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TrueTaurus | I've been gone for a while and I came back. I used to be Taurean_Scorpion...as some of you may know I've been in a relationship with an Aries/Aries. I stopped reading my horoscopes and what not because I thought it was just messing with my head, but now I see how real and accurate Sun signs can be. I feel like I should've listened to the descriptions and the compatibilitiy of a taurus and aries. Now I'm at a place where I feel like I know that we will not work out because of our differences, but we've come a long way and it's really difficult to let go. We've been together for 2 years and it's been a rollercoaster. I'm a Taurus with a Scorpio Moon and Cancer asc. He has no water...an Aries with Aries moon and Libra rising. It's really obvious that our signs don't work together, and it makes me sad that I see it in reality how we're just not meant for each other. I guess I am just really sad because I really love him, and he loves me. He just doesn't think he could handle our fighting in the future. I wish that I didn't start us from the beginning when I read about the Taurus & Aries pair. Turns out signs are a big deal. |
janoe | Hi there, first up, let me say how sorry I am... it sounds really painful and I can only hope that you both recover. But bear in mind that you always come out of love stories with a lesson learnt, and sometimes the painful ones are more valuable in that department. Might not sound very comforting now, but maybe one day you'll see it that way. I partly agree with you on the sun signs, however, I think the disharmony of elements should have made you more suspicious. But then again - you were in love, so would it have been right to let it hold you back? Probably not...I had a different kind of story. My last boyfriend was a Sagittarius, I'm an Aquarius, which is a cracker combination at first glance. Our suns were in trine and we had some other good-laughs-and-frolicks aspects going on. However, his Libra moon had nothing to deliver to my Cancer moon. Somewhere along the line, the fun and laughter just wasn't enough and it all seemed very shallow and meaningless to me. So you see...compatible sun signs aren't enough. Every person enters our life for a reason. Astrological warning signs shouldn't hold you back from opening the gates for them. All the best to you, Janoe |
janoe | Sorry - that didn't make sense: Our Venuses were in trine, not the suns. Duh. |
Steam | I'm so sorry things aren't working out for you. I'm an Aries sun (Taurus cusp) & moon and had a wonderful relationship with a Taurus that had a Virgo moon. Perhaps it's the moons; Aries/Scorpio both ruled by mars that can locked in battle? Or other signs/aspects within your charts. Above all, I know you need harmony to be happy so I wish you all the best. I know they say signs next to each other are not supposed to be compatible but there are quite a few that seem to happen because of venus or moon? I know Leo's who love Cancers & Libra's because they tend to have moon or venus in those signs. Some Tauruses have Aries in venus and that seems to work. Is it all just attraction and won't work in the long run? Venus in someone's sun sign or moon? |
TrueTaurus | Thank you Janoe and Steam for your responses. Well he has Venus in gemini and Mars in Aqua. I also have those two placements. So our venus signs and mars signs are conjunct. My Venus and Mars, thankfully sextiles his Sun and Moon. This is our composite ME: PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree Sun Taurus 12¡Æ28'13 in house 12 Moon Scorpio 20¡Æ53'09 in house 6 Mercury Taurus 25¡Æ56'16 in house 12 Venus Gemini 23¡Æ50'50 in house 12 Mars Aquarius 17¡Æ12'39 in house 10 Jupiter Taurus 12¡Æ36'39 in house 12 Saturn Capricorn 2¡Æ10'38 in house 6 Uranus Capricorn 0¡Æ43'31 in house 6 Neptune Capricorn 10¡Æ04'27 in house 7 Pluto Scorpio 11¡Æ09'27 in house 6 True Node Pisces 21¡Æ59'42 in house 11 HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Cancer 7¡Æ11'49 2nd House Cancer 17¡Æ13'07 3rd House Cancer 28¡Æ32'03 Imum Coeli Leo 13¡Æ55'46 5th House Virgo 10¡Æ03'09 6th House Scorpio 6¡Æ02'21 Descendant Capricorn 7¡Æ11'49 8th House Capricorn 17¡Æ13'07 9th House Capricorn 28¡Æ32'03 Medium Coeli Aquarius 13¡Æ55'46 11th House Pisces 10¡Æ03'09 12th House Taurus 6¡Æ02'21 HIM: PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree Sun Aries 26¡Æ16'58 in house 7 Moon Aries 20¡Æ25'06 in house 7 Mercury Aries 21¡Æ14'10 in house 7 Venus Gemini 11¡Æ25'43 in house 9 Mars Aquarius 6¡Æ09'00 in house 4 Jupiter Taurus 8¡Æ39'12 end of house 7 Saturn Capricorn 2¡Æ31'59 in house 3 Uranus Capricorn 0¡Æ59'36 in house 3 Neptune Capricorn 10¡Æ11'19 in house 3 Pluto Scorpio 11¡Æ37'10 in house 2 True Node Pisces 22¡Æ48'46 in house 6 Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Libra 12¡Æ17'14 2nd House Scorpio 9¡Æ42'40 3rd House Sagittarius 10¡Æ37'04 Imum Coeli Capricorn 13¡Æ49'34 5th House Aquarius 16¡Æ43'26 6th House Pisces 16¡Æ38'24 Descendant Aries 12¡Æ17'14 8th House Taurus 9¡Æ42'40 9th House Gemini 10¡Æ37'04 Medium Coeli Cancer 13¡Æ49'34 11th House Leo 16¡Æ43'26 12th House Virgo 16¡Æ38'24 Composite Horoscope midpoint method PLANETARY POSITIONSplanet sign degree Sun Taurus 4¡Æ22'35 in house 10 Moon Aquarius 5¡Æ39'08 in house 6 Mercury Taurus 8¡Æ35'13 in house 10 Venus Gemini 17¡Æ38'17 in house 11 Mars Aquarius 11¡Æ40'50 in house 6 Jupiter Taurus 10¡Æ37'56 in house 10 Saturn Capricorn 2¡Æ21'18 in house 5 Uranus Capricorn 0¡Æ51'33 in house 5 Neptune Capricorn 10¡Æ07'53 end of house 5 Pluto Scorpio 11¡Æ23'18 in house 4 True Node Pisces 22¡Æ24'14 in house 8 Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)Ascendant Leo 24¡Æ44'31 2nd House Virgo 13¡Æ27'53 3rd House Libra 4¡Æ34'33 Imum Coeli Libra 28¡Æ52'40 5th House Scorpio 28¡Æ23'18 6th House Capricorn 11¡Æ20'23 Descendant Aquarius 24¡Æ44'31 8th House Pisces 13¡Æ27'53 9th House Aries 4¡Æ34'33 Medium Coeli Aries 28¡Æ52'40 11th House Taurus 28¡Æ23'18 12th House Cancer 11¡Æ20'23
