posted June 22, 2008 08:31 AM
i've been curious with the synastry with this person because we don't have that many tight aspects that seem important... whereas with other significant people in my life i have more obvious and tighter aspects.i've checked what you said a bit. i'm writing down only the connections involving the rulers of AC, DC, IC, MC and 5th and 8th house. there aren't as many conjunctions and oppositions than trines squares and sextiles.
me:
AC-Jupiter
DC-Mercury
IC-Neptune
MC-Mercury
5th-Mars
8th-Moon
him:
AC-Saturn
DC-Moon
IC-Venus
MC-Pluto
5th-Mercury
8th-Sun
-my Jupiter opposes his Pluto, squares his Venus, squares his Mercury, conjuncts his DC
-my Mercury trines his moon, squares his Mercury, conjuncts his AC
-my Neptune sextiles his Saturn, Trines his Jupiter
-my Mars opposes his Saturn, semi-squares his Venus, semi-sextiles Pluto
-my Moon sextles his Saturn, squares his AC
-his Saturn sextiles my neptune
-his Moon trines my mercury
-his Venus squares my jupiter, squares my mercury, conjuncts my MC
-his Pluto squares my Neptune, squares my AC
-his Mercury squares my Jupiter, squares my Mercury, squares my Sun, conjuncts my MC
-his Sun squares my Mercury, sextiles my Mars, trines my Jupiter, semi-squares my Neptune, semi-squares my MC, squares my Sun
then i looked at midpoints of these rulers as well...
-my Sun/moon midpoint conjuncts his Saturn
-his Sun/moon midpoint squares my Neptune
-my Jupiter/Mercury midpoint conjuncts Mercury
-my Neptune/Mercury midpoint conjuncts his Part of Fortune
-my Jupiter/Neptune midpoint conjuncts his Sun
-his Venus/Pluto midpoint conjuncts my MC
-his Saturn/Venus midpoint conjuncts my AC
-his Saturn/Pluto squares my Saturn
-his Saturn/Jupiter near my IC (5 degree)
in the other charts between us we have funny chart ruler connections.
-our Saturn sesquiquares Jupiter double wammy (i never pay much attention to sesquiquares normally but thought this one might be a bit more important in this context)
-my Draconic Saturn conjuncts his Natal Saturn
-my natal Jupiter opposites his Draconic Jupiter
-my natal Jupiter/his natal Jupiter midpoint conjuncts my natal Saturn/his natal Saturn midpoint (the same happens in Draconic since the distance stays the same between these planets after the wheel turns)
-our composite Saturn and Jupiter are in opposition
-our Davison relationship chart Saturn and Jupiter are also in opposition
-our progressed composite Saturn and Jupiter are in opposition too
-our first meeting chart Saturn and Jupiter are trine
-when i make the draconic composite chart, Saturn and Jupiter are in almost exact conjunction at the Ascendant
-then i made the draconic of the progressed composite too and the Saturn and Jupiter are in conjunction
-on top of that our composite Sun/Moon midpoint is North node and the transiting Saturn was hovering over it back and forth until it went forward again recently (too much Saturn!).
so, this is what i got so far, and i also checked if similar things are happening with me and others who were close to me or who's synastry show that we are/were soulmates, and i don't see anything like this. it's interesting to me because as i said already me and this particular person don't have many obvious positive aspects in synastry, like Sun and moon contacts.
i wonder what this could mean, like things are less obvious on the surface? it IS an odd relationship. it is very strange and i'm not so sure what to think of it. but i am certain he isn't just another person passing through my life. can people have strong relationships without having aspects like sun-moon or positive aspects between planets/points?