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T O P I C R E V I E WPiperDayI've never believed in soulmates until I met this guy. I have a very strange feeling about him. Can't quite put my finger on it. Whenever I look into his eyes, it feels like time stops. And it's not like I have a crush on him...more like a fascination.he has a girlfriend now, but im not upset. I feel like I am a part of him, and he's a part of me, so there's no jealousy but the fascination is VERY strong. Not sure if he reciprocates, but here are some of our synastry aspects I find interesting:Conjunction Sun (me) - Mars (him)Square Mars (him) - Pluto (me)Conjunction Moon (him) - Pluto (me)Sextile Sun (him) - Pluto (me)We have talked before. He was really nice and seemed to be attracted to me. But I cut ties. I wasn't ready, something felt too intense. I could feel the intensity just by staring at him; his eyes seem to ring a bell. Just not sure what.Someone please shed some light? I can't stop thinking about this guy, and I hardly know himI took a look at our composite chart. We have a lot of ascendant, North node and midheaven aspects (most of them in square or opposition), plus two grand trines and grand cross. Could this mean anything?FaithWelcome to LL. You seem to know astrology pretty well if you can recognize aspect patterns. It's hard for anyone to help you analyze what's going on without actual charts to see.If you're interested in posting charts, it's shown here (3 minute video): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1fLTI5t2-E&feature=youtu.be PiperDayHi, Faith. Thanks. I'm on astro.com. Which chart should I use? There's so many regarding synastry and composite.PiperDayHere's our synastry! PiperDayAnd here's our composite PiperDayAnyone see anything special? FaithSo many young folks getting into astrology!I am actually going to sleep, but thanks for posting the charts. Yes, lots of interesting things there. Be back tomorrow. PiperDayNight, Faith. See you tomorrow.PiperDayNight Faith. See you tomorrow.FaithHi again I'm assuming you have his birth time right and speaking as if it is....if you don't have his birth time, I may have to revise this later.Okay, while studying this kite with some coffee in my system and more clarity of mind, I see it's not a kite. The orbs are too wide. It seems there is an air grand trine, but the orbs are pretty wide there, also. I think most people wouldn't count it. However, my opinion is, even a loose grand trine indicates a smooth, easy-flowing energy and nice rapport. Because this is in air signs, you might feel like your potential together is limitless (air flows along without stopping.) Maybe this is one reason you wonder if you are soulmates?You two have those overlapping red t-squares in synastry:Gemini Jupiter conjunct JupiterVirgo sun conjunct MarsSag planets conjunct Sag planetsThe transiting stellium in Pisces is turning this t-square into a grand cross, supplying a feeling of completion and also some psychic resonance. Maybe that's why you feel this way:"Whenever I look into his eyes, it feels like time stops."Composite Vertex on the DSC is supposedly another marker for soulmates, and you see, you two also have Venus there. I can't tell the degree of your Libra sun, it looks like it's conjunct composite Mercury, but also close enough (perhaps) to the DSC-Vertex-Venus conjunction, that you feel it strongly, and it seems to be essentially a part of you. Like something about you two...is a part of you. And another thing, which is contingent on his birth time: north node conjunct IC. That could give a strong feeling of "destined to be together" if not physically than emotionally (IC in Cancer). It looks to me that something is complete here. Complete trust or complete understanding. So no wonder you wouldn't be jealous...if you two have NN on the IC, you don't need much more from him to feel like your connection is secure. Hope others answer!And please clarify if you have his birth time or not. GrandFireTAn over-simplified, two cents worth from a non-expert male who has some experience with the Virgo/Libra connection:It's not at all unusual for the Virgo woman (man) to find herself (himself) feeling comfortable with a Libra of the opposite sex. Apparently it's fairly common with all the neighboring sun signs. Certainly a Venus-Sun conjunction assists.Even straight Virgos and Libras of the same sex often experience this attraction. Maybe it's something like a "good neighbor" feeling. With opposite-sex relationships, what develops following the Comfortable Phase is anybody's guess. Linda Goodman did a great job of describing the possibilities in her book, Love Signs.PiperDay, I know exactly what you're talking about when you say you can't stop thinking about the person. I experienced nearly the same situation recently with a woman, though it was not a neighboring sun situation.Although slow and sometimes painful, waiting and allowing time to reveal more about this particular person has been the key to better understanding the potential (or lack thereof) of a longer-term relationship. PiperDayHi, Faith. Thanks for the response. It's hard to get a stranger's exact birth time on the get-go, so I used the standard unknown time (12:00PM, I think) Your description sounded on point, I wonder what would change due to not knowing his birth time?@GrandT - True, I've felt attractions with quite a few Libras!PiperDayUPDATE: Just did a composite chart reading, and turns out we have a North node sextile sun aspect!!!! no wonderRandallBump!