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GypseeWind | Just wanted to say that my grandparents who were married over 50 years were Aries & Taurus. Also, my Aunt and Uncle, together for over 20 years were Aries & Taurus. Each couple died within around 18 mos or so of their spouse. Personally, I see ALOT of sign next door couples. I am a Sag who was with a Capricorn, and now I am with a Scorpio. Makes sense b/c we would probably each have planets in our neighboring signs. And not only that, but in general most of my friends are fall/winter babies, and I see alot of people who are friends that were born in the same season. |
TrueTaurus | GypseeWind, well that gives me hope. We're just trying to work things out now. I suggested that we need to be more intimate, spend more time doing a variety of things not sit around watching tv all the time. Basically, keep the romance going so we feel in love and happy again. |
Steam | quote: Originally posted by TrueTaurus: GypseeWind, well that gives me hope. We're just trying to work things out now. I suggested that we need to be more intimate, spend more time doing a variety of things not sit around watching tv all the time. Basically, keep the romance going so we feel in love and happy again.
I have sun, moon, mercury in Aries & I can't believe YOU are the one who is making the effort to inject some excitement/romance in the relationship! He is seriously slacking in that department I think this is a guy thing. They get complacent after a while. But if signs mean anything, he should appreciate your effort. I would and that is usually my 'job' in relationships. Keeping it fresh & alive always |
TrueTaurus | I know it's kind of ironic. You would think he's adventurous and enthusiastic but I saw that only in the beginning of our relationship. He was never energetic. I think he's a quiet Aries but I see that more of a problem than good because he keeps things inside. I suggest that we need to keep our relationship alive because I'm the type to think ahead. He thinks more on an impulse and never plans. I see that in the long run it will not work out if we don't have fun and be happy. He says he isn't happy either but he doesn't know why. I've taken a relationship class before and if you lose the intimacy, the relationship goes along with it. However I know that he will never initiate doing anything with me so that's disappointing. I can't work on this alone. |
Steam | "However I know that he will never initiate doing anything with me so that's disappointing. I can't work on this alone." You should not be alone in this and I'm afraid all I can do is probably tell you what you already know. My advice is to demand more from him if you haven't already. Straight out tell him what you need. If you did that, then yeah, disappear from him and look forward to a future with a much better suited partner. Life is too short to waste time on an unresponsive partner who doesn't appreciate you. I move on fast from this. I so wanna kick him in the arse! |
akuna | Your talking relationship TWO people..I'll speak of relationship within as ONE as I'm a Taurus sun Aries rising...a hard mix being such different persona..but I find my "leave me alone to peacefully graze Bull" uses that Aries "don't tread on me" as protection from this harsh world that doesn't seem to recognize we all have a right to be our selves living our lives as we choose so long as we don't infringe on the rights of others to do the same. Aries me speaks up before the Bull has a chance to snort and charge. Now maybe this attraction which is the last word in polarity opposition could find a melding in the world if looked at as becoming one to exhibit what the other doesn't have and together making a compatible whole. Blessing with this... |
TrueTaurus | I had two choices. To either stay in the relationship with him saying he doesn't know what to do, that he doesn't know right now whether or not he could prioritize me. I said prioritizing is commitment. He says he needs to get his life together first. He couldn't make up his mind to break up with me, but that is what he wanted. I'm the one who kept saying it's worth trying for because we've been through a lot together. But I was unhappy either way. I had to break up with him. I told him this is not what I want... It's been three days and it's SO hard. I'm very heartbroken because I dreamt of having something bigger and beautiful with him. |
Steam | "To either stay in the relationship with him saying he doesn't know what to do, that he doesn't know right now whether or not he could prioritize me. I said prioritizing is commitment. He says he needs to get his life together first. " As painful as it is now, it's better than being with someone who gives you less than %100. You are so right in saying that prioritizing is commitment. |