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T O P I C R E V I E WredhotThanks everyone for your responses!I've deleted my original post because, well, I've decided I'm just over it. I refuse to play a game with someone for months and would rather forfeit than lose. I have larger, and far more important issues to deal with. Thanks,redhotGypseeWindDoes he have any Pisces in his chart, some of the stuff you describe sound Pisces-ish.The competitive part sounds Aries though.I dunno what to tell you. I know alot of Aries men, and I was married to one. I don't want to generalize, cause folks hate that, so I'll just say 'in my experience' with Aries men, they seem to get bored when the chase is over, once they know they have you, or could have you. Especially when they are younger.I'm sure you would get more repsonses if you posted his chart though.Taurean_ScorpionThat's what I continue to hear about aries men, about how they lose interest when the chase is over. What is your sun sign? I don't know, but I am pretty young and I still have my aries boy interested (it's been a year). It seems that the guy you like still likes you too, but now it's turned into a very complicated situation...I wouldn't make a move until he stops seeing other people. I think if both of you like eachother, you two should be dating. I think it's time that you take the initiative and ask him out for coffee and chat when he stops dating other women, that is. StarrofVenusGirlMy concern is the dating his best friend part. That's usually a big no-no with a guy, and if you ever want anything serious with him, how will he get past that? Most men draw the line at seriously dating a girl who has been with one of their friends. I would think it would be especially problematic for a possessive Fire sign.It may not be a huge issue if you've only dated and not been intimate though.GrlyGirl20That is SOOOO true. I actually dated a Aqua Sun Aries Mars guy, and I was dumped by him a few weeks ago because he found out that 4 years ago I had sex with a friend of his (I liked him and he basically had sex then lost interest in me...I was a very naive 20 year old). And as another guy friend of mine said..."you don't fish in another mans canoe."The Aries part probably won't forgive you for that. vapor-lashI know a Pisces guy with Mercury, Venus and Mars in Aries. He daily pined over a woman who was dating his friend. She was with the friend for about a year and they eventually broke up. (It was my impression that he saw the friend as "competition" - which is also an Aries thing)Pisces guy confided in me that they'll go out soon and that she broke things off with her bf *due* to him.. but they were still keeping it a secret so that it doesn't turn into a scandal. And they started going out a few months later. They stayed together for about 4 years. I couldn't do it myself. I'm an Aries Sun - I couldn't picture going out with someone who was with a friend of mine.. bt maybe I'm being stupid about it. If they were definitely done and we had a strong connection - it would be dumb to turn that down. Also BOTH - of these people are Aries (redhot and her guy) LOL.. Aries2Aries works extremely well sexually, from what I've been hearing (from male Aries.. I haven't had this convo with a female Aries lol).. I'm not sure how it would go long term since you are both likely to have short attention spans. Taurean_ScorpionI think the only way you will know for sure is to ask him privately about that, whether or not he would be able to get past that.Master_ZeromusHello!If you are curious about the zodiac Aries, then I suggest that you go to www.zhna.org and on there click the one saying Daeva Religion. But only if you are a Zhna, otherwise ignore this message.Have a nice day!teasel quote:I've deleted my original post because, well, I've decided I'm just over it. I refuse to play a game with someone for months and would rather forfeit than lose. I have larger, and far more important issues to deal with. Good for you. starzy54The Aries Love games were enough to make me lose my mind.With the Aries i knew,he basically flirted and flirted until i thought he was in love with me,but when it came to committing he would say his heart belonged to someone else..someone he couldn't have.It caused a lot of pain on my part.I moved on,got involved with another guy,and when i became someone he couldn't have,he wanted to commit and told me i was the one for him blah blah.From my perspective this guy was obsessed with chasing the un-attainable.Once he has you,he doesn't want anything to do with you.Just my view though.He born April 18,don't know his exact specs though.
I've deleted my original post because, well, I've decided I'm just over it. I refuse to play a game with someone for months and would rather forfeit than lose. I have larger, and far more important issues to deal with.
Thanks,
redhot
The competitive part sounds Aries though.
I dunno what to tell you. I know alot of Aries men, and I was married to one. I don't want to generalize, cause folks hate that, so I'll just say 'in my experience' with Aries men, they seem to get bored when the chase is over, once they know they have you, or could have you. Especially when they are younger.
I'm sure you would get more repsonses if you posted his chart though.
It may not be a huge issue if you've only dated and not been intimate though.
The Aries part probably won't forgive you for that.
Pisces guy confided in me that they'll go out soon and that she broke things off with her bf *due* to him.. but they were still keeping it a secret so that it doesn't turn into a scandal. And they started going out a few months later. They stayed together for about 4 years.
I couldn't do it myself. I'm an Aries Sun - I couldn't picture going out with someone who was with a friend of mine.. bt maybe I'm being stupid about it. If they were definitely done and we had a strong connection - it would be dumb to turn that down.
Also BOTH - of these people are Aries (redhot and her guy) LOL.. Aries2Aries works extremely well sexually, from what I've been hearing (from male Aries.. I haven't had this convo with a female Aries lol).. I'm not sure how it would go long term since you are both likely to have short attention spans.
If you are curious about the zodiac Aries, then I suggest that you go to www.zhna.org and on there click the one saying Daeva Religion. But only if you are a Zhna, otherwise ignore this message.
Have a nice day!
quote:I've deleted my original post because, well, I've decided I'm just over it. I refuse to play a game with someone for months and would rather forfeit than lose. I have larger, and far more important issues to deal with.
Good for you.
I moved on,got involved with another guy,and when i became someone he couldn't have,he wanted to commit and told me i was the one for him blah blah.From my perspective this guy was obsessed with chasing the un-attainable.Once he has you,he doesn't want anything to do with you.Just my view though.He born April 18,don't know his exact specs though.
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