Conjunction Sun (me) - Mars (him)Square Mars (him) - Pluto (me)Conjunction Moon (him) - Pluto (me)Sextile Sun (him) - Pluto (me)
We have talked before. He was really nice and seemed to be attracted to me. But I cut ties. I wasn't ready, something felt too intense. I could feel the intensity just by staring at him; his eyes seem to ring a bell. Just not sure what.Someone please shed some light? I can't stop thinking about this guy, and I hardly know him
I took a look at our composite chart. We have a lot of ascendant, North node and midheaven aspects (most of them in square or opposition), plus two grand trines and grand cross. Could this mean anything?
You seem to know astrology pretty well if you can recognize aspect patterns.
It's hard for anyone to help you analyze what's going on without actual charts to see.
If you're interested in posting charts, it's shown here (3 minute video): http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i1fLTI5t2-E&feature=youtu.be
I'm on astro.com. Which chart should I use? There's so many regarding synastry and composite.
I am actually going to sleep, but thanks for posting the charts. Yes, lots of interesting things there. Be back tomorrow.
I'm assuming you have his birth time right and speaking as if it is....if you don't have his birth time, I may have to revise this later.
Okay, while studying this kite with some coffee in my system and more clarity of mind, I see it's not a kite. The orbs are too wide. It seems there is an air grand trine, but the orbs are pretty wide there, also. I think most people wouldn't count it. However, my opinion is, even a loose grand trine indicates a smooth, easy-flowing energy and nice rapport. Because this is in air signs, you might feel like your potential together is limitless (air flows along without stopping.) Maybe this is one reason you wonder if you are soulmates?
You two have those overlapping red t-squares in synastry:
Gemini Jupiter conjunct JupiterVirgo sun conjunct MarsSag planets conjunct Sag planets
The transiting stellium in Pisces is turning this t-square into a grand cross, supplying a feeling of completion and also some psychic resonance. Maybe that's why you feel this way:
"Whenever I look into his eyes, it feels like time stops."
Composite Vertex on the DSC is supposedly another marker for soulmates, and you see, you two also have Venus there. I can't tell the degree of your Libra sun, it looks like it's conjunct composite Mercury, but also close enough (perhaps) to the DSC-Vertex-Venus conjunction, that you feel it strongly, and it seems to be essentially a part of you. Like something about you two...is a part of you. And another thing, which is contingent on his birth time: north node conjunct IC. That could give a strong feeling of "destined to be together" if not physically than emotionally (IC in Cancer). It looks to me that something is complete here. Complete trust or complete understanding. So no wonder you wouldn't be jealous...if you two have NN on the IC, you don't need much more from him to feel like your connection is secure.
Hope others answer!
And please clarify if you have his birth time or not.
It's not at all unusual for the Virgo woman (man) to find herself (himself) feeling comfortable with a Libra of the opposite sex.
Apparently it's fairly common with all the neighboring sun signs. Certainly a Venus-Sun conjunction assists.
Even straight Virgos and Libras of the same sex often experience this attraction. Maybe it's something like a "good neighbor" feeling. With opposite-sex relationships, what develops following the Comfortable Phase is anybody's guess.
Linda Goodman did a great job of describing the possibilities in her book, Love Signs.
PiperDay, I know exactly what you're talking about when you say you can't stop thinking about the person. I experienced nearly the same situation recently with a woman, though it was not a neighboring sun situation.
Although slow and sometimes painful, waiting and allowing time to reveal more about this particular person has been the key to better understanding the potential (or lack thereof) of a longer-term relationship.
@GrandT - True, I've felt attractions with quite a few Libras!
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