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T O P I C R E V I E WhippichickI think alot of time, especially women, mourn, after a break up the loss of "love" not necessairally the loss of the individual.Upon a recent breakup imposed by me, I am sad, but in retrospect, I am really sad about the loss of "love" which was false and not really there anyway, and not the individual.I know alot really grieve over the loss of the love of, for an individual, but in my Pisces case, I am always mourning "love" and not the individual.Early morning ponderings....Gemmy quote:Upon a recent breakup imposed by me, I am sad, but in retrospect, I am really sad about the loss of "love" which was false and not really there anyway, and not the individual.I know the feeling. RandallI feel you. I do that, too. So, even though it may be much more common with women, some men also react that way. cappy1277i see the end of relationship as a sort of death. you go through the stages of grieving similar to losing a loved one except they still walk the earth. I think it is completely healthy to do this when ending a relationship because it helps to give you the opportunity to heal if need be. LionFishLove makes my world go 'round, and when it's lost or ended, I tend to do this as well. Depending on the depth of the relationship (time holds no bounds on depth) it can leave me feeling anywhere from a pinprick of pain to crying on the floor in agony of a broken heart. ------------------Leo ASC, Pis Sun, Tau moonhippichickThank you all for your replies....Heartwarming and it feels good to not be alone....but at the same time it is a blessing to be all~0net~Aquacheeka quote:Originally posted by hippichick:I think alot of time, especially women, mourn, after a break up the loss of "love" not necessairally the loss of the individual.Upon a recent breakup imposed by me, I am sad, but in retrospect, I am really sad about the loss of "love" which was false and not really there anyway, and not the individual.I know alot really grieve over the loss of the love of, for an individual, but in my Pisces case, I am always mourning "love" and not the individual.Early morning ponderings....Moon in Pisces and I am the same way. I grieve the memories, I grieve the death of love and for what that means.. does that mean that love is always fleeting, transient? Did I choose poorly? Can I trust myself to choose better next time or can I even trust anyone else to always love me?Mystic MelodyI just saw this... I've been enmeshed in my own stuff. I'm sorry, dear H.C.SparklingSagI feel this way right now, grieving for the love and touch of my ex. Sudden ending, no time to process it. Such sadness.SparklingIntenseCappyI totally understand where you are coming from. We broke up weeks ago, but I just moved out, and I miss being around him. We were starting to become detached even though we loved each other during our 5 year relationship, but it can be hard sometimes. I obviously am not ready to get into anything serious right away, but I still yearn for love and that connection. My Libra moon makes me in love with love sort of. Lol.genesis3310I seem to go through stages of mourning. 1st it's probably the loss of the love, attention, and feelings I got from the person. This lasts a fairly long while for me, and it's pretty consuming. Then, once acceptance finally seeps in, I begin to genuinely miss the person for who they are, things we did together, the positive influence/interaction we had. And I'm not sure how long that lasts, because I'm still going through it over a couple of people. Loss is difficult no matter what you lose or miss. It can be shocking.
Upon a recent breakup imposed by me, I am sad, but in retrospect, I am really sad about the loss of "love" which was false and not really there anyway, and not the individual.
I know alot really grieve over the loss of the love of, for an individual, but in my Pisces case, I am always mourning "love" and not the individual.
Early morning ponderings....
quote:Upon a recent breakup imposed by me, I am sad, but in retrospect, I am really sad about the loss of "love" which was false and not really there anyway, and not the individual.
I know the feeling.
Depending on the depth of the relationship (time holds no bounds on depth) it can leave me feeling anywhere from a pinprick of pain to crying on the floor in agony of a broken heart.
------------------Leo ASC, Pis Sun, Tau moon
Heartwarming and it feels good to not be alone....but at the same time it is a blessing to be all~0ne
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quote:Originally posted by hippichick:I think alot of time, especially women, mourn, after a break up the loss of "love" not necessairally the loss of the individual.Upon a recent breakup imposed by me, I am sad, but in retrospect, I am really sad about the loss of "love" which was false and not really there anyway, and not the individual.I know alot really grieve over the loss of the love of, for an individual, but in my Pisces case, I am always mourning "love" and not the individual.Early morning ponderings....
Moon in Pisces and I am the same way. I grieve the memories, I grieve the death of love and for what that means.. does that mean that love is always fleeting, transient? Did I choose poorly? Can I trust myself to choose better next time or can I even trust anyone else to always love me?
Sparkling
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