posted May 23, 2002 06:11 PM         

I met him almost 3 years ago while I had a boyfriend, and we are very good friends. When my boyfriend and I broke up, we started to see more of each others. Two months ago we both took the relationship one step further. People had thought that he is my husband or boyfriend even before we decided to be intimately involved. I have always felt at home and myself every time we are together since we met. Both of us admitted that we feel so much of ourselves in us. We can discuss thoughts and feels that we have never told to anyone and neither one of us feel judgamental about. We both just love and accept who are. Now that we are together I am sort of afraid because I'm not use to feeling this way and be so much of myself and be so open without having to feel judged or rejected. We also have quite an age difference (it doesn't feel like it) and I am worried of depriving him of what can be if he were with someone close to his age. This doesn' seem to bother him, but I can't help myself to think about it.

Can you help me clarify? What info do I need to supply you to clarify this?

If this helps:
Mine: 10/6/56 4:45 pm, Manila, Philippines
His: 12/25/67 4:00 am, Pittsburgh, PA USA

posted May 23, 2002 08:45 PM         

Nope, sure can't answer that question for you. It's something that only the two of you would kNOW. I can only tell you if you've had other life contacts with each other.

posted May 24, 2002 02:39 AM         

Thanks.
Can you tell then if we had other lives together? If there were what is the purpose or lesson we need to learn of us coming together again?

Thanks

posted May 24, 2002 12:09 PM         

Okay, first glance at your charts together shows you adore each other, but once I start lOOking at it, I SEE the overall aspects between you aren't really tight. It lOOks like you were together in your last life, but as the aspects aren't tight, and your charts aren't tight, it was probably someone you dated a few times and probably enjoyed the times you went out. You're probably remembering those times, now. His Moon in your 7th house brings a lot of emotion to the relationship and his Venus in your 8th brings a lot of sexual chemistry. There are some indications of good communication and others of not understanding what the other is saying, and may be emotional blow ups, too. The intuition between you is great! Relax and enjoy what you have. I don't know what to tell you about the age difference. I'm Aquarius and wouldn't have even noticed if you hadn't pointed it out and asked about it. We don't care about stuff like that. He has Mars in Aquarius, so he probably doesn't either.

posted May 24, 2002 04:01 PM         

I forgot to ask you, what do you mean by...
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"...and others of not understanding what the other is saying, and may be emotional blow ups, too."
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Is this something that might destroy our friendship or just a normal misunderstanding that can occur in a relationship? Do you see if this relationship has a good future?

... He and I had been through a lot in our prior relationships and I worry that if there are things in our chart that are not compatible that will affect us in the future and destroy our friendship, love and respect for each other...I don't want to hurt him and neither does he want to hurt me.

posted May 29, 2002 09:23 PM         

RELAX, stay POSITIVE, and ENJOY in JOY what you have! If you stay positive and make positive statements to the universe, that's what will happen. If you live in fear and worry about it, your fears will manifest themselves into reality, because it's what you're telling the universe will happen. Absolutely nothing can destroy your relationship unless the two of you allow it regardless of what aspects you have between you.

You need to heal from the past pain you've experienced or it will affect this relationship. Try meditation and white lite. It'll also help that internal discontent you're feeling while Neptune is squaring your Moon. Be kind to yourself. And next week when you're more irritable than usual, don't take it out on your mate!