXACT it dominates my chart and well learning astrology is no surprise. Neither is it that I take unusual photographs and notice things others don't.
In relationships I'm terrified of losing my freedom, I know what makes me happy and I know how creative and expressive this requires me to be. Most men are liable to suck this energy from me, so I'm drawn to the ones who let me be free. Even if this means loving from afar.
It doesn't sound like your guy has this dominating his chart, but to some degree he will need to be fascinated and stimulated by life and any important relationship he has. If you want the stable, predictable, nice car, decent house, go for a meal fridays life then you may as well rule him out.
If you're creative, intelligent and can show him the world in ways he hasn't seen it. If your eyes have electricity and depth and you really love meeting new people and exploring new things then not only is he likely to be drawn to you this is all you need him to see about you.
Not only are us Venus Uranus folk creative, eccentric and fascinated by new and electric things. We're drawn to others who are too as we know instinctively they will neither bore us, nor have any interest in pinning us down. We'd prefer an unstable relationship with great love and great excitement, to the stable predictability which stifles our creative, innovative souls.
quote:Originally posted by waxlobster:If you're creative, intelligent and can show him the world in ways he hasn't seen it. If your eyes have electricity and depth and you really love meeting new people and exploring new things then not only is he likely to be drawn to you this is all you need him to see about you.Not only are us Venus Uranus folk creative, eccentric and fascinated by new and electric things. We're drawn to others who are too as we know instinctively they will neither bore us, nor have any interest in pinning us down. We'd prefer an unstable relationship with great love and great excitement, to the stable predictability which stifles our creative, innovative souls.
Great description!
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Id say the signs and house placements modify how this energy is expressed. I have the conj in Scorpio 11th house, ruler Pluto is in Libra 10th and Aquarius rules my 2nd house, which is empty except for asteroid Juno (love/marriage).
I am on my second marriage, the first ended due to domestic violence and stifled personal growth not out of reckless affairs. I love very deeply and do not embrace casual flings, reckless emotional storms are not my cup of tea. However, I must feel my partner is loyal and devoted to positive growth. Loving w commitment does not automatically equal paralyzed growth and boredom.
My husband is above all my friend/companion, which suits the 11th house very well. I couldn't love someone who isn't my friend and companion first. That's how I see it, he is Watson to my Sherlock Holmes. It'd be boring to seek the mysteries of life without someone who understands the desire and goes with the flow.
I love art and am intrigued by esoteric mysteries, especially astrology and different spiritual paths. My husband isn't particularly spiritual, but loves that I am and enjoys discussing subjects such as aliens and the paranormal w me.
He likes that I love cleansing the house from negative energies w incense, and encourages this by bringing home my favorite scents. He also set up a special prayer/ritual space for me and doesn't bat an eye when I do tarot readings. He gives me my space and I do the same.
To summarize, I think this aspect brings about souls who think outside of the box and are a little quirky we wish love and companionship as anyone does, but must be w someone who encourages us to be our nonconformist selves when there is a purpose, friendship, understanding and respect we are happy and will not recklessly throw it all away. To do so would mean casting away our best friend
quote:Originally posted by waxlobster:That's a terribly written excerpt. If you want to get deeper into Venus-Uranus google it, read other interpretations.As a conjunction it is highly creative, this guy will have his own unique approach to love, to many things (houses and house rulers need to be consulted here).I have the square EXACT it dominates my chart and well learning astrology is no surprise. Neither is it that I take unusual photographs and notice things others don't.In relationships I'm terrified of losing my freedom, I know what makes me happy and I know how creative and expressive this requires me to be. Most men are liable to suck this energy from me, so I'm drawn to the ones who let me be free. Even if this means loving from afar.It doesn't sound like your guy has this dominating his chart, but to some degree he will need to be fascinated and stimulated by life and any important relationship he has. If you want the stable, predictable, nice car, decent house, go for a meal fridays life then you may as well rule him out. If you're creative, intelligent and can show him the world in ways he hasn't seen it. If your eyes have electricity and depth and you really love meeting new people and exploring new things then not only is he likely to be drawn to you this is all you need him to see about you.Not only are us Venus Uranus folk creative, eccentric and fascinated by new and electric things. We're drawn to others who are too as we know instinctively they will neither bore us, nor have any interest in pinning us down. We'd prefer an unstable relationship with great love and great excitement, to the stable predictability which stifles our creative, innovative souls.
good description
The way it manifests for my sister: She is attracted to men who are not from her ethnic group. She has a funky style, and finds "different"-looking people very attractive.
