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kaira
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posted December 05, 2008 04:59 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
to fully end a relationship and move on?

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Libralove09
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posted December 05, 2008 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libralove09     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
death, or a new love.

i find a new love is the cure to getting over some one, but its harder than it sounds, in those situations people will even reject potential new partners because they are obsessed with the current love, and can't imagine some one else.

but if they gave it a chance they would like some one else eventually, just as much or more. even if it takes years n years, it will still happen, some one else is allways out there.

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ErickaF
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posted December 05, 2008 07:08 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Fixed sign venus are in in it for life.
I agree with the above poster too.
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Plutonian Persona
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posted December 05, 2008 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Plutonian Persona     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Death, yes very true, but not necessarily physical death. Psychological death where one lets go (and letting go is a major lesson of any Scorpio/Pluto influenced person) and realizes that one can rise anew with someone else. Of course, letting go is easy said than done and I should know...

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Luvly
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posted December 05, 2008 07:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A striking moment of clarity where you are able to see that the person is no longer right for you. Then the love is gone for that person -

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aquaspryt69
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posted December 05, 2008 09:44 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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A striking moment of clarity where you are able to see that the person is no longer right for you. Then the love is gone for that person -


--and you finally have had enough! We have yet to learn how to bail when we see the love boat has sprung a leak.

Venus in Scorpio H1


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Kick It
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posted December 05, 2008 09:46 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I thought Venus is Scorpio was all about death and rebirth. Which could indicate the end of a relationship being the end and thats final.

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kaira
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posted December 06, 2008 04:21 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that's so true, aquaspryt69.

i know he isn't right for me, but i keep going back. i love him so much, but i hate him just as much. i wish sometimes, that i had the detachment of an Aquarius or any other sign, and moving on would be so much easier...

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posted December 06, 2008 04:35 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wish I knew. I guess the ONLY thing I can think of that would make me get over a past love is someone who loves me even more than the previous one, and I have to love him even more. If it's any less than the guy before, forget it.. I get way too emotionally wrapped up in someone even if it's the worst thing for me.

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Mercury:: Sagittarius
Venus::Scorpio
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amowls
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posted December 06, 2008 07:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Christ, which reminds me:

My boyfriend's ex....girl or whatever (they dated for a little bit before we started dating, she was on a break with her now ex and started seeing my boyf [while still living with her exboyfren], and would play stupid little games with him and he got sick of her) will NOT. LEAVE. HIM. ALONE. She even left him a facebook gift of a freaking HEART SHAPED CHOCOLATE BOX THING and said in the comments "for being lovely." AND MADE IT PUBLIC KNOWING THAT I WOULD SEE IT. She is soooo stupid my God.

I JUST GET SO MAD. And I know she's trying to be manipulative because thats just how she is (she is so ridiculous and thinks she has everyone wrapped around her stupid little fingers except we KNOW what she's trying to do because it's so obvious!), and she's trying to make me not trust him. It's just SO. ANNOYING.

She has Venus in Scorpio (along with Mercury and Pluto in Scorp EXACTLY conjunct).

She just can't get it through her head that my boyfriend is over her and if we were to break up, he would not even consider getting with her.

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Rhythm
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posted December 07, 2008 01:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A moment of enlightenment where I 'realize' that the partner is not right for me. and generally it will be coupled with a new love. But that moment comes after many months of pain and I didnt recognize the potential love unless i was over with ex completely. I don't stalk and surely not if I come to know that my ex has got into another relationship. My ex was Libra with venus in Libra. i am a Libra with Venus in Scorpio

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belgz
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posted December 07, 2008 02:16 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex has venus in scorpio and he has sun in libra. He sure aint a stalker and he doesnt care about letting go either..

i can say hes been through half the country and breaks alot of girls hearts.

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Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

Ascendant....... Virgo

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oceaneyes
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posted December 07, 2008 04:19 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not venus in scorpio but its in the 8th house square pluto. I'd say it's the hardest thing in the entire world. But if you get hurt badly enough, repeatedly there's only so much you can take before your walls go up and never come down again no matter what you feel for the person. It's self protection, scorpion shell you know?

I do have a venus in scorpio ex... we've been holding on for almost 2 years now and it took him a year to come back around psychologically enough to see me and maybe try again. The entire year before he said "it would be too hard". Then, when i got no response after seeing him... i hurt him really badly unintentionally. I think thats the point that he really tried to let go. Even after he told me were completely done forever he asked me if i was seeing anyone. But now i don't know if he is coming back ever again... i hear he's always high now. Can't take the pain can we?

Venus in scorpio... blessing and huge burden if you ask me. <3

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posted December 07, 2008 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know what it takes besides feeling like I've put 150% of myself in there and have tried EVERYTHING and there's still nothing getting better and it's looking hopeless.

I don't leave relationships unless you want me to leave and/or have made it very clear with your actions/inaction. And then it's like having to amputate. Painful, but necessary.

