posted March 25, 2008 02:37 PM
Glaucus, I can totally see what you are talking about." I am not saying this just because I am multi ethnic Black,White,Hispanic,Native American either. I am saying this because I am a human being and stressing that it's not about race. It's about humanity."
No one here is going to question you in that regard, even if they think in that line, you know for sure what you are taking about it right.
I have a 60 year old friend of mine who is a psychologist, who told me once, that the most difficult thing to do is to be a good man in this world as it takes only a few minutes to bring down everything you have built. Like it takes only few hours to bring a sky scraper which took at least a few years to build.
It is difficult to be non judgemental about the things we see and read and the the people we relate to. Since the lessons we have learned in the past asks us to focus on protecting ourselves.
We have a need to insulate ourselves from the attacks we receive from the outer world. Like letting go the ego, reducing our need to seek acceptance and tolerance as such.
It is important that we give enough time before arriving at that decision, we may give a few chance for errors here and there, its ok to take a long time before eventually arriving there,buts once we make it, we should stand by it.
Just my thoughts.