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harmonicvibes | Anyone? |
Randall | Bump! |
Eva4 | Will L move by March of this year? |
Heartsong11 | Harmonic, I'm around if you wanna exchange |
harmonicvibes | quote: Originally posted by Eva4: Will L move by March of this year?
Yes, I think L will be moving. Seems like L is very anxious to move will do so quickly and move fast to make it happen rider snake star |
harmonicvibes | Sure heartsong what is your question?
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Heartsong11 | Hi 2 of Swords, Temperance and Justice So I immediatley got that you're limiting yourself somehow. You need to be assertive and really know your worth because you may be aiming too low and deserve better than what your current job offers. I don't know what your career path is but you are very good at what you do so you. Are you undecided about what to do? If so you really need to make a decsision, stick by it and really go after what you want. Mine: Will SK make up his mind about me soon? We've been talking a lot. I'm wondering will he allow me back in. |
harmonicvibes | Thanks. I do not work right now. I do admin work funny, you mention that I dodged a interview that was pretty extensive I thought I wasn't good enough for it. |
harmonicvibes | Yes, he will. I do feel and think though it will take time. He willing to invest the time to move on into this change which would be getting close again. But with baby steps fish ship child |
Heartsong11 | quote: Originally posted by harmonicvibes: Thanks. I do not work right now. I do admin work funny, you mention that I dodged a interview that was pretty extensive I thought I wasn't good enough for it.
Go for more jobs like that I would say. |
harmonicvibes | I will do that Did you want to exchange more |
Heartsong11 | Yes I do. I'm busy for next hour or so though. Leave your questions or wait till I'm back on if you like. Mine: what is blocking SK specifically in regards to me? Like what is he scared of? |
harmonicvibes | just let me know when your back on |
Heartsong11 | I'm back 😊 |
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Heartsong11 | quote: Originally posted by harmonicvibes: Ok great <3So, I was wondering if you could provide any insight as to why I do not attract people of quality or my type? I'll explain so I find Manuel my type I am really attracted to him enjoyed his company, background of who what he is. My ex as well...I liked. Anyway, in regards to my Question about not attracting people I like...its in regards to my online dating I just ughhhh can't stand the people who message me: boring, unattractive, not my type, just not catching anything worthy lol. I rarely date rarely click with anyone. Manuel is 1st new person I clicked with in a LONG time before that I was dealing with my ex for about 2 years.
You just described my love life. Just add a psycho ex to that list. I sympathise with you because I feel the exact same way about online dating. Then I click with someone like SK and it's years of bs. I'm picky and don't connect deeply very easily so it's hard to meet anyone. I'll pull for you now.
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Heartsong11 | Six of Cups, Four of Cups, Five of Pentacles So it seems like you have some blockages because of your past relationships. Not only because of past hurt but also becasue you hang on to the things you like about your past relationships. You look for the exact same qualities you liked about one person and try to apply them to another potential love interest. By doing this you miss out on what another person may have to offer you. You block your feelings a lot by dwelling in the past. Does that resonate? If you could try and let go of what's hurt you and try to cherish the good memories but also kind of let them go it would really help open you up to attracting the right people. |
harmonicvibes | Hmmm interesting. Well I look back at a few irrelevant guys in my past and am glad they are not in my life..like ewww ugh...dodged a bullet. My past with Ivan was painful obviously but in October I healed was over it knew there is no reconciliation. I think of him but its not like in bad way or any animosity. He treated me good in sense of being the provider I look for in a man, quiet strong type. Like I dunno he was good we just were not compatible. I was glad to experience something with someone who cared took care of me never had that before. I do have a type but everyone does so, looking for similarities is normal as that my type lol. I guess I will have hard time finding someone I like my Mexican, cultured, romantic,fun guys. I would never go for a hunting, country music cowboy...no offense. I don't think I should have to open myself up to being open or consider men who are not my type... I hate dating lol. Anyway, what is your question? |
Heartsong11 | You asked me why you are not attracting your type or anyone of quality. So from what I could interpret there are issues about letting things of your past go so you are more open to attract the right people. There is nothing wrong with having a type. I wasn't saying you shouldn't. If the cards didn't resonate that's fine...you know yourself best. I'm good for now. Thanks |