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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted December 03, 2003 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have found that this is a very intense placement of Pluto, especially considering the fact that my Pluto is also in Scorpio natally. I'm so freaking intense about relationships, that I think I scare off way too many people for my liking. Has anyone else with this placement found this true, or been involved with someone who has this placement? What are the pros? the cons?
I'm really interested in feeling less alone in my weird intensely possessive and dark tendancies...

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"Most people love with restraint
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We hated gently, carefully
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posted December 03, 2003 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lllog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have my natal Pluto in my 7th house, and relationships have not been the most positive. I've been in two marriages, neither one worked, and now I'm in a relationship that appears to be working fine.

Lanny

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posted December 03, 2003 09:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One of my brothers had Pluto in Leo in 7th. Seems he was so intense HIMSELF that he hardly even had any relationships.

The couple that i remember him having were with girls of questionable repute, ended up using him -- poor fella. I do remember his compulsion once the relationships got started, tho they didn't last long. It's true that even friends were hesitant to get to know him better, as he was so intense. And he had such a lovely Venus in Pisces too.

hmmm -- this got me thinking -- He with the intense Pluto in 7th, me with Scorp Asc. I did well remember the loving relationship WE had with is Venus closely Conjunt my closely conj Pisces stellium -- Sun, Jup, Merc, NN. Seems i was the only one who knew what a "sweetie" he really was.

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posted December 04, 2003 12:17 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello there Virgo Artist! I think artists are more intense and posessive, it takes courage to be that way you know. There's nothing wrong with being who you are, it just takes so long to figure it out.

I have Pluto in the 10th in Virgo conjunct Uranus in Libra, and conjunct Jupiter in Virgo and conjunct the midheaven in Virgo and South node.

Also my Venus is at the weak point in a T-Sqquare in Aries so I am pretty intense and have had quite a few crushes. I have to keep cool and practice distance and emotional detachement. I have to practice having an open mind too.

I don't know about Pluto in the 10th but I think because it's conjunct my midheaven and uranus in libra it makes me ultra firm on commitment.
My sister is also Pluto in the 10th in Libra and she had a rough time early on but fell for a Scorpio and now they are married happily with 2 kids.

She is ultra intense and a little controlling of the relationship. She knew the minute she met her husband at 16 he was the one and pursued him.
She had it all set up, luckily he went for it, but then he is a cool Scorpio with mars in Aqua, and she is a Sag. Sags and Aqua seem to really get along.

That's my take on Pluto. Having Uranus in Libra in the 10th is no cake walk either, it's all look good, look good for me, and what can you do for my career baby. Not much emotional susteance there for me either. But we get our cards, you know.

Natasha
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posted December 04, 2003 12:57 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Virgo-Aries Artist!

I have Pluto in the 7th in Leo, and I have been very intense (yes, and controlling - I hate to say it)in my family/romantic past relationships. I can think of only one relationship where I haven't had the force/ power/control/leadership, and that was with my Scorpio sun/rising son. I can't outwit him or control him. He was a great lesson for me. I'm a different person today. I have trained myself not to be so controlling. I also have venus in Taurus in the 4th, and almost all of my relationships with family members and romantic partners have been very loving, with me receiving benefits and kindess. I also believe that pluto in the 7th gives me tremendous commitment ... like Natasha said,
I am "ultra firm on commitment". There is almost nothing I wouldn't do for a family member, including:
1. Father-in-law living with us (Didn't like his living conditions, so took charge and had him move in).
2. Had my niece live with us for a year (Again, took charge when her parents got divorced and she wasn't really wanted).
3. Drove an hour every week to help out my older aunt (her kids sure weren't there for her).

I could continue with the list. Because of my Aries nature, I sometimes feel put-upon and fed-up with helping out. But, I just can't stand to see a friend or family member not getting help when they need it. I help, help, help, and then explode and complain. Not all of the time. Just some of the time.

Love,
Key

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Aphrodite
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posted December 04, 2003 01:04 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gotta love that Aries, Grrr take charge momentum and initiative!

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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted December 04, 2003 02:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey key and Aphrodite, I really hear you on that one, having an Aries rising myself. Committment, or lack of it in others, is a big thing for me. I can't stand being around and having to work with people that aren't 110% behind whatever they are doing, including relationships. I just can't find it in me to understand that wimpy behavior...LOL If it's not worth giving my all to, it's not worth putting any energy into at all.
I am impatient ( ), with those that won't committ to what they want and move forward with achieving "it", be "it" a romantic attachment, a new career, a certain dream, whatever. They frusterate me to no end. Perhaps that's why I am still single . If someone isn't willing to pursue me with everything they have, they're not worth wasting my time on.
Anyhow, nice to know others have had similar experiences.

