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Topic: Aries moon men!
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GeminiLover75
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posted May 27, 2007 04:39 AM
 
Oookay. I'm wondering how good Aries moon guys are at relationships generally, and what is the type of woman that really 'hooks' them? IP: Logged |
SattvicMoon
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posted May 27, 2007 05:32 AM
Called me?hahahahaha, Well, I am not sure if it my crazy Aries Moon, but I like independent woman, who has a life for themselves, but when it comes to relations I would like them to be as committed as I am. Well, at least with my girl, I am glad I found her, she has a Libra Moon and a Sagittarian ASC and yeah she is a proud Leo. ------------------
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taurean_scorpion
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posted May 27, 2007 06:10 AM
okay, the guy i know is an aqua/aries/mars in aries...so quite an aries he is. he did not like my tendency to probe...esp. him. as a scorpio mooner, i have learned by my relationship with him not to intrude in his privacy...he does not like that. at first he confused me because i could not tell if he liked me or what....i suggest keep some distance on purpose and do not give your heart or mind away...(this is true in all cases). also like linda has said, don't be too ahead or behind him. when it comes to finding a girl, he's quite serious about it and will watch you for a while until he commits...that was my obseration of the aqua. i think the aries men tend to like girls with a bit of spice...and innocence at the same time. taurus/scorpio/cancer IP: Logged |
Dani California
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posted May 27, 2007 08:56 AM
Satvicmoon  hahahaha, you sound like my boyf, he's an aries mooner!! And I have moon in libra. Great to hear of another couple with Aries/libra moon match. Cool. Yeah, these aries moons like a woman who's independent & fiery all the same, but sweet as well........... IP: Logged |
Dani California
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posted May 27, 2007 08:58 AM
TaureanScorpion!!Sounds like the guy you know the Aqua, it sounds very much like an aqua!!! Man, do they hate people probing into their business. I find them to be very private & like a bit of distance, exactly as you say.  IP: Logged |
taurean_scorpion
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posted May 27, 2007 01:01 PM
Haha Yeah Dani California...Kind of hard to differentiate the two signs...Hm...both like a chase you know. IP: Logged |
comica23
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posted May 27, 2007 04:59 PM
Aries Moon people in love are like a child.. XP They love innocently, yet they are fiery and protective. When they want someone, they want him/her right now.. they are also passionate, but sometimes rather impulsive and aggressive.
As an Aries Moon person myself, I'd say that guys with this Moon (and girls also) would prefer someone that loves them by who they are, to be honest and committed to them, to be always interested in their stuffs, to be confident of themselves, respect their independency and be independent).. They can be quite narcissist and self-centered, but they can be easily melted by cuteness and gentleness (they react aggressively to aggressiveness, but melt easily by sweetness) :PResuming, to be with an Aries Mooner, just be honest, energetic and patient (to keep up with this active child lol), be yourself, be confident and be interested in him/her. ^_^ *edit* you know for sure that he is yours when he says "she's/you're mine" ahah~~ XD IP: Logged |
pidaua
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posted May 28, 2007 12:55 AM
comica, From another Aries mooner- very well said! ------------------
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Kermeez Shroff
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posted May 28, 2007 01:44 AM
hey ppl wats up? my boyfriend too has an aries moon. it makes him possessive mischievious sometimes hot tempered and pretty much engrossed in his own emotions. but it also makes him generous to d limit. fun loving and a great kisser haha. by d way i'm an aries sun with a cancer moon which gets us into clashes a few times. it also makes me 2 much sensitive. any one else with aries moon and cancer moon love between tem? i would love to hear. none the less Aries ROCKS.... IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted May 28, 2007 01:46 AM
lol, this is great. Hehe, the reason I asked (in a somewhat Scorpio moon-ish way) is because my bf of now almost two years (how time flies!) is an Aries moon. And an Aries rising to boot. And a Gemini. :0 You have all described his better points so well! I'm glad you said cuteness and fire, lol, that's what I wanted to hear. A lesson I've been learning, which has been such a difficult one for me as a Taurus/Scorpio/Sag is not to react aggressively sometimes. He does sooooooo love the "cuteness" aspect... which I have, but it's hard to always be cute and sweet during those moments when I perceive him as being selfish - the Taurus/Scorpio combination is determined and strong, the Scorpio moon feels so deeply, and my Sag rising can be blunt. For example, we both have sore backs right now and this is what happened the other night. Me: Could you please rub the reflexology points on my feet for my spine?
