Hi Mantionette,After reading your explaination and looking at the chart information you posted, I see a few things. However, you didn't include the birthtimes or place of birth which you should know is of extreme importance when looking at someone's chart, just remember for the future.
I can see the initial attraction you both had for one another. I also remember you saying that he mentioned possibly getting back together with his child's mother. Before even looking at the charts together, it sounds like he's trying to let you down easy. People will usually tell us who they are or their intentions and we just don't want to hear them, and this already being a long distance relationship, it's double hard to keep it together.
There are a few things here suggesting that you might want to let it go, it may not be worth it to you.
His Neptune opposes your Sun suggesting that he doesn't offer you clarity, he can be very evasive and possibly deceptive. It's not that hard for him when he lives so far away. It's worth it to him to keep you in confusion.
His Saturn conjuncts your Mars, this is a very difficult aspect share. It suggests that he stifles your actions, puts a cold damper on your sexual energies and it promotes high temper issues with you both.
His Pluto opposes your Mars. That can start off as great sexual chemistry but the darkest end of the spectrum is violent tempers. That combination of Saturn conjunct Mars and Pluto oppose Mars doesn't look appealing AT ALL!!
And the last one I'll discuss is that your Uranus squares his Venus, this usually bodes well for instant, electrical and magnetic attraction, but it is usually associated with short lived attractions and affairs that fizzle out after a while.
Last but not least, there are no aspects that suggest a long term relationship, only long term anger if you stick with it.
Of course you have free will, it's up to you what you want to choose, but if it was me, I would move on at a fast paced run in the opposite direction. Keep the good memories, but move on.
Good luck to you, Mantionette, whatever you choose.
Geocosmic Valentine
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