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"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted May 17, 2012 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DreamFairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Pluto in Scorpio in the 7th and I also have Venus in Scorpio (House 8). I don't think others fond me intimidating, but maybe it is because I have Mars in Pisces. I have been told that my eyes can have a very intense look and indeed I have found it to be the case that I can communicate through my eyes a lot of things. I like being in a relationship, but I don't make the choice to go into one easily. I have said 'no' to dating someone if the potential for something meaningful or lasting is not there. I do have difficulty letting go of people from my life 'though, even when I'm the one making the choice to end a relationship. Yet I don't see me as being jealous or possessive. Maybe your moon sign plays a part on that, rather than your pluto planet.

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posted June 05, 2012 09:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nabila     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also have Pluto in Scorpio in the 7th house, as well as my Sun and Venus. I also have my Moon in Scorpio in the 6th house. Relationships have always been difficult for me and I have only been in one before due to these placements. I find it very hard to communicate my feelings, expressing myself once I have someone who is romantically interested in me and letting myself be vulnerable enough to actually take that step forward. I would have to say that one of the worst aspects of this, is that I am so analytical and aware of myself behaving in these ways that I seem to build up more and more walls the harder I try figure out ways to break them down.

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posted December 03, 2012 01:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, and old topic of mine, but still one that intensely perplexes me...

I have been told that perhaps I send off intense energy...so my question is, does that explain why people constantly misread my friendliness?

I don't know how to be friends at a distance, and enjoy deep conversations, and I feel like it clouds up my communications with the opposite gender. I am currently married, and I do not wish to go out of my way to avoid men, whether at work or school. but also don't know now to be less than my enthusiastic self.

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posted December 24, 2012 07:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Phoenix     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Virgo-AriesArtist:
Wow, and old topic of mine, but still one that intensely perplexes me...

I have been told that perhaps I send off intense energy...so my question is, does that explain why people constantly misread my friendliness?

I don't know how to be friends at a distance, and enjoy deep conversations, and I feel like it clouds up my communications with the opposite gender. I am currently married, and I do not wish to go out of my way to avoid men, whether at work or school. but also don't know now to be less than my enthusiastic self.


Hi I have a 7th house Libra Pluto, and my relationship or people I'm interested in have strong pluto stuff in their natal charts, or in our synastry and composite charts.. My Pluto is opposing my 1st house Moon and squaring my mercury.

I ended an year and half ago a relationship that lasted 9 years, where his moon is conjuncted my pluto, and our composite has pluto squaring moon and venus.

I had another intense love relationship (my Twin Flame), we had conjuncted moons, so moon-pluto double whammies in synastry, and pluto in contact with sun, moon and venus in composite.

Right now I love someone who has pluto in exact conjunction with my venus, and my pluto is in exact conjuntion with his mars, our composite mars is opposite to our composite pluto. The love for this guy kind of helps me not to get crazy with the stuff related to the relation I had with my ex-hubbie (moon/venus square pluto in synastry)..

I used to think I had a libra sensor because my friends and guys I like have strong libra traits but I realised not so long ago that it isnt the libra thing, it is my pluto in libra who makes me feel atracted to certain people.

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posted May 10, 2020 07:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leo-Cancer98     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Nabila:
I also have Pluto in Scorpio in the 7th house, as well as my Sun and Venus. I also have my Moon in Scorpio in the 6th house. Relationships have always been difficult for me and I have only been in one before due to these placements. I find it very hard to communicate my feelings, expressing myself once I have someone who is romantically interested in me and letting myself be vulnerable enough to actually take that step forward. I would have to say that one of the worst aspects of this, is that I am so analytical and aware of myself behaving in these ways that I seem to build up more and more walls the harder I try figure out ways to break them down.

What’s it like to have Scorpio Moon in the 6th House? Is it your only 6th House placement?

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2nd House Leo Sun
3rd House Leo Mercury
6th House Sagittarius Moon & Pluto
1st House Cancer Venus & Mars
9th House Pisces Jupiter conjunct MC.

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posted May 11, 2020 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, this thread is a blast from the past.

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