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Topic: Am I doomed??
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JMommaSlim Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Fayetteville, NC Registered: Apr 2007
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posted July 31, 2008 05:22 PM
Okay!! I don't know what's going on, but I've had enough.... Ever since I was in 9th grade... 9TH GRADE PEOPLE :O)(I'm 26 now) EVERY guy I've fallen for and I mean every last one of them.... weeks later if not days I find out that they have a girlfriend, but they fell in love with me.... Okay, so I stop talking to them. Whether it's 3 days, 3 months, or 3 years (seriously) they come back talking about how they messed up and how I was "the one" and that they TRULY WERE IN LOVE. Am I doomed to have this happen for the rest of my life???? :O( Am I doomed to attract unavailable guys forever???? 11-12-1981 Columbus, GA @ 12PM IP: Logged |
koiflower Knowflake Posts: 1258 From: Australia Registered: Jun 2008
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posted July 31, 2008 05:24 PM
how many guys does this involve?Also, which month were you born, as members here write the calendar differently. Thanks!
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JMommaSlim Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Fayetteville, NC Registered: Apr 2007
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posted July 31, 2008 05:29 PM
Lets see since 9th grade it's been about 9 guys (I haven't slept with all of them either, being a scorpio, just thought I'd add that LOL!! :O))November 12, 1981 IP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 1037 From: Mercury Registered: Jul 2007
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posted July 31, 2008 05:43 PM
I'm always attracted to unavailable women so I feel you cuzzo.------------------ Virgo Asc & Mars Gemini Sun Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Diandra23 Knowflake Posts: 2240 From: portugal Registered: Mar 2007
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posted July 31, 2008 05:48 PM
The Secret Book tells us we atract to our lives what we think...Maybe you only atractt those guys cause deep inside you dont feel you deserve the True Love?Or cause everytime a guy makes that same thing again,your uncounscious makes you "expect" the same circle to happen... I think the same moment you will say to yourself "Ok, i know i deserve better ( and you quote to your Higher Self wxactly what you want in detail) you will really atract to you what you need IP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 1037 From: Mercury Registered: Jul 2007
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posted July 31, 2008 05:52 PM
You know Diandra, I am very open-minded. I will try this right now.------------------ Virgo Asc & Mars Gemini Sun Libra Moon (conjunct Pluto 0º in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 13873 From: CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted July 31, 2008 06:07 PM
Sounds like it's time to try out guys you wouldn't normally go for. Then you'd have a better chance of them actually being single. You've heard the definition of insanity? Insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results. IP: Logged |
JMommaSlim Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Fayetteville, NC Registered: Apr 2007
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posted July 31, 2008 08:20 PM
You know what?? I'm going to do that too..... Thanks everyone!!! :O)IP: Logged |
Scorpionic Web Knowflake Posts: 812 From: Pennsylvania Registered: Dec 2005
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posted July 31, 2008 08:52 PM
If they're "unavailable" because they already have girlfriends, yet insist you are "the one" (and could actually have you), then they're all liars.If I were "the one" for any girl, I would see to it that she'd dump her "less than the one", make herself "unavailable", because she'd then be dating me!!! A claim like "THE ONE" demands proof. Otherwise, forget them. IP: Logged |
alanabelle86 Knowflake Posts: 1840 From: Connecticut Registered: May 2005
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posted July 31, 2008 08:58 PM
I have this happen to me a lot too. I have Venus retrograde Wheres your Venus by sign, aspect, house and condition? ------------------ Sagittarius AC, Sun in Scorpio, Moon in Leo IP: Logged |
LadyNeptune Knowflake Posts: 419 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted July 31, 2008 09:55 PM
Is your venus quincunx anything? I see this with that aspect a lot.IP: Logged |
JMommaSlim Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Fayetteville, NC Registered: Apr 2007
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posted August 01, 2008 09:58 AM
Venus Capricorn 7°18'04 in house 12 :O(IP: Logged |
blue moon Moderator Posts: 4700 From: U.K Registered: Dec 2007
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posted August 01, 2008 10:27 AM
quote: If I were "the one" for any girl, I would see to it that she'd dump her "less than the one", make herself "unavailable", because she'd then be dating me!!!
Now that is my idea of a man. IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 341 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted August 01, 2008 11:06 AM
Guys who only realize you are the one, AFTER they've lost you, are not worth a second thought! They all have "the grass is greener" syndrome! I agree with Scorpionic Web, if you were really the ONE, they would have taken the chance to be with you back then, since you were available. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 2828 From: Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 01, 2008 02:56 PM
"Guys who only realize you are the one, AFTER they've lost you, are not worth a second thought!"Well once they have lost me its over for them anyway, I don't care what they think..I just shake my head..The last fe guys that I have dated and lost me was out of fear of commitment..Same thing though.. IP: Logged |
JMommaSlim Knowflake Posts: 27 From: Fayetteville, NC Registered: Apr 2007
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posted August 02, 2008 10:01 AM
That's the good thing about it. Once they've lost me I'm gone for good. Whatever feelings I've had for them are completely gone, weird thing is, it makes them want me more.... LOL!!! Sad to say, but I eat it up... :O)IP: Logged |