Same with her Bf. They are an interracial couple.
quote:Originally posted by PhoenixFire:Excellently stated, wax lobster Id say the signs and house placements modify how this energy is expressed. I have the conj in Scorpio 11th house, ruler Pluto is in Libra 10th and Aquarius rules my 2nd house, which is empty except for asteroid Juno (love/marriage). I am on my second marriage, the first ended due to domestic violence and stifled personal growth not out of reckless affairs. I love very deeply and do not embrace casual flings, reckless emotional storms are not my cup of tea. However, I must feel my partner is loyal and devoted to positive growth. Loving w commitment does not automatically equal paralyzed growth and boredom. My husband is above all my friend/companion, which suits the 11th house very well. I couldn't love someone who isn't my friend and companion first. That's how I see it, he is Watson to my Sherlock Holmes. It'd be boring to seek the mysteries of life without someone who understands the desire and goes with the flow. I love art and am intrigued by esoteric mysteries, especially astrology and different spiritual paths. My husband isn't particularly spiritual, but loves that I am and enjoys discussing subjects such as aliens and the paranormal w me. He likes that I love cleansing the house from negative energies w incense, and encourages this by bringing home my favorite scents. He also set up a special prayer/ritual space for me and doesn't bat an eye when I do tarot readings. He gives me my space and I do the same. To summarize, I think this aspect brings about souls who think outside of the box and are a little quirky we wish love and companionship as anyone does, but must be w someone who encourages us to be our nonconformist selves when there is a purpose, friendship, understanding and respect we are happy and will not recklessly throw it all away. To do so would mean casting away our best friend
I love this description of Venus/Uranus. Too many people jump to the stereotypical interpretation about how Venus/Uranus people are players. Perhaps some are, even to the extent of being shameless in certain cases. But many others find other more positive ways to express their Venus/Uranus energy... Like simply having unusual interests, liking partners who are a little different somehow, and being interested in all kinds of people on a friendship level.
Thanks for sharing this. My boyfriend has this too. Are you born around November 19th 1978?
When he called to apologize I said " Its cool. I don't think you want a relationship" and left it there.
I think they can go off on tangent and leave one in a tailspin-if you are the needy ,clingy type.
The one I dated wasn't exactly "exciting". I suspect he had a passive,feminine Asc sign.
But there are other things to consider. Venus-Uranus conjunct could also mean that the individual is very gifted artistically
-Mental stimulation-this is MOST important! -Excitement through traveling, books, movies etc -Need the "freedom" to express myself through thoughts, feelings, clothes etc etc This is also very important! I cannot stand someone that cannot think outside the box. Just because I play with ideas doesn't mean I'll follow through..
If this is given I am the most loyal and stable person ever! If not given, yes, I'll get bored quickly. Also, please don't be clingy/needy. Just go with the flow. If I wanna be alone for 3 hrs studying astrology or whatever, please join me or leave me alone.
quote:Originally posted by Lotis White:His Venus Uranus square is 5 degrees apart!!! I looked at the link to his chart and had a peak at it. An orb of 5 degrees is very wide for an outer planet/personal planet aspect. The influence of the Venus/Uranus conjunct will bearly show in his nature. I wouldn't worry about him having Venus/Uranus in his chart. It's hardly an issue... Not that Venus/Uranus is 'bad', it's just not a particularly strong aspect in this person's chart.
This good to know because the one I was looking at is over 6 degrees...Thanks
quote:Originally posted by Plut0nian2:I don't know if this is helpful but I have Uranus conjuct 7th H cusp.I need mental stimulation more than anything. Freedom is keyword of course. But I can chat with the one I like all day long via messages/internet etc..I had platonic relationships like that.. I had one for 2 years and two other ones for a year and a half. I mean it's not what most would call normal relationship.. I don't find the reason to cheat because once I am bored it's the end. I am not easily bored though when I have physical freedom.
cool thanks for sharing Plutonian2
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