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lolamonroe
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posted October 12, 2007 05:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What aspects trigger love at first sight.
I know that the sun opposite pluto is pure chemistry.
I also belive that mars trine pluto is a sexual intensity.

Or what aspects should we look for in isentifying sexual chemistry???

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posted October 12, 2007 05:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When I go to cafeastrology, its usually the sun/pluto aspects that give the "love-at-first-sight" interpretation.

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BlueMeenee
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posted October 12, 2007 05:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Very good question, I don't know. I do know, the first time my husband saw me at work, he told his best friend who was with him he was going to marry me. I wasn't aware of him at all until about 6 weeks after that, and it was instant from that point on. We were married 3 months after we initially started dating, 3 1/2 months after the initial meeting. He's my best friend in the whole world.

Data for Mollie,:
Tropical Zodiac
House System: PLACIDUS
Standard time observed
Time Zone: 7 hours West
GMT: 18:10:00
33 N 25 111 W 49
Sun 13 deg 03 min Aqu
Moon 1 deg 24 min Vir
Merc 21 deg 55 min Aqu
Venus 21 deg 21 min Pis
Mars 13 deg 21 min Vir
Jup 8 deg 01 min Vir
Sat 26 deg 23 min Vir
Uran 25 deg 15 min Sco
Nept 21 deg 58 min Sag
Pluto 21 deg 45 min Lib
Asc. 3 deg 34 min Tau
MC 21 deg 05 min Cap
2nd 4 deg 33 min Gem
3rd 28 deg 28 min Gem
5th 16 deg 44 min Leo
6th 20 deg 18 min Vir

Data for nate,:
Tropical Zodiac
House System: PLACIDUS
Standard time observed
Time Zone: 5 hours West
GMT: 15:26:00
39 N 45 77 W 34
Sun 29 deg 59 min Ari
Moon 3 deg 32 min Leo
Merc 19 deg 51 min Tau
Venus 8 deg 25 min Gem
Mars 11 deg 06 min Tau
Jup 10 deg 04 min Sag
Sat 1 deg 13 min Sco
Uran 8 deg 32 min Sag
Nept 29 deg 08 min Sag
Pluto 28 deg 05 min Lib
Asc. 20 deg 02 min Can
MC 2 deg 16 min Ari
2nd 9 deg 56 min Leo
3rd 3 deg 04 min Vir
5th 8 deg 34 min Sco
6th 16 deg 52 min Sag

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lolamonroe
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posted October 12, 2007 05:28 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
got gemini...having Virgo ASC, do you feel you have barriers up all the time???

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posted October 12, 2007 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini?     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not really. I mean, I don't let peopleknow my personal business if I don't know them well or trust that they won't keep it between us, but as far as anything else goes, nope. No barriers here.

Perhaps I am not understanding your question. Is there any specific type of barrier you have in mind?

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lolamonroe
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posted October 12, 2007 05:48 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
although I am an Aries, I can sometimes fel my asc/Virgo working against my true nature. I am usually outgoing and happy to meet new people but when I am in the situation, I shut down and just observe everyone else...I guess to see how to approach them....but I can tell something holds me back.

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SagSun
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posted October 12, 2007 06:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
What aspects trigger love at first sight.
I know that the sun opposite pluto is pure chemistry.
I also belive that mars trine pluto is a sexual intensity.

Or what aspects should we look for in isentifying sexual chemistry???


I don't think that one single aspect can trigger love at first sight ... especially not when one of the planets involved is an outer planet. Pluto for instance moves so slowly that we'd have that aspect with everyone born in a certain year. If however those Pluto aspects are combined with other aspects, they can definitely enhance the attraction.

Generally speaking I think that contacts between Venus/Mars, Moon/Venus and contacts between one person's Ascendant and the other persons Sun/Moon/Venus/North Node are very strong. Venus/Pluto contacts enhance that attraction.

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MUSTANG
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posted October 12, 2007 06:15 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have sun square pluto with someone and I was immediately attracted to him. It is unheard of me being attracted to someone right away - I usually have to be friends with him for a long time.

So, maybe there's something to it.

There's one other guy whose exact birth time I know and who I was very immediately attracted to - I'll have to check out our synastry, because he's the only other person I was immediately attracted to.

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Diandra23
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posted October 12, 2007 06:40 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Between me and my Bf was love at first sight definatelly!

I think that Venus/Neptune contacts also add to the instant connection as well the Sun aspecting AC and Sun/Venus conjuntion.

we ghave that in composite and it worked very well hihih

About the Sun/Pluto i think some calls it dificult for relationships...

I would look to those already talked about : The Moon/Venus is about ideal woman and Yup Venus/PLuto is wayyy talkes about regarding powerful conections ( specially the trine or conjunction)

Dont look as "instant atraction" as equal as "love at first sight" cause Love is a very diferent thing, more deep and more magic - i also would look to venus/uranus good aspects on that.

If some of the above are rightful in the sinastry you can also look to the love asteroids:isis/osiris/valentine/amor/eros/psyche/karma also.
Many times these asteroids tells us a lot more than we can think of

For sexual chemistry:mars/venus aspects in tight and also juno/kiron.

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posted October 12, 2007 08:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CoralFrequency     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol I don't believe in love at first sight. You don't know the person.. that early and you can't be in love without knowing someone.
You can be attracted.. but love - that's a whole 'nother basket of cookies.

