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Girl of the Water
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posted May 12, 2006 10:45 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am a Cancer, and the guy I've been with for over a year is a Scorpio. We've had plenty of problems in the past, but somehow we've been able to overcome them, and love each other even more. No matter how hopeless things seemed, I always stuck by my new rule of staying happy and positive, and things would turn out beautifully.
I would feel like I was destined to be with him, and he himself would say we were meant for each other.

Things have sort of turned for the worse, however, and I don't know if this is a situation that will clear up eventually or if we're seriously going to leave each other for this. I have depression, which is controllable most of the time when I'm really trying. But in the last few weeks I've been thinking about all the things in the past he's put me through, and eventually it all built up and I had an emotional outburst on him. He's been perfect in the last few months, so finally we're having a huge fight that isn't Scorpio's fault.

Now he's telling me that I'm too clingy and needy(I'm a Cancer, HELLO), that he doesn't want to feel obligated to be with me, even though he was always the one to talk of marriage and kids, and living together. He ignores me now and I know how he needs space in times like this to think things out, but it's just so hard for me not to talk to him. I've already apologized and made attempts to redeem myself so I could stop doing the things I do that ruin it.

I've gotten so depressed about this I've been having thoughts of suicide, and I can't stand it when I think like that because it doesn't help anything.

I just want to fix this up; this isn't the first time something like this has happened but this time I'm putting forth an honest effort to change this. He's saying he's sick of the way I act...

So if anyone can offer me some astrological insight, or any kind of insight at all, that would be great... but you don't have to. I just don't know what to do at this point.


MINE
Planetary positions
Sun Cancer 17°15'46 03 direct
Moon Taurus 22°25'54 12 direct
Mercury Gemini 26°17'55 02 direct
Venus Gemini 14°20'21 01 direct
Mars Pisces 27°49'48 11 direct
Jupiter Taurus 27°41'04 12/1 direct
Jupiter is technically near the end of house 12 and is interpreted in house 1.
Saturn Sagittarius 27°54'04 08 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 28°17'44 08 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 08°34'29 08 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 09°47'33 06 retrograde
True Node Pisces 16°00'54 11 retrograde


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Taurus 29°48'04
2nd House Gemini 24°21'58
3rd House Cancer 15°14'33
Imum Coeli Leo 07°20'41
5th House Virgo 05°12'27
6th House Libra 13°56'48
Descendant Scorpio 29°48'04
8th House Sagittarius 24°21'58
9th House Capricorn 15°14'33
Medium Coeli Aquarius 07°20'41
11th House Pisces 05°12'27
12th House Aries 13°56'48

Major aspects
Sun Sextile Moon 5°10
Sun Trine Pluto 7°28
Moon Sextile Mars 5°24
Moon Conjunction Jupiter 5°15
Moon Conjunction Ascendant 7°22
Mercury Square Mars 1°32
Mercury Opposition Saturn 1°36
Mercury Opposition Uranus 2°00
Mars Sextile Jupiter 0°09
Mars Square Saturn 0°04
Mars Square Uranus 0°28
Mars Sextile Ascendant 1°58
Jupiter Quincunx Saturn 0°13
Jupiter Quincunx Uranus 0°37
Jupiter Conjunction Ascendant 2°07
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 0°24
Saturn Quincunx Ascendant 1°54
Uranus Quincunx Ascendant 1°30
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°13

HIS
Planetary positions
Sun Scorpio 10°50'26 02 direct
Moon Aries 17°11'32 08 direct
Mercury Libra 28°00'11 02 retrograde
Venus Scorpio 29°48'54 03 direct
Mars Libra 16°46'23 02 direct
Jupiter Aries 22°33'28 08 retrograde
Saturn Sagittarius 18°49'59 04 direct
Uranus Sagittarius 24°20'09 04 direct
Neptune Capricorn 05°50'11 04 direct
Pluto Scorpio 09°56'29 02 direct
True Node Aries 01°56'56 07 retrograde


House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 15°47'04
2nd House Libra 15°46'01
3rd House Scorpio 16°35'39
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 16°41'19
5th House Capricorn 16°06'40
6th House Aquarius 15°46'47
Descendant Pisces 15°47'04
8th House Aries 15°46'01
9th House Taurus 16°35'39
Medium Coeli Gemini 16°41'19
11th House Cancer 16°06'40
12th House Leo 15°46'47

