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AriesLilith | Hi guys, recently I had an emotional episode with my family which got me reflecting about our family dynamics. My family has issues and now that I have a kid I'm worried if he can get affected by all this. I do want us all to be together harmoniously, but what happened recently made me feel uncomfortable. Right now I'm on maternal leave but I will be back to work soon. We planned to let my kid stay with my parents during the day so my mother would be the main carer. But something makes me feel uncomfortable with the idea, because of all the dynamics. She does seem to care about him but she has issues and even if she improved a lot, I'm worried how is she going to affect him, positively or negatively. Can someone help me with their composite? Thank you! Composite of my mother and my son: (note: my mother's birth time is only aproximate) |
Randall | Bump! |
todd | hi Aries Lilith the onlt thing that makes me wonder about your mother's issues is the Jupiter/vneus square with Jupiter opposed to the Neptune/Saturn midpoint. this could show cruelty issues, it could show a unsafe environment possibility her friends. Saturn/Neptune can also show substance abuse issues. todd |
AriesLilith | Hi Todd, thank you for checking their composite. My mother has depression so maybe this aspect could indicate it? Even so is their relationship generally harmonious? It'd be great if I can trust her my son because I do hope our family can be happy together and leave all the scars as past. But with what happened recently I worried if things might not go as I hoped. |
todd | yea the Saturn /Neptune could be her depression though I would think she is using meds for it. another point I did not go into is the sun/mars midpoint square to Uranus at MC. this tends to show it will be a contentious relationship as there wills will be directed differently. |
todd | I am still thinking about the composite... the Uranus square to the sun/mars midpoint can be a problem. since you are on maternity leave, you should pay attention to see if your mother is not abrupt or short on patience .this square can be physical so pay attention to your mothers moods while youcan. todd |
AriesLilith | @Todd thank you for taking a further look at the composite. I will pay more attention about this. I'm worried as I was checking the composite between my son and my father as well and there is also Uranus/Mars midpoint square Sun. Even Saturn/Neptune conjunct square Venus. I have not yet looked further but from what you described of the similar aspects in the composite between my son and my mother I feel uncomfortable about these. I feel that my parents care for my son but with their issues, things mighht not go well. It just scares me that the issues in my family might affect him. I must pay more attention to any potential sign. Again, thank you for your help Todd. Your analysis is really insightful as always. |
Randall | Thanks, todd. |
Randall | Bump! |