posted December 22, 2006 10:57 AM              

I think I might avoid them altogether.

posted December 22, 2006 11:01 AM              

Yes I do see that the one relationship I did have was a very overwhelming one for me. I dont think I want to be in a relationship anymore.....Maybe I should find someone I like rather than love cause my heart will never be involved.

posted December 23, 2006 09:32 AM            

Pluto in the 7th House is an indication that the soul has been working, possibly over many lifetimes, to attain a balance between self and other: between being an individual whilst respecting the individuality of others. This balance will be achieved only when the soul has experienced the spectrum of relating possibilities, which has servility at one end and dominance at the other.

The situations, which Pluto will manifest in a person's life, will depend upon the nature of the relating experience with which the personality is required to deal. Whether Pluto in H7 manifests a partner with the power to transform a person’s perception of who he is or whether it takes away a controlling spouse, the experience will rank as the most significant of the lifetime.

posted December 23, 2006 11:10 AM              

"You're dynamic, magnetic, temperamental and have an urgent sense of justice and in-tense reactions to others' wrongdoings. Your life is drastically altered by marriage, part-nership or dealings with others and, if well aspected, business partnerships are usually successful. Your mate is strong willed and possible domineering and often has occult leanings. You must develop conscious spiritual awareness of the need for constructive cooperation and make efforts to achieve it by learning to share initiative and responsibility and the resulting acclaim and prominence (if any) equally with any partners. If used properly, you can be a trailblazer, establishing world opinion in your field, but if improperly used, you'll have legal problems and a lack of diplomacy makes you enemies. Your activities affect others as much as they affect you and you tend to dominate or be dominated by others, depending on whose will is stronger. If well aspected, you have profound intuitive insight into others and their motives. Your mate is often from a different religion of culture."

My relationships are definitely very intense and I always put my heart and soul in it. My feelings run very deep. When I'm in a relationship with someone, I'm in it 100% or not at all.

posted December 23, 2006 11:49 AM              

7th house is also associated with open enemies as well as intimate friendship and marriage. One needs to be mindful with such placements because of the possiblity of antagonism from people who deem you too moody, wishy-washy, unreliable or simply don't wish to take you seriously.

Natives with 7th house placements can be very attractive, yet they also equally prone to being misunderstood by "touchy," reactive people, the kind who are quick to take offense or are readily looking to judge or find fault.

In synastry, house overlays in the 7th follow along the same line. If your partner's planet falls in your 7th, it is likely there's a sincere attraction and potential for a long-term relationship, but also a lot of potential for more negative reactions from your partner. Your partner could be moody around you at times, which can be a big problem if you don't have good Mercury aspects or other aspects to keep things positive. While 7th house overlays indicate an attraction that runs fairly deep intot he psyche of both partners, there's also the potential that a love affair can turn openly antagonistic if there's too much strife.

posted December 23, 2006 02:35 PM              

Shining Ray, somehow I seem to meet up with people that I allow to dominate up to just recently. I guess I've covered that end of the spectrum of being dominated so not I have to find my way to have a balance and be an equal partner.

SagSun, thank you for talking about your own experience...do u ever find yourself overwhelmed with how strongly you feel, particularly with negative emotions?

Gemini Nymph,yes I am quite moody (mood changes with the direction of the wind although I am trying to control it) and sometimes unsure of what exactly I do feel so that part was really hitting the nail on the head.And people have told me in the past that I'm "too soft" or "too nice". Haven't met anyone with 7th house overlays yet but did meet someone and shared venus in the 8th house composite.......what a nightmare that was! DId transform my life though and set me about finding my own strength.

posted December 23, 2006 04:22 PM              

"do u ever find yourself overwhelmed with how strongly you feel, particularly with negative emotions?"

posted December 24, 2006 07:40 AM              

I've read that having that deep kind of feeling can be used to help others so I guess it can be a good thing.

posted November 11, 2019 03:29 PM            

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Originally posted by SagSun:
My relationships are definitely very intense and I always put my heart and soul in it. My feelings run very deep. When I'm in a relationship with someone, I'm in it 100% or not at all.

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Do you have other significant Scorpio, 8th House, or Pluto influences?

posted November 14, 2019 12:35 PM            

You may have trust issues and an inability to open up. This can lead to being accusatory & combative with your partner i.e "you are cheating." , "I don't trust you." etc. Infact, intimate relationships progressively become a power-struggle playground for you.

Pluto in 7th gives you the power of influence over the partner.Or( if you don't believe you do) they will bring it out of you through your interactions with them.

Sometimes this can mean that the relationship can be traumatic or awaken the "inner survivor" that houd didn't even know was there.

With Mars,relationships can give you tremendous energy reserves to do or become something amazing. Its definitely through the coaching and counsel of others that you realize your own strength.

The distress of others (7th),brings out colossal reserves of courage(Mars) in you.The fighter in you comes out when being "pushed" by interactions with the public i.e people may say "you are not strong enough".And that "dare" pulls out the Gladiator "I will prove them wrong" in you.