Do Pisces men ever change their mind and come back? Particularly if you had a rocky start because of (mainly) his problems and issues. He is a pisces sun and also Venus in pisces, mars in pisces and cancer rising.
I am taurus sun, taurus moon, gemini Venus, libra rising, mars in Leo.
I met this pisces man online. Our first date didn't go too well, mainly because he was quite shy and nervous and he made me shy.
The next time we met was much better, lovely date, drinks, dinner and I ended up going home with him as I warmed up to him and it felt right.
He blew hot and cold with a lot. He never called,most of the time I had to initiate contact by text to which he would reply quite quickly. I had to take the.lead and.suggest things. He was flaky, saying he'd want to do something and not get round to it.
But he was very sweet, gentle and caring when we were together. I felt well looked after and special to him. He asked questions about my leave and was I taking vacations as he may want to come.
He aired his dirty laundry quite early on. Told me of his ex who left him a few months ago when they were together 4 years. She wasn't right for him, years older and clinically depressed. He said he doesn't like being single either.
He had job problems: he was in a bad job that made him depressed and he left it. He was between jobs when we met. He got another job when we were together. the new job was bad too. His mood declined badly when he started his new job.
I noticed he has very dark moods. He couldn't switch off and leave work behind, he let it affect everything, most of all, us. I was caring and sympathetic and listened to him and tried to make.him feel better.
We had a lovely date about 3 weeks ago. He'd been having a rough time at work with long hours. He stayed in touch by text for days afterwards. Then he vanished for nearly a week. I finally asked what was wrong and he text me back and said work was awful not in the right frame of mind for dating anyone.
I was upset so probed further and he then said I'm a great person but we've got nothing in common for long term. I pointed out its only been 6 dates and too early to assess as all we did was.have dinner and talk about work. He didn't know me well enough to.tell and he had said no one falls for.him until.they know him well.
I gave him a hard time slightly as I was hurt but I made it clear I liked him. I apologised a few days later on text but its now 2 weeks since I heard from him.
So my question is: we got on well, we had amazing sex, he didn't take the time to get to know me as he was always.busy at work. He has very black moods and takes life and work stress very hard, he is very sensitive and can't seem to shrug things off.
If / when he sorts his mess out is it likely he will change his.mind and contact me?
What should I do? Leave him alone or stay in contact with him and what should I say?
I've been.reading lots that pisces men always.come back. how true Is that?
Thank you.