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cultstatus | I have been muling over this topic for a couple of days now, as I have recently been back in contact with a man I met briefly a few months ago and experienced this intense phenomenon with/toward. When discussing it with a friend I could only think of one other occasion (at 17) when I experienced such a feeling. I am very social and am always out and about meeting new people, and have always lived in big cities so I personally put a lot of weight on such a feeling, however fleeting, as meaning this person is important. When I met this current one I happened to be dating someone he knew and was at an event with, however when I started chatting to this man I forgot about why I was there as we got so caught up in talking my date had to come back and pry me away. I just remember feeling an overwhelming warmth, comfort and soul connection with a complete stranger. I also found him to be incredibly attractive, just a huge PULL. It wasn't like we were speaking on matters of heart either or having some sort of D and M, it was a fashion event and that was kind of what the conversation was centred around. When I finally contacted him via social media last Friday (maybe 3 months later) he just happened to be at a party 500 metres from my house! Talk about synchronosity. He also told me when we met up that he had tried to get my contact details but the person I was with wouldn't share them. Fair enough. So I'm wondering by looking at this synastry what aspects would indicate a lust at first sight feeling? Sun conjunct venus I'm assuming? Pluto opposite moon?His sun in my first? Who have you experienced a similar feeling with and what aspects would you associate with it? Here's our synastry. Not sure of his time of birth, he is on the outside.
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Starry~* | Can't see the chart, could you please re-upload? |
cultstatus | Agh what's going on with photobucket these days! I'll try and fix it |
cultstatus | Sorted! |
margym0o | First thing that jumped out is Mercury/Venus DW. That can mean you just genuinely enjoy talking to each other, hence why even though it was a "benign" conversation about fashion (not feelings) it still felt enjoyable. Sun/Venus DW is nice too. You feel the admiration coming from his Venus and though his Sun squares your Venus there is still a level of fascination and interest generated there. Venus/Mars trine (him being the Mars especially) also helps with attraction. Jupiter on your Venus is NICE. It trines your Mars too. More happy, joyful and benevolent aspects. You're getting a lot of positivity out of this! Not much happening with your Moon but the trine to Mercury is nice for more heartfelt communication. It's tough to know if his Moon aspects are correct without a TOB which is a bummer. The only "red flags" that jump out are the Saturn squares (to his Sun and your Venus - he may feel a little icy at times and you a little restricting) which can be a little annoying in a long-term relationship but nothing that can't be worked around. Your Venus/Saturn can probably handle it since your approach to love matters are more mature anyway. |
cultstatus | So you think it's a combination of aspects rather than one specific one? Have you experienced this feeling? What do you put it down to? |
margym0o | quote: Originally posted by cultstatus: So you think it's a combination of aspects rather than one specific one?Have you experienced this feeling? What do you put it down to?
IMO I think it's combination of everything. I think it would be too narrow-minded to chalk it up to "one thing." As mentioned you're getting a lot of positive vibes so he probably just feels like an easy person to be around. There aren't very many tense aspects to be felt at this stage. To give you an example of one of the aspects, my coworkers who hardly knew each other at the time had to work on a project together with a client and they said while pitching to the client they worked in perfect synch and almost finished each other's sentences. The biggest thing that jumped out in their chart together is Mercury/Venus conj. DW. |
cultstatus | bump! x |
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VestasLight | Honestly, the Uranus conjunct Vx is a massive, powerful draw at the soul level. Uranus/Venus conjunct sun... You were definitely going to notice each other. |
Rosalind | quote: Originally posted by VestasLight: Honestly, the Uranus conjunct Vx is a massive, powerful draw at the soul level. Uranus/Venus conjunct sun... You were definitely going to notice each other.
Sun and Venus conjunct Uranus in synastry here. I can confirm that. |
GrlyGirl200 | quote: Originally posted by VestasLight: Honestly, the Uranus conjunct Vx is a massive, powerful draw at the soul level. Uranus/Venus conjunct sun... You were definitely going to notice each other.
I gotta agree with this as well. I am the Vertex person with my own Vertex Conjunct my Saturn. He has his Mars and Uranus Conjunct my Vertex-Saturn. We also have his Uranus-Mars Opp my Venus, my Saturn Conjunct his Mars, and his Uranus Conjunct my Saturn. I was (and still am) smitten by him (I know I know how corny that sounds as a Cap Moon...but I adore him and feel like I literally met someone exactly like me). I won't say love (lust is DEF there), but something is there. And I met him for a reason (his Chiron is Conjunct my NN). I think the lust also comes from dw Moon Mars aspects, Sun Mars/Mars Pluto/ Mars Jupiter aspects. We're also quite similar so that helps. I'm a Cancer Sun with his Cancer Moon, and my Cap Moon in the 7th Trine Venus, and his Libra Sun Conjunct Saturn. |
cultstatus | I just found this reply in another thread regarding the sun conjunct uranus - Wonder how this will work for you: "This can be an out of the blue or love at first sight connection. The purpose for the two to come together is to awaken a new sense of individuality in each other. It will feel like they are bringing chaos into each others lives. But what is happening is that their souls are awakening." http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/210066.html Interesting! We haven't spoken in over a week due to my phone being repaired but yet I cannot stop thinking about him. He's already given me such a huge drive to be more successful and improve myself too. |
manderin | I think that Venus in close orb sextile or Trine the ascendant does this and also Venus conjunct the ascendant. That's been my experience anyway. |
cultstatus | I don't think I've ever experienced venus on the ascendant but I can imagine, I have experienced mars on the ascendant a few times and that was intense physical attraction immediately. |
Randall | Bump! |
cultstatus | Well he;s told me he feels absolutely nothing, and I've never felt so much in my life. How is this possible?! |