posted September 13, 2002 06:30 PM         

Originally posted on Ask the Astrologer:
Ok I met this guy about a month ago and we connected immediately. We have spent tons of time together and laugh and joke yet can have great coversations as well. He is also a scorpio and the two love relationships I have had (I am 30) have actually also been scorpios. So everything is going along well and then he just disappears...no phone call...nothing. This has been over the past week.

A couple of days ago I called him and he answered said he was in a meeting and that he promised to call me later that afternoon...afternoon rolled around and he called back and apologized but now after the meeting they were taking their clients to dinner...stressed that it would be a few hours later but he would call me. I point blank asked him "Are you saying you will call me back today?" He replied "yes" Well I went to bed at 10:30...he never called.

I called him the next morning after 9am and left a message that his meeting must have run late and I know how stressed out he had been about...would love to go to lunch and chat. He never called me back. I called him that evening after 8pm and basically said that he must have too much going on and I guess I didnt fit at this point. I also said it would be my last phone call to him. Said that I needed more communication and that was basically my perception with no information from him. I said if he wants a friend that I am here if not "take care of you" My tone was not mean yet matter of fact. So I told one of my guy friends about it and he said I shouldnt have called...sounded like he was just under a lot of pressure and my phone call probably just added more. So did I screw up? Any advice? Thanks in advance for your help!

Update***
Still no response from my guy...but I have had time to think about my final call and have prayed about it and came to the conclusion that I needed to apologize. So I called today and left a message basically apologizing for the green eyed monster rearing its ugly head. And left the door open for communication when he is ready. And that I was out of line putting a definitive on things as I did.

Thank you again for your support.

-newbie

posted September 13, 2002 06:53 PM         

Re the phone calls. Well I don't think you should call him again - you've done all you can. You've let him know how you feel and if he still doesn't call you then he's not worth your attention
I know it's hard when you want someone to call you and they don't
But you know, men do like to do the chasing - so let him chase you
Go out with friends and have fun, to take your mind off him and who knows you may meet someone you like better
Sue

posted September 13, 2002 07:01 PM         

I think he was born in Illinois near Chicago in a small rural town. And I guess I have a question??? How do I find out my birth time? I have asked my mother and she doesnt seem to remember? And I ordered a copy of my birth certifcate but it wasnt listed.

posted September 13, 2002 09:50 PM         

Listen to Sue. I could not have said it better myself. If he doesn't call you, don't call him. There is more strength in letting go than holding on.

Blue M

posted September 14, 2002 05:08 AM         

"There is more strength in letting go than holding on".

posted September 14, 2002 05:22 AM         

I do understand how intense 2 Scorpio's together can be Now with regards to him - let's sit and wait. If he calls you great, then you'll get to know his correct birth details. If he doesn't call you, then you really do need to move on

Trust me - thing's always work out for the best
Sue