Him: No I'm too busy.
LATER IN THE EVENING...
Him: Can you rub my back?
Me: Sorry, I've got a sore back too and I can't put in the energy cos it'll hurt my back more.
Him: Gee you're selfish!!!! Okay, w/e.  A lot of the time I can ignore those moments and just go off and do my own thing because honestly, it just doesn't suit me to cater to every single whim if I'm not feeling like it. He gets his fair share of attention! But when the selfish attitude starts to show, I am outta there to do things of my own. So I'm wondering, is that the right thing? And the times when I decide to bring it up to him things like "hey I didn't like it when you....[insert heinous crime here]" he feels like I'm telling him what to do and I find myself getting a bit aggressive in response - to which he will say "gee you're aggressive!" So how can I put things in such a way that I can get my point across without him feeling like I'm telling him what to do or being aggressive? Wow this post opened up a lot of interesting points! IP: Logged |
jane
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posted May 28, 2007 02:22 AM
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So how can I put things in such a way that I can get my point across without him feeling like I'm telling him what to do or being aggressive?
My man has his Venus in Aries and if Moon in Aries is similar, they like a little friendly competition. So if my bf were in one of his knucklehead moods and asked for a back rub after he had earlier refused my request, I'd carry out the convo like this... Him: Can you rub my back?
Me: (Philosophically) Mmm, a back rub sure would feel good, wouldn't it? (Say it in a way like you're imagining it happening, but not yet committed to actually doing it. He'd love the mini-chase of getting you to say yes.)
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Me: You wanna make me feel good too?
Him: Yes. (Or if he's in his smart ass mood..."Wasn't planning on it, but if you insist.")
And then I'd tell him what I'd like in exchange for the back rub or let him choose the exchange himself. I think it's important when you feel like he's being selfish to address it right that moment in a playful, flirty way (if possible for that situation). I think sometimes people with an Aries influence need to be reminded to remember Libra reciprocity and they happily go along with it. Like anyone, they don't like to be controlled or have their basic personality criticized, so if you keep the conversation light and playful they'll know how you feel about the issue w/o feeling personally attacked. My 2 cents after 5 years with an Aries Venus. (I've got it easier though since he's a Taurus Sun.)
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GeminiLover75
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posted May 28, 2007 02:48 AM
Good advice! I sometimes get the smart-assy, detached "I don't care either way" response... He's Gemini sun, mercury and venus with Mars in Aquarius... good Lord...  Sooo what I usually do then in a light-hearted way is an "I don't care either" response and then no one gets anything, so it kinda backfires. lol. I have noticed that the "I'll do something for you if you do something for me" approach tends to work. He's so into bargaining with people and is an aggressive competitor!
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jane
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posted May 28, 2007 03:10 AM
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He's so into bargaining with people.
Exactly! I've noticed that about the people I know with an Aries influence. While Libra naturally sees which choice would best balance the needs of both and is drawn towards that choice, Aries likes to express his own will in determining and creating that balance. And if you make the negotiation fun, they're even more into it. Negotiation also appeals to their competitive side. Wow, that's a lot of air you're dealing with! I'm so sorry . If I got the "I don't care either way" response, I'd say something like, "Really? That makes me sad. I think we both would've enjoyed it. Oh well." I think the key is to be firm and direct enough to let your needs known, but in a good-natured way. This is probably a good way to handle most conflicts, but I think it's especially helpful when it's something that's a basic part of that person's disposition. You want them to feel like you're having fun with who they are, good and bad parts.