I do believe in the possibility of past lives and the person can seem familiar - but that's more a feeling of familiarity not love - because you still don't know the person they are in this life time..

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venusdeindia
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posted October 13, 2007 11:25 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i m with Diandra.
usually love at first sight is only possible amongst soulmates who have been in a marriage or lovers, or else twin souls.
of course both theses cases r rare , so everything else is pure chemistry

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Diandra23
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posted October 13, 2007 01:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

What Venus said it was what I thought when i meant Love

If you feel at the first moment that he/she feels very familiar and yet, its the 1st time you see each other ,but yet you cant stop feelin very secure,accepted and naturally WITH the person...then its not just about chemistry - you know each other from past lives and that feeling is mutual.

I believe in Love at 1St Sight - its not just in the movies.

For example a placement that indicates that the 2 persons were married in some other life its juno conjuncting the SN of another; or a venus/valentine conj to others SN mean past life lovers also.

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LeoCat
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posted October 23, 2007 06:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Maybe some of us are talking about lust at first sight.

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lolamonroe
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posted October 23, 2007 06:32 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lust equates heavy opposites and trines I think and love is moon conjunctions...?

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posted October 23, 2007 08:09 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are you talking about the asteroid Lust? Or whatever it is.....My natal Lust conjuncts his natal Juno exact degree, does that mean we are opposites?

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lolamonroe
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posted October 24, 2007 11:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
conjunctions can be same sign, same degrees or within I think it's 3 degrees?...


anything conjunct juno brings sparks.

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afroken
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posted October 26, 2007 10:19 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i think you're right about the juno. I never thought of juno untill you mentioned it.
No wonder im attracted to so many cancerians..
haha. they just give me some kind of feeling..

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posted October 26, 2007 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I have met guys that I said hmmmm he's cute but nothing breath taking like what love at first sight kind of does..But there was this one guy and I mean the minute we saw each other there was some sparks and he said to me hi in a excited kind of way and I was like hi back in that same way..Oh there was something definetly happening here..Usually I take a minute to warm up too men I am usually distant but I felt close to him..However he turned out to be married and that killed any chances for him however he still wanted to see me, he's nuts..I still see him from time to time and I can feel his vibe at a distance when I see him, he still looks at me with that look and I can feel it..


He is a Libra Sun with Pisces moon and my Venus trines his Pluto..I understood the energy between us after doing our charts..I am a Pisces Sun..

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posted October 26, 2007 12:35 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I used to say that love at first sight was impossible too. Until it happened to me..twice.

Both times transit Venus was squaring my natal Uranus/Venus conjunction and conjuncting my natal Mars. Unfortunately I only have the second guys chart, and his Venus was also conjuncting my natal Venus and Uranus. His Mars is exactly opposite my Sun. Other than that nothing else.

Both those first meetings were very intense. Like electrical power going through my body. I remember the first time I met each of them like it was yesterday. It was this instant infatuation that I had no idea how to interpret. They weren't even that good-looking. They just looked at me like I wanted to be looked at. And of course in a classic Uranian way I got over it pretty fast and unexpectetly.

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posted October 26, 2007 02:12 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As far as aspects go...instant love at first sight, Im thinking aspects to venus. Either Venus conjunct Venus, Venus conjunct another's Mars, or a Venus conjunct their Sun.

But first sight also has the ascendant coming into play as well, since it is the first thing we notice or see when we see a person...

But you guys above mentioned Pluto contacts too. Ive wondered if that can be possible too, as it covers sooo many people for that. But I do think that a person's Sun conjunct Pluto can create "mesmerizing" effects...this was stated in astrology.com i believe.


I also believe too that given a particular day and time, it might be creating positive aspects to both parties at the same time, like positive transits to both natal charts.

ts a combination of factors I think.

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posted October 16, 2011 04:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for curiouswoman     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i believe sun square pluto is love at first sight

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posted October 16, 2011 05:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysticknowflake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus conjunct mars.... LUST as first sight! haha

Love at first sight might also be venus conjunct sun, venus conjunct first house cusp or trining by tight orb. You love the way they appear.

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posted October 16, 2011 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for fenia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Mysticknowflake:
Venus conjunct mars.... LUST as first sight! haha

Love at first sight might also be venus conjunct sun, venus conjunct first house cusp or trining by tight orb. You love the way they appear.


If her Venus and Mars falls in my 1rst house she can fall in love with me instantly? Cause it happened to me, I like her attitude, style..

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posted October 16, 2011 02:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RegardesPlatero     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't believe in love at first sight. It isn't "love" if you don't know the person. It's lust or infatuation. True love takes time to develop and to grow, and needs to go through trials. How can you know that you love someone if you've never had the chance to forgive each other or experience reconciliation? How do you know that you really love someone until you've had to face rough times together and have seen that person's true colors?

Also, different people have their charts manifest differently, so two people with the same positions could show different sides of it. For example, you could have one Libra sun be a party girl/guy and another show more of Libra's love of books: one could show the social side and the other could show the intellectual airy side. So, even if you're normally into a certain chart position, there could be exceptions, as well as there being exceptions when you don't normally like a certain chart position, but find a special person with that position that you do like.

Astrology represents tendencies; there's always free will and other elements that have to be taken into consideration too.

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posted October 18, 2011 06:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mysticknowflake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by fenia:
If her Venus and Mars falls in my 1rst house she can fall in love with me instantly? Cause it happened to me, I like her attitude, style..

Very Cool!~ What is your first house sign, if I may ask?

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