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oceaneyes
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posted December 07, 2008 09:03 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
what about a venus in scorpio who also has mars in gemini ? OH **** confusion eh!

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belgz
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posted December 07, 2008 09:36 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah my ex has moon on his ascendant. talk about self protection!

Mars in leo might give him toomuch pride. its annoying he needs me to break his heart and teach hima lesson about love.

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Sun.. Cancer

Moon.. Gemini

Mars.. Cancer

Mercury.. Cancer

Venus.. Leo

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aquaspryt69
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posted December 08, 2008 08:24 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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i hear he's always high now. Can't take the pain can we?

I hate feeling everything so intensely and being so vulnerable! As does he, apparently.


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posted December 08, 2008 06:39 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus in scorpio and I do love completely and intensely in an all-encompasing sort of way, but as someone mentioned earlier, all it takes is one instance where I see clearly the other person and know without a doubt it will not work and I'm done - and when I am done, I am done. I am usually the one to break off my relationships, so there is no hanging on problem here and I've got lots of scorpio in my chart. There is no waiting for another man to fill a void left by the one I am leaving before I split either. Maybe it is my aqua mars influence?

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oceaneyes
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posted December 08, 2008 06:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd think that would be your aquarius mars influence as you said! I have a feeling any air sign mars with the exception of libra (too indecisive and relationship oriented)is like this. An example would be the guy i mentioned above..he's all scorpio with a gemini mars. Leaves so quick my god!

do you think aries mars would be like this too ? i hear they're in and out of love in a flash.

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posted December 08, 2008 06:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I really need to hear some introspective thoughts from astrologically enlightened Sagittarius women with Scorpio Venus.

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alanabelle86
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posted December 08, 2008 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Sagittarius Rising
Venus in Scorpio trine Jupiter
Mars in Aquarius, Uranus conjunct Ascendant

I can try to single it down to one aspect, but it's difficult. In order for me to move on, I need to come to the realization that there is nothing more I can learn, give, and/or get from the relationship. This stands for relationships of all kinds.

I think the Venus in Scorpio comes in when I begin and end the relationships. They tend to start up fast (Uranus opposite DC, Venus square Mars) but they're deep and all consuming. One thing is true, when it's over, its over.

So in short, I walk away when I can no longer gain anything. I'm a firm believer that you meet specific people at specific times in your life- when you really need them. Once you have completed your path together, you either part, or choose to stay together. But the whole purpose is to learn something...And until you learn that lesson, you never truly let go

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MyVirgoMask
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posted December 08, 2008 10:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MyVirgoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's weird but even with Venus in Scorpio I do manage to stay friends with my exes. I HATE them initially, but then we always remain friends. I don't want to be with them anymore, but they remain very dear to me. Some kind of weird bonding happens and it's mutual. They also almost always try to get back together with me after we break up, but staying friends is all I can handle.

I hear the 8th house has something to do with how we do endings. Mine's in Sagittarius, and my Jupiter has a lot of really nice aspects. I don't know if this is true, but I've noticed that no matter how badly it goes (and believe me, my relationships can be pretty hairy), I'm always feeling a generosity toward the other, and so much love past the pain, that I feel I sometimes transcend my own pain...and can't ever seem to get bitter.
My Venus does square my Jupiter. Maybe this has something to with it? Dunno.

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posted December 09, 2008 02:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have my venus in scorpio, but I do have my moon and mercury square pluto, my sun/asc/mars trine pluto, my venus opp pluto, pluto in the 5th house, jupiter in the 8th, my vertex in scorpio, and south node in scorpio. And I can completely relate to what everyone is saying here.

I can only get over someone if I find someone else who evokes more emotion in me. Even if I haven't talked to or seen that person in years. And until then it's IMPOSSIBLE for me to get over someone, nor be indifferent. If I'm cheated on I can still love them, yet hate them at the same time.
An example is I'm still totally in love with a double Sag (who had a venus and mercury in scorpio) even though I have dated (and am dating a virgo now) many guys since.

And the worst part is whenever I am totally head over hills into someone I can know they are horrible for me...but its like I'm in way too deep to take myself out of it. And I just have to let things run its course. I hate them and love them at the same time. However, I do reach a point where I know they don't care for me I become indifferent.

And I find it hard to be friends with someone if I'm still crazy about them. Like even to this day I'm still upset over how the double Sag treated me. So seeing him is especially hard. As much as I hate him I still have love for him as well. And then I admonish myself for thinking about him at all when he is happily dating a girl of a little more than a year and I think about how much he hurt me. So its a vicious cycle.

One bright spot is that my jupiter is in the 8th, and my venus is in the 11th so when I do finally get over someone (even if it takes years) I'm over them and can and want to remain on friendly terms.

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posted December 09, 2008 03:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for alanabelle86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Venus is in 11th. But so is my Pluto.


Friends? Absolutely not.

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kaira
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posted December 09, 2008 04:17 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yeah, i could never be friends with an ex. and hear about their new girlfriend, or things they'll be doing without me? no thanks. it's all or nothing.

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