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Neon Artemis
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posted May 28, 2007 10:30 AM
I think the key with so much fire energy is to NOT consider their feelings, because they don't consider yours. They will find what bothers you emotionally and use it without hesitation (hence, the gee you're agressive or selfish comments) because they are out for VICTORY. I think they respect *action*, (I find a lot of men are like this in general) not talking or giving them examples and especially by not considering them when they are acting like jerks. If they realize they won't get what they want when they act that way, they will stop doing it.IP: Logged |
comica23
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posted May 28, 2007 03:19 PM
Nuoo don't ignore Aries people's feelings lool.. ;_;I guess that selfishness is when we put our own needs in consideration first even knowing about other people's needs and feelings.. But an Aries might sometimes not notice other people's needs and feelings easily, so that's why they are considering themselves first, and it makes them being seen as selfish people often.. So the best thing is telling an Aries how you feel directly (but not aggressively), in case he/she didn't notice it. If this Aries is mature enough, he/she will also try to consider your needs/feelings first.. ^_^ Btw, I don't think that every person with lotsa fire influence would use something that bothers someone emotionally without hesitation.. Only an immature and manipulative person would do such a thing, and honestly, for that it could be from any other sign.. ^_^; IP: Logged |
Dani California
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posted May 28, 2007 04:41 PM
Oh my god, this thread is sooooo good!! My boyf is Taurus sun, with Aries moon & Aries Venus, hehe!!! Described to a T!!! I have moon in Libra, my do we see things differently. You just gotta let them think it was all THEIR idea............ IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted May 28, 2007 05:45 PM
Hmmmm lots of food for thought in this thread! Neon Artemis, I guess the times when I drop him like a hot potato when I'm perceiving something selfish, is doing what you suggested - then he will run after me and get all cute. I agree that action rather than words is what most men respond to. We do get into power struggles... Aries moon vs. Scorpio moon... you can imagine. He's more competitive whereas I'm more "sting-y", both of us trying to be dominant. I like to avoid that scenario, and I wish I could do that more often... but without coming across as wishy-washy or passive. I think I would win more often, if I was able to create more win-win situations. And let him think that HE won. lol.
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Dani California
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posted May 29, 2007 09:40 AM
Yep, let him think he WON lololol!! IP: Logged |
Thethirdbenjamin
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posted May 30, 2007 09:51 PM
Hmmm....He must be quick wited and realy fast, With his gemini and aries moon working together. I'm pretty quick with my aries moon and gemini sun sometimes.... I'm quickly in one direction and then suddenly decide to drop everything and go the other way just like that. If i sleep for more then 9hrs I get up all pumped up and ready to rush out the door.
I've gotten up and changed in 12min once, that includes a shower. I guess the only diffrence between me and him is I have an Capircorn rising instead of an aries rising and of course i'm half his age. Is he short tempared at times? say he gets realy angry almost to point of wanting to "brake something" then he ends of cooling off by the end of the day??. IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted May 31, 2007 03:21 AM
Oh man, describing yourself you also described him! lol. And yeah he gets a quick temper too, like he'll want to break the computer if things are going wrong but it quickly passes in a matter of seconds. IP: Logged |
SilverFairy
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posted May 31, 2007 04:47 AM
This thread is amusing, being an Aries mooner myself. Passionate? YES! Playful? OH YEAH! Aggressive? Uh-huh! lol I think there's a ton of great comments made and I agree. We may seem selfish or childish but damn it we care!! LOL IP: Logged |
chotG
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posted June 01, 2007 02:03 AM
wow!! I hv moon in aries & sun in gem too...everything described here is pretty 100% close 'bout me very well playful, sumtimes my frens hv to warn me to stop jumping  around like a kid, but man i can't help it. Agree very much with comica "react aggressively to aggressiveness, but melt easily by sweetness". I get pretty upset with people who are aggresive towards me or my love ones, not to mention my temper..haha once i was so hot tempered i threw my hphone frm my 9th floor apartment..hehehe..that's the only one time i lost my temper. Well it was 10 years ago..and for my feelings, especially love, don't really say much about it. Just really can't open my mouth as if a cat got my tongue...But usually it shows when i like someone and when i do say i love them, i really meant it!! although u'll get  with the detachment sumtimes, can't help it, it's just like yeah...i know u're here in front of me but excuse me i want to be in  to visit an  for a moment....haha no offence..whoever can put up with an aries moon person must be one hell of a great person. IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
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posted June 01, 2007 02:07 AM
From what I can see, there's a warm and protective side to the Aries moon. As for being a hell of a great person for putting up with an Aries moon person, lol! I guess I'm a hell of a great person then.
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Dani California
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posted June 01, 2007 12:53 PM
Ah good, that means I'm a hell of a great person as well then, lol!! IP: Logged |
Thethirdbenjamin
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posted June 01, 2007 05:26 PM
I think its just the tempermental side of things.. if you can get passed that...then all is good i think, for example before i got my new laptop, i was using my old P4 Desktop and it whould always stall on me.. and i whould get so mad and slam the mouse... I've broken three mouses before I got my laptop. IP: Logged |
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