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Knowflake

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posted May 10, 2004 07:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
OK my Sweetie is leaving me. He's Moving to Palo Alto currently we live in LA-not together but I am at hi home 4 nights out of 7)

Its a long story and he has to go for work and family reasons. Once he goes he won't come back (to live).

If anyone has any time...can you tell me what you see...

Me
10/10/68 1:00PM Los Angeles, CA
07/29/69 2:00 Oakland, CA (I think)-I'm only sure about my birthtime. I'm sure about his date and where but the time I can't be sure

I would ask him but he is up North now and won't be back till Wednesday and I won't here from him till then (between the job and family he won't call-this is one of the personality traits that will make long distance with him 'difficult'

Anything interesting...of course what I want is...HE'LL NEVER LEAVE YOU...HE'LL SWEEP YOU UP-white charge and all! violins in the background...birds singing...you guys can see what I mean)

Thanks everybody!

Amber
(Libra-Scales are way out of balance)

I'll set for the truth...

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posted May 11, 2004 09:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Amber, try to get his birthtime as soon as you can because it's not easy to do an accurate reading without one. I can't tell you what you need to know without it.

I can give you an overview of his personality but not a composite between the two of you. I can also do a reading for you,

Do you think you will be able to get his birthtime?

Thanks,
Natasha
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Knowflake

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posted May 11, 2004 11:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Natasha,

I knew that I would have to the right time...I was hoping for...SOMEONE TELLING ME WHAT I WANT TO HEAR!

Fortunately here I would get the truth...he'll be back later on this week. I'll ask him when he gets back.

Thanks so very much!

Love,
Amber
(Scales still swing but they are coming back in balance)

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Knowflake

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posted May 21, 2004 04:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
OK first I had the wrong birth info for him...
(You would think someone I have known for almost a decade I would know his birth data)

07/24/69
Oakland, CA

I still don't have the time...he is going to ask his mom next time the speak (that could take a while...if I ever get it I will post)

My info is correct. I know that you can't see anything between the two of us but could you give a general idea of what is happening to me and his personality and my personality...I really don't know why I'm asking...yea I do I want you to tell me it will be ok...I already know it will be ok...well my head does...my heart... not so sure...

Amber
(Scales swaying in the breeze...)

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posted May 21, 2004 05:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
It's a good idea to look at your future in this case, so I checked the transits under Forecast at astro.com for you. Were you born exactly at 1pm?
Relationships are not easy in this period of time, but things will get easier later in the summer.
Right now the world needs you to "toughen up" on structures and life changes.

Pluto trine Saturn: Toughening up

1 May 2004 until 21 May 2004: At this time you will make gradual but very profound changes in your life and create structures that will last a long time. You work at this task with great patience and attention to detail, because you are not working for today only. You are working for tomorrow as well.

This influence confers great endurance, which enables you to work slowly over a long period of time to eliminate those elements of your life that have become unnecessary and limiting, replacing them with structures that are more relevant to your present activities.

This is a period of slow but profound change within yourself also. Certain aspects of your character are changing and taking on a form that will last for many years. This change may be reflected in certain external changes in your work, profession or any other important activity in your life.

You are likely to be very careful about everything that you do under this influence. Because you try not to waste anything, the people around you may think you are excessively conservative. But really you are just acting with great discipline.

Whether or not it is necessary, you are able now to get along with very little in the way of material goods. And you have a phenomenal ability to contend with adversity if you have to. This influence has the effect of toughening you up considerably.

A related effect is that persons in authority in business or government may give you considerable power to reorganize a structure at some level. They are acknowledging your disciplined, orderly approach to every task, which is characteristic of this influence.


Jupiter conjunction Mars: An exuberant time

11 June 2004 until 28 June 2004: This is a very exuberant time, with high energies. You feel physically strong and fit, and you are more willing to be active and take chances than at other times. Vigorous physical activity is one of the best ways to use this energy, which strengthens your body and allows you to accomplish more than usual. This is quite a common influence when women give birth, for that is a kind of physical action that it seems to favor especially. However, in itself this influence does not indicate pregnancy.

Almost anything that you direct your energies to, especially an activity that requires a lot of energy, will seem to flow and happen as if you were not making any effort at all. It is important to realize, however, that you are in fact working quite hard; after this period, and even during it to some extent, you will need to stop a while and rest. One of the problems at this time is that because you don't realize how hard your body and mind are working, there is a real danger that you will overwork yourself. Certainly, if you are not in excellent physical condition you should not take up heavy physical work without preparing for it, but that is just what you might do with this influence.

