Hi ChristineCalming, relaxing light is very much appreciated
Well my situation has also been going on approaching 3 years!! All very stressful plus Saturn square my Sun again (exact) for the 3rd time together with it also opposing my Moon. Plus Pluto sitting square on my Sun doesn't help
But tomorrow is always another day
I will admit my mind is not very focused (sorry) at the moment....but here goes.
Ok so we have to bear in mind that with no birth times it's not possible to get an accurate chart/synastry.
We don't know the house positions, or the asc's. I've used 12 noon as a default time for both - but it only a "rough" guide.
If you ever get the birth times let me know and I'll look at it again.
For "starters".......synastry aspects.
His Moon Squares Her Venus (1 degree)
They are attracted to one another and enjoy being together, but conflicts could arise perhaps because of unfaithfulness.
His Sun Conjuncts Her Jupiter (2 degrees)
This is a couple that you like to be with. They are charming, agreeable and know how to entertain their friends generously and warmly. They go well together, and love each other in a discrete and sincere way. They appreciate the joys of life together.
Sun Conjunct Sun (0 degrees)
It's an excellent aspect for a relationship because they go remarkably well together. They understand each other, complement each other and support each other.
His Mercury Squares Her Uranus (0 degrees)
They don't really understand each other. If they live together there will be disputes and some tension. Uranus can be erratic.
Her Venus Trines His Jupiter (0 degrees)
This relationship is great! A couple that is happy to be alive, and to live together, with a pleasant family and home, total confidence in each other, similar tastes.
Her Venus Squares His Pluto (1 degree)
A very strong passion but watch out as it could be destructive!
Her Venus Trines His Uranus ( 0 degrees)
The relationship/love will be very strong, not intellectual, but sensual and full of romanticism and originality.
His Saturn Squares Her Uranus (2 degrees)
She will find his Saturn very restrictive. Saturn likes "order" Uranus likes "chaos"
Lots of conflicts could occur.
Venus Conjunct Venus (2 degrees)
Great aspect for a successful relationhip. Love, fun, understanding, everything for getting on well together.
His Moon Trines Her Neptune (3 degrees)
An almost magical bond will unite them. Perfect harmony.
His Moon Opposes Her Pluto
Great physical attraction, uncontrolled passion, possessiveness, jealousy. This relationship could be destructive and it would be very difficult to get over it.
(I have that aspect with my ex.......it's a toughie! Was fantastic but ended up very detructive Mind you he was a very abusive man - which shows in his natal chart. That's why it's important to look at each natal chart to see how they behave, as the individual behaviour will affect the synastry works)
I'll take a look at their individual charts and get back to you.
Love
Sue
PS: They both have Moon/Asc aspects in the synastry chart. So they probably think about each other a lot.
His Moon sextiles her Asc (3 degrees). Her Moon squares his Asc (0 degrees - so stronger influence)
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