Major aspects
Sun Sextile Neptune 5°00
Sun Conjunction Pluto 0°54
Sun Sextile Ascendant 4°57
Moon Opposition Mars 0°25
Moon Conjunction Jupiter 5°22
Moon Trine Saturn 1°38
Moon Trine Uranus 7°09
Moon Quincunx Ascendant 1°24
Mercury Opposition Jupiter 5°27
Mercury Sextile Uranus 3°40
Mars Opposition Jupiter 5°47
Mars Sextile Saturn 2°04
Jupiter Trine Saturn 3°43
Jupiter Trine Uranus 1°47
Saturn Conjunction Uranus 5°30
Saturn Square Ascendant 3°03
Neptune Sextile Pluto 4°06
Pluto Sextile Ascendant 5°51

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allycat11
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posted May 13, 2006 12:12 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How do you feel about the way you act in your life?

When you say "I always stuck by my new rule of staying happy and positive" does that mean, you react in a way that isn't happy and positive and you repress what you're actually feeling?

If you're having thoughts of suicide maybe it would be a good idea to talk to a therapist/counsler at school.

Help yourself for you first.

I wish you all the best.

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taurean_scorpion
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posted May 13, 2006 12:31 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
*He's saying he's sick of the way I act...*
is he sick of your clingy-ness, your depression, or what?
what does he mean by that?

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breakfast on pluto
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posted May 13, 2006 04:07 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hey;dont worry please...

i am scorpio too..my moon is aries also.i have fiery temper....someimes i tell you bad words easily ;not being thought..so i can easily hurt people ;and my scorpio sting sometimes makes my words horrible too..

i always admit and love cancer..they are homelike and needy..but this is so beautiful sometimes..i like cancer' patience and bounds...they never leave if they like you...

i saw that your moon opposite to his sun..sometimes you cn feel loneliness...but dont forget;if a scorpio tell you:'i love you'...even though he hurt you;never leave you..dont forget...be patient..this is the key word...especially for me...sometimes scorpio want to be alone just to clarify his/her feelings...or may be;he/she hurt or have a pain;and for the punish you he/she want to be leave alone sometime..but scorpio dont live i they love really..

now give him some space..and see he will find you again...be patient and strong..they like it..cheerfull and funny.and i know cancer girl like that...dont feel you weak...each of us if we are in love;we can feel weak or pity ourselves..i am sure he think some;and come again you..

i feel you are a special person

be smile..here is talking a scorpio

take care..be patient and look strong..but lovely...

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Girl of the Water
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posted May 13, 2006 08:54 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
allycat11: I have been thinking about getting a therapist. This is the first time in years I've been thinking about suicide.

taurean_scorpion: Yes, he means all of that. This isn't the first outburst I've had, but he's had his share too. He's even told me he doesn't want me to meet his family because of the way I act sometimes, but I would never do that in front of them!

breakfast on pluto: Thank you so much. I'm not one of the patient Cancers when it comes to situations like this. Waiting around for him is very painful, but when I've done it before he always did come back to me... it's even harder this time because the prom is in a week and we've been waiting for this all year. I picked a horrible time to screw things up.

But yes, I will continue being patient and positive like I have before. I've always been one to stick up for the Scorpios, because all my best friends have been one. I guess it's easier to understand them when they're only friends, not a lover.

I'm glad I have someone with the same sun and moon he does to talk to.

EDIT: I have a question. Last night I wrote him a 2 and a half page note explaining myself, and how I didn't want this to ruin our relationship, what he means to me, etc. Would it be wise to give this to him on Monday? Should I wait a little longer or not give it to him at all?

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Mystic Gemini
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posted May 13, 2006 09:47 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know how you feel. I dealt with the same thing with my ex scorp for a while.


I am Gemini sun, Cancer Rising, taurus moon, Venus in taurus.


He was scorpio sun, libra moon, venus in sag, mars in virgo.

Its the same story except I left him after a while and he realized what he had but came back to late.


He'd never find a girl as sensitive and clingy as me.


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Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra

-I took a walk around the world to ease my troubled mind. I left my body lying somewhere in the sands of time. But I watched the world float to the dark side of the moon. I feel there's nothing I can do.

-Three Doors Down

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Dulce Luna
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posted May 13, 2006 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It sounds like he was reacting more out of hurt. But if you have problems with depression and thoughts of suicide, like Allycat said, you should try to better yourself before the relationship. IMO, he's not being very helpful to you right now.

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Mystic Gemini
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posted May 13, 2006 01:05 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote


If you talk to him on a daily basis then ignore him for a week.


When I was younger, I use to suffocate him with my clinginess. I stopped that. it's not good for you to keep giving and not receiving.


Ignore him. Trust me.


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