I agree these Aquas can be tricky...The one I like now, even though it is ages I havenīt seen him, told me not so straightforwardly that he didnīt fancy me and then started sending me emails and passing through my job with his car and blowing the horn...
I suppose he just wants to be friends but I can definitely not because I had a really bad experience not long ago and I donīt see him as a friend at all.
I havenīt budged. Because I am starting to really believe in a sentence I read once, from a book on synastry by Nance McCullough called "Love-Formulas":
"If you have to forcibly push, then the result is not for you."
So I suppose in my case it is a mixture of pain from the last one and pride, but I am not making a move. If he is interested, he will come to me. I made it clear I liked him.
So I suggest you wait and see what his signals are, because the call after that night might have been just that: he didnīt want to end up badly with you.
Donīt risk your heart too much, in my opinion, wiat and be sure and then invest. My take only, Best of Luck anyway, Marie