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Topic: AN UPDATE AND A THANK YOU
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 20
From:
Registered: Sep 2001
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posted January 15, 2002 12:11 PM
 
AURIEL, I JUST WANTED TO THANK YOU AND EVERYONE ELSE THAT STOPS INTO THIS SITE. I HAVE GATHERED MUCH STRENGTH (THAT I KNOW I DIDNT HAVE BY MYSELF) AND DEALT WITH MY FEELINGS WITH MY HUSBAND. I GOT THE NERVE TO BE HONEST AND OPEN, AND BECAUSE OF THAT WE ARE COMMUNICATING BETTER NOW THAN EVER!!! I STILL WANT A DIVORCE AND HE AGREED WITH HOW I FEEL AND THAT OUR NUMBER ONE JOB IS NOW AND ALWAYS HAS BEEN PUTTING OUR BOYS FIRST. WE ARE GOING FOR NON-CONTESTED DIVORCE AND WE ARE BEING VERY VERY SWEET TO EACH OTHER. NOW TRUST ME I KNOW HE COULD BECOME A REAL BEAR AT ANYTIME, HOWEVER I REALLY BELIEVE BECAUSE I WORKED OUT MY THOUGHTS HERE I WAS ABLE TO TALK AND LISTEN TO A MAN I ONCE REALLY DID CARE ABOUT (LOVED)AND IT MADE A DIFFICULT SITUATION WITH HIM MUCH EASIER TO EXCEPT. SO THANKS TO ALL WHOM GAVE THEIR TIME AND CARING. ITS NICE TO KNOW PEOPLE ARE OUT THERE THAT CAN SHOW YOU DIFFERENT COLORS OF LIFE.IP: Logged |
chronicprincess
Knowflake Posts: 3080
From: Earth
Registered: May 2001
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posted January 15, 2002 05:54 PM
Faith~    I'm so happy to hear everything is working out in a positive and loving way   ~Princess ------------------
~We can try many ways to get rid of the darkness, but none is as effective as simply increasing the light.~ UnkNown IP: Logged |
Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted January 15, 2002 08:01 PM
Faith,You sound so much happier!  It's wonderful that you have come to some decisions and have some peace of mind about the situation.  Just remember we're here when you need someone to talk to. Being a single Mom is tough-- and I'm speaking from experience. But, it's worth it and so much better than being with the wrong man.  ------------------
Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
--Rumi IP: Logged |
Spiritua
Knowflake Posts: 1474
From: Toronto
Registered: Dec 2001
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posted January 15, 2002 11:59 PM
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 20
From:
Registered: Sep 2001
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posted January 16, 2002 11:33 AM
OH PRINCESS, AURIEL i am so relieved and at so much more peace. now i just must deal with the Inlaws as they are very angry with me. they want a meeing with me to hear from me why i am doing this, i however do not see the benefit of telling them things they dont need to know about their son. what do you think, is it granting closier or is it going to get ugly. thanks again my light in the darkness!!!!
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chronicprincess
Knowflake Posts: 3080
From: Earth
Registered: May 2001
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posted January 16, 2002 12:24 PM
I don't know your inlaws but, I can't imagine why your inlaws would think you should air out all your problems to them, and I wouldn't. It's really non of their business, and I think your hubby's job to tell them so. If I did meet with them, it would be with my husband present  ...just so everyone is *on the same page* if you know what I mean. And, of course they don't need to hear/know things about their son that he wouldn't want to tell them himself - and would NEVER serve you to do so. Just remember, like the Miranda Rights say "this can and will be used against you" ~Princess IP: Logged |
Marigold
Knowflake Posts: 771
From: England
Registered: Apr 2001
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posted January 16, 2002 01:21 PM
Not fun.
Protect yourself, ask help from the Universe/Angels/God...  Keyword: RESPECT.
You, Inlaws, husband, children, you all deserve respect. We'll be thinking of you! IP: Logged |
Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted January 16, 2002 01:28 PM
Faith,Just ask your in-laws if they want your kids to be happy. For your kids to be happy, YOU and your husband HAVE to be happy. If they don't understand that, then you won't be able to tell them anything to appease them anyway. If your husband doesn't stand up to them, tell them yourself. Be honest and tell them that your marriage was between you and your husband, and you'd prefer your divorce to be there, too, and you hope they can understand that. Tell them you'd prefer things to stay peaceful, and that will make you uncomfortable, causing dissension early on and start things off all wrong and you want to be on the right path with this. Just remember that no one can control you unless you allow it. It's YOUR life and you have to live it for yoursELF, not your in-laws.  ------------------
Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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Morning Storm
Knowflake Posts: 1778
From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: May 2001
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posted February 08, 2002 04:37 PM
Hi Faith,I was wondering how things were going.... ------------------
Your task is not to seek for love, but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself that you have built against it.
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