This is a good time to begin a new project, as long as you don't overextend yourself. You have much more initiative than usual, and you can accomplish a great deal by yourself. Working with others may be frustrating, because it is hard for you to put up with their slower pace.

Often this influence is expressed through doing something that requires a magnificent sense of timing or planning. Or you will do something that works out very well for you in the long run. Even if it doesn't require great energy, it will pay great dividends in the future.


Saturn trine Venus: It can happen now

5 July 2004 until 20 July 2004: This is an excellent time for you to achieve real stability in your relationships. Your individual personal needs will not conflict with the demands of the relationship, and you can base them on a realistic understanding of who you are and what others need from you. Your vision is clear, and you are not likely to enter a relationship under the spell of romantic illusions. If you are romantically inclined, in fact, your relationships may seem rather practical and dull now. However, you can use this kind of experience. A relationship should be an encounter between yourself and another individual that helps you define and understand yourself more clearly. That can happen now.

Sometime in the last few years many relationships that were inappropriate for your life were weeded out. That process may have been quite painful, but it was necessary at the time. Now, however, the only relationships left are those that have real value in your life. You should be working on them to improve your understanding of yourself and how you relate to others. This is a time for growth relationships that expand your awareness. For this reason, you may have a relationship in which there is a considerable age difference between you and your partner. The one who is "older and wiser" may act as a guide, exposing the other, through the dynamics of the relationship, to a larger and more realistic view of the world.

Also this influence favors most business and professional relationships, because you now are able to negotiate on the basis of your real needs and self-understanding while appreciating the other person's real needs. And since you understand the need for realism in relationships, whatever you decide on at this time will be mutually profitable.

Creativity under this influence is not stimulated or checked, but it does have greater discipline and rigor. You may be attracted to difficult and exacting techniques or involved in particularly painstaking craft forms. Anything that you make now is likely to be practical or useful.


Jupiter conjunction Jupiter: Wonderful opportunities

19 August 2004 until 29 August 2004: This influence indicates the beginning of a new cycle of growth and progress. However, it is often the focus of exaggerated expectations. You may expect sudden windfalls, great wealth or luck, and all kinds of wonderful opportunities. And these things do happen sometimes with this influence, but most people should expect more subtle, but equally useful effects.

Events now, such as meetings with persons or even changes in your psyche, open the way for you to become wiser and more mature and to have a broader understanding of the world. At this time you will reach out consciously and unconsciously and ask more of the world, but at the same time you are willing to give more to the world.

This influence can make you feel either more demanding or more giving toward others, but you are not likely to get much out of it if you think only of what you can get. The law of conservation of energy in the universe says that you can transform the energies in your life from one form to another, but you cannot create them out of nothing. This influence represents a time when you should see whether you are doing that in your life.

Concretely, you can expect persons who are good for you to come into your life. Or circumstances will arise that give you increased freedom or an opportunity to do something that you have never done before. Educational opportunities may come to you at this time, or a chance to travel. Sometimes this influence does in fact bring about financial advantage, but you should not sit around passively waiting for it to happen. This is an excellent time to invest or expand in business as long as you are very careful not to overdo it or overextend yourself.

Natasha
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posted May 21, 2004 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Venus Conjunct Neptune   

You probably started life as a starry-eyed idealist and, depending upon your age, you may be one still.

Your idealism affects your sexual and emotional life quite strongly, because few affairs can ever live up to your standards, and thus you set yourself up for disappointment. However, when you do choose a lover, he or she may be disappointed, for physical sexuality probably takes second place to spiritual communication; unless your lover shares this attitude, you both will feel disappointed and frustrated.

To avoid these problems, you should state your intentions clearly before becoming involved with a lover, although you may not feel inclined to do so.

does this sound like you?
Does your sweetie feel the same way about physical love, that is can he have a love affair and be separate from you physically? Do you think he needs someone right there, right now or can you talk on the phone and write letters when apart?
You probably don't want to move, and have to think about managing a long distance love affair.

Do you think he's up to it?

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Knowflake

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posted May 24, 2004 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
Dear Natasha,

Thank you so much…(1:00 on the BC…makes you wonder though…do they write down the exact time or do they round up…)

There is so much happening now and it looks like the forecast is ‘true’. Let see I am moving in to his old place which means I have to put up a deposit (didn’t think I would have to since his rental agreement is on a post-it) but it is a beautiful place and I can’t wait to move. But I can’t keep my cats. I have two. They are litter mates and have never been apart. I saved them from the pound and I never thought that I would have them for there whole lives (I’ll keep them for a little while until they can be placed….here we are 2 years later) so the first shelter wants $300 per cat. What is funny is that this has always been the problem with having two of them. One cat, I would pay it but I don’t have $600. I have until August 1st to find them homes…Definitely time to toughen up. I feel so guilty because I don’t have to move but this place is sooo beautiful….

I can’t go to Japan now because I would either have to borrow money for my trip or borrow money to move…this is new for me because in the past I would borrow the money and not even think about it…growing up (at 35…)

There is so much change coming up in my job. I haven’t taken it to the next level…I will have to in the next few weeks….

My Sweetie wouldn’t need the physical connection (at least) on a daily basis. We defiantly have an intellectual and spiritual connection. I think that a physical relationship would be important to him but if we were in an exclusive relationship the chances of him ‘cheating’ would be really low. It just the kind of person he is…doesn’t mean it couldn’t happen but I doubt it. If he found someone he was more interested in he would tell me. He hasn’t decided what he wants to do as far as along distance relationship is concerned. I think because if he does it will be another level of commitment. Yes we will do this long distance and maybe we will be a couple for our whole lives… We’ll see. I am preparing for him to say we should just be friends because he knows that given time that would be possible.

I just don’t know what to do. I want to know the future…whatever it is so I can prepare for it…

The lesson for me is to let go…stop trying to control an outcome that I have no control over and handle the ones that I do have control over…

I told him I need his birthtime (NOW) so I hope to have it before he leaves...

Thank you so much...I'll keep you posted...

Love,
Amber
(Libra...scales stable only because they are tired of swinging wildly out of control...)

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Knowflake

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posted June 07, 2004 11:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
Got his birthtime. July 24, 1969 Oakland CA
5:30 AM

What do you think?

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Knowflake

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posted June 14, 2004 01:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
*bump*

Dear Natasha...or anyone else...

What do you think of us as a couple?

I checked astro we seem very compatible but I wonder is there anything else

Thanks for your time!

Love,
Amber
(Libra-tryin' to deal-he leaves on July 1st)

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posted June 14, 2004 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Be sure and check his transits, under Forecast to see what's on the menu.

Okay, how funny he and I were both born in 1969 in Oakland, Ca, what hospital I wonder? I was an armed forces baby.

Good News, his Uranus, the planet of sexual love is in Libra near the 10th, and the 10th is the house of marriage and long term connections. You are a Libra and so I would say that's good for you.

His Mars and Moon are conjunct in the 12th, he is shy and concerned with others that makes him ethical in his dealings you, or at least he tries. Venus is in the 7th in Gemini. His work, Neptune in the 11th is more important than family right now, but all signs are fixed and show a tendency to being faithful except the Venus in Gemini which is favorable in the 7th.

The only point of concern I have is his Sun and Mercury in the 8th which show a need for closeness and sex, you may want to fly up on the weekends:> Of course he ought to spring for the airfare, generous Libra.

His mars in sag in the 1st is also very compatible with your Sun. With the moon in the 1st is he ever moody around women? Encourage male friends and associations.

If you have the composite be sure and post it here so I can take a look at your composite Sun.

Jupiter square Venus: Warmth of feeling

1 August 2004 until 12 August 2004: This influence can create within you genuine warmth of feeling and the desire to give and express love to others. Unfortunately it can also make you feel very unenterprising and passive, so that you wait for things to come to you when you ought to go out after them. It is very hard to tell which of these two broad classes of response to expect, but generally speaking, the first is more common.

On occasions this influence may mean that you will attract someone with whom you could have a significant relationship, but it may not be an easy relationship. It is likely to be quite constructive, however, and whether or not you realize it immediately, you will gain from it in wisdom and maturity.

The principal difficulty with this influence is that it inspires rather compulsive feelings, which do not leave you enough room to maneuver and handle the new relationship properly. Because you act compulsively, your feelings may overwhelm the other person. And it is very important to realize that there is always a certain tension between closeness and the love of freedom. It is quite possible to combine these into a very creative relationship that will be pleasant and constructive for both of you, but you will have to calm yourself down a bit and proceed with less excitement. If you can do this easily, this influence should be very good for you.

This influence stimulates your love of beauty. Make every effort to surround yourself with beauty, such as pleasant surroundings, art objects or beautiful scenery. With some people, this feeling becomes perverted into a love of gaudy, showy things that have no real worth. To each his or her own, of course, but do not get seduced into wasting money on some trifle that you will regret in soberer moments.


