posted September 18, 2008 01:21 PM            

In bed too????

posted September 18, 2008 05:22 PM              

it doesn't take much to get my mind wandering today..

submissive - fun

shy - not so fun - unless you slow way way down and make it yummy - making love style instead of hot sex style.

posted September 19, 2008 04:22 PM            

Anywhooo... I'll contribute. It's a reason to talk about myself so I'll gladly take it.

Here goes:

1 Cancer Moon person = 5 people in the sack.

This is because we have different moods which change from day to day. Literally. I can be coy and shy, then I can be confident but gentle. Then I can be aggressive and a little fast paced; and then at times I am just not in the mood at all. I can be playful and naughty or just plain dark and kinky. I can be down for a quickie with my partner or I can disappear from the world for the entire weekend.

Cancer Moon sex is emotional.

Make up sex is something we enjoy. I think it comes with the territory because our moods can cause some confusion and disagreements; so maybe you can pi$$ him(your Cancer Moon) off for the purpose of make-up sex. *shrugs* But do so at your own risk.

The thing is, Cancer Moon will most likely wait for you to choose the pace because we are flexible in bed (multiple personalities), so a Cancer Moon might wait to let you choose your desired pace. They always say that Scorpio is the culprit but Cancers are just as bad.

Cancer Moon is in no rush

If you understand that it's the journey that counts, and not the destination, then you will understand Cancer Moon. We are emotionally driven, and personally, I can't let all of me out before I am connected to you emotionally. This means that I must trust you. Trust takes a while and we will take our time.

Cancer Moon POP QUIZ

And another thing about Cancer Moon is that we will show the worst of who we are before we show the best of who we are. It's basic security to separate the fickle from the sincere. We do this because we are a lot to handle. A lot! So, we need to check that you can handle us because once we go there with you, we are pretty much yours! They are not faking their worst when it comes out. Instead of giving you the sugar-coated version, which they give to the general public, they just loosen their restraint on their emotions with YOU ONLY and act shy if they are shy instead of putting up a brave face. Generally, if the Cancer Moon was just out for a shag, he would put on his Cardinal gloves and sort you out, but if Cancer Moon likes you - he could just decide to show his vulnerability to you and show his shyness.

Cancer Moon Shyness

So, a shy Cancer Mooner could just be throwing you off and giving you a curve ball because that is exactly how it is to coexist with a Cancer Mooner, curve ball after curve ball.

It could also be something as simple as being uncomfortable with his/her surroundings.

Of course, it could have just been a nice way to say "No Thanks" without spelling it out.

Also, insecurity can make Cancer Moon withdraw, actually anything uncomfortable makes Cancer Moons withdraw but they seldom show this to people. They usually pull themselves together and do what needs to be done, regardless of shyness.

posted September 19, 2008 05:54 PM            

Special thank you to Unmoved, well explained, I enjoyed reading it!

But boyzzz! I want to know about boys/men with Cancer Moon.

posted September 22, 2008 03:30 PM            

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"And another thing about Cancer Moon is that we will show the worst of who we are before we show the best of who we are. It's basic security to separate the fickle from the sincere. We do this because we are a lot to handle. A lot! So, we need to check that you can handle us because once we go there with you, we are pretty much yours! "

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posted August 23, 2011 03:05 PM            

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Originally posted by violet7887:
I like to be bare, raw and just the way I am.

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me2 i am also a cancer moon (aquarius sun) n i feel u on that one =) i also wear my heart on my sleeve.

posted August 24, 2011 12:10 AM            

Hmmm, I've ony met one person with a Cancer Moon expect myself. She was one of my bestest firends, then I moved away. Anyhow, my relationship with her was great, we understood each other well(she was a Leo Sun and I'm a Gemini Sun). Compatibilty over all though, is a whole another story because I've also known people whos Sun and Moon placements flow with mine but the rest of there chart clashed and we found it very hard to understand each other. And vice versa, I;ve known people who's Asc, Sun Moon are in contrast to mine but we have so much other synastry that those couple of things dont matter. You have to look at synastry aspects over all between your natal charts. The fact that you both have Cancer moons is a good aspect, it's prob something else that creates tension between you two.

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Out of myself, but wanting to go beyond that wanting what I see in your eyes, not power, but to kiss the ground with the dawn breeze for company, wearing white pilgrim cloth.

posted August 25, 2011 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by Nancy24:
Hey guys, I've been reading your comments and I have to say I'm into a guy who has a moon in cancer. He is shy. I'm not sure how to act when I'm around him. I'm afraid my (wrongly perceived) authoritarian attitude will scare him off, on the other hand I can't pretend to be be shy and passive simply because I'm not. Can a relationship be started at all if both partners are shy? I like him but I'm not sure I could be with him. I would be very grateful if someone educated astrology wise could interpret our compatibility chart. I have strong feelings for him and I wonder whether anyone could explain it to me 'scientifically'. I've been reading definitions online of certain aspects, some of them are not actually promising. Please help me if you can. Thank you in advance
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07/01/1987 Aspect 06/22/1982 Orb/Value
Sun Square Mars 0.30 -244
Mercury Square Saturn 2.14 -101
Venus Opposition Neptune 0.48 -66
Venus Trine Pluto 0.34 64
Mars Sextile Venus 0.16 99
Mars Square Pluto 2.31 -62
Jupiter Trine Neptune 0.29 60
Jupiter Opposition Pluto 1.51 -46
Saturn Sextile Saturn 0.46 55
Uranus Conjunction Neptune 1.24 81
Uranus Sextile Pluto 0.03 53
412 -519 -107

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Well, if those are the only aspects between your charts, it's bad news. Sun square Mars means that there will probably be a lot of fights and disagreements.
Mercury square Saturn is hard for communication, the Saturn person may limit the Mercury's person expression, and criticize them or put them down. The Saturn person may view the Mercury person as "immature" or not smart enough.
I really don't like Venus in hard aspect to Neptune... which you have. There might be surrealistic expectations, too many illusions, lies, deception, and big disappointment in the end. The Venus person idealizes the Neptune person, wears rose-colored glasses, and when reality strikes in, feelings are hurt.

Venus trine Pluto and Mars sextile Venus are good aspects, but they mostly show physical attraction rather than deep feelings of love, in my opinion.

Mars square Pluto can be hard, it suggests power struggles and ego games. The Pluto person usually has the upper hand, and can try to control the Mars person.

The rest of the aspects are generational, so I wouldn't pay too much attention to them.

Based on THESE aspects alone, this doesn't sound promising. BUT if there are other elements in the synastry to make it work, who knows, might work.

posted November 10, 2011 04:44 PM            

But actually, I'm a maniac in the sack, or where ever. I suppose I can chalk that up to Mars in Sag...and Mars square Pluto. My Venus is also in a fire sign (Leo).