Uranus square Moon: "Crazy"

13 August 2004 until 7 October 2004: This influence will create tensions and sudden changes in your personal and emotional life. Every little tension that you have suppressed over the last several years will suddenly seem to surface and demand to be released in some way. In your close relationships, such as to parents and partner, problems that you have been ignoring may reach the point that you have to deal with them. In an intimate relationship, this influence can have the effect of either you or your partner suddenly breaking away and seeking a relationship elsewhere. But that would happen only if the tension between you has been very severe and neither of you has been doing anything about it. In any case, you may have to make some changes in the demands you have been making upon each other.

Your domestic life may be the source of considerable upsets now. There may be accidents in the home, a sudden need for house repairs, or other sudden problems on this front. Certainly this is not a good time to buy a home, because what you look for now will not reflect your usual needs. If you are forced to buy a new home or to change residence at this time, go ahead, but be very careful. The energy of the influence has already worked itself out by disrupting your previous home and forcing you to move.

In general, you are seeking more emotional freedom at this time. If you can, change your existing relationships so that they embody what you are looking for. Otherwise, if you seek out new relationships, your personal life may be more disrupted than you want. Men in particular should be wary of this influence, because their attitudes toward women may be rather unstable now, which can result in upsetting relationships.

Whatever you do, you will probably find that your emotional wants and needs are not consistent with those of the people around you. Others may think you are "crazy" (not clinically insane, of course), because of your actions at this time. But this is only a temporary period of instability, during which you will come to a new understanding of your emotional needs.

Those are some of things he is feeling right now.

Good Luck to both of you,
Natasha
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posted June 14, 2004 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
I meant to say, most planets are fixed, and his moon and mars are in the 12th not the first but his first house is ruled by Sag. He will still be a bit moody but not as moody as moon/1st house. I would say you are very lucky here and that's why you are unhappy he is leaving. I am sure he is just as unhappy. Does he plan to visit you or do you have a plan to see eachother?

Natasha
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posted June 14, 2004 06:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Natasha -

If you don't mind, you mentioned something about Uranus in the 10th - He has Uranus in Scorpio in the 10th, and I have Merc, Mars & Neptune in Scorpio in the 6th.

My Uranus in Leo in the 4th is Conjunct his Saturn in the 8th.

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Knowflake

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posted June 14, 2004 07:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Natasha,
We have talked about me coming up frequently. He said he would TRY but he doesn't do long distance well because he needs the immediacy of someone. That really surprised me since I never thought he was like that...Hmmm....We'll see. After reading this I am just as confused as before (acctually I'm not confused at all I just don't want him to go )

What is a composite? Is it something I can get from Astro.com

I'm not sure if he is moody around women or not. There are times that he seems to lose 'patience' with people but he keeps that pretty under wraps. He is very good at controling his emotions around others.

Thank you so much!

Amber
(Libra-not happy but that's life sometimes)

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posted June 15, 2004 08:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, he may say that because he is hinting that he wants you to move to be near him, it's a little manipulative that way but he does need you. Put another way, he wants you there and has little patience, but doesn't see clearly to find a way.

How do you feel about that?

Gloria, Uranus in the 10th in Scorpio, and you have Uranus in the 6th, and Mars in Scorpio, I can see the attraction. You are an unconventional girl and Uranus on the 10th is attracted to unique individuals that you can't find just anywhere.

Natasha
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Knowflake

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posted June 15, 2004 11:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
OK did I not tell him that the time was important...yes I did. I was born in the morning! When....5:30 AM. Really don't you wonder about all the even numbers...I think people round up or down. He didn't say anything...I of course belived him!!!

Last night "Look here is my BC" Opps I was born at 1:39 PM. My mom must have went into the hospital (forgot to ask which one) at 5:30...I thought you told me you asked her. I told you I would ask but I had forgotten but you need a time so I thought I would get close.
AHHHHHHH...I still love him BUT!!!
anyway here is the info.

Partner - Short Edition

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for Sean (male)
born on 24 July 1969 local time 01:39 pm
in Oakland, CA (US) U.T. 20:39
122w16, 37n48 sid. time 08:39:29
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Leo 01°44'41 09
Moon Sagittarius 02°04'33 02
Mercury Leo 04°20'01 09
Venus Gemini 19°28'45 08
Mars Sagittarius 03°32'34 02
Jupiter Libra 01°20'49 11
Saturn Taurus 08°17'52 07
Uranus Libra 00°50'31 11
Neptune Scorpio 25°59'23 01
Pluto Virgo 23°06'23 11
True Node Pisces 22°25'02 05


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Scorpio 02°20'05
2nd House Sagittarius 00°52'39
3rd House Capricorn 03°03'25
Imum Coeli Aquarius 07°27'53
5th House Pisces 10°21'50
6th House Aries 08°47'01
Descendant Taurus 02°20'05
8th House Gemini 00°52'39
9th House Cancer 03°03'25
Medium Coeli Leo 07°27'53
11th House Virgo 10°21'50
12th House Libra 08°47'01

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and Amber (female)
born on 10 Oct 1968 local time 01:00 pm
in Los Angeles, CA (US) U.T. 20:00
118w15, 34n03 sid. time 13:24:55
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Libra 17°34'12 09
Moon Gemini 06°05'13 05
Mercury Libra 27°47'55 10
Venus Scorpio 17°18'42 10
Mars Virgo 11°54'12 08
Jupiter Virgo 23°10'21 09
Saturn Aries 22°26'50 03/4
Uranus Libra 00°45'23 09
Neptune Scorpio 24°53'14 11
Pluto Virgo 23°34'54 09
True Node Aries 09°35'48 03


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Capricorn 03°53'13
2nd House Aquarius 10°31'24
3rd House Pisces 19°25'47
Imum Coeli Aries 22°56'59
5th House Taurus 19°32'56
6th House Gemini 12°02'08
Descendant Cancer 03°53'13
8th House Leo 10°31'24
9th House Virgo 19°25'47
Medium Coeli Libra 22°56'59
11th House Scorpio 19°32'56
12th House Sagittarius 12°02'08

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Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Virgo 09°39'26 09
Moon Virgo 04°04'53 09
Mercury Virgo 16°03'58 10
Venus Virgo 03°23'44 09
Mars Libra 22°43'23 11
Jupiter Virgo 27°15'35 10
Saturn Taurus 00°22'21 05
Uranus Libra 00°47'57 10
Neptune Scorpio 25°26'18 12
Pluto Virgo 23°20'38 10
True Node Aries 01°00'25 04


HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius 03°06'39
2nd House Capricorn 05°42'01
3rd House Aquarius 11°14'36
Imum Coeli Pisces 15°12'26
5th House Aries 14°57'23
6th House Taurus 10°24'34
Descendant Gemini 03°06'39
8th House Cancer 05°42'01
9th House Leo 11°14'36
Medium Coeli Virgo 15°12'26
11th House Libra 14°57'23
12th House Scorpio 10°24'34

Amber
(One annoyed Libra)

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posted June 15, 2004 11:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
I took a look at Astro.com so don't worry about giving me too many details just let me know if you see something that I really should know or look out for...

Thanks Natasha (and AJ )

Men.

Amber
(Less annoyed than a minute ago...but not much...)

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posted June 15, 2004 11:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
I like his chart, it does have a Scorpio rising which is fixed, but affection is important to him. He is telling you that he needs someone close by, do you believe him? Do you think it's important to your relationship? How did he say it?

There are still several good points, his true node in Pisces, and mars in Sag are compassionate and understanding for your Libra Sun. But the affection is needed on a daily basis with Mars in Sag too, that's why I have two cats, family, and friends who I hug all the time.

One thing that I noticed is that his Neptune is a singleton, I don't think the ascendant counts, and that means he is listening to you in this relationship. You are listening to him and he is waiting on you, so you can see the confusion. He may be waiting on a signal from you, much like a lady is waiting for a signal from a man who has hinted marriage. Are you commitment shy? Not all Libras are into commitment.

His impatience may signal something deeper in your relationship, is all well in general? Sexually, emotionally, spiritually?

Time to take stock,

Natasha

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posted June 15, 2004 12:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
I think he is waiting for me to let go and trust in myself and him that everything will
work out. It is the control issue with me that he has a problem with...and that I worry which is also part of the control...

When he said that he doesn't do distance well because he needs some there he meant it. I think he was letting me know that I will have to travel (he doesn't like flying or quick turnaround trips...I don't mind them)

I think it will be ok. If I listen to my heart, softly I know we will be ok but I am afraid that it won't work and if it won't work I want to know now. So I can end it.
(Scorpio in the 11th talkin')...

We'll be ok....

I'll keep you posted

Love,
Amber
(Southwest's newest frequent flyer)

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posted June 15, 2004 12:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
Ohhh didn't answer the question...

All is well...very well...I think in some ways that is the problem...almost too good to be true.

However we have one issue between us...
It is a long story but I didn't take care of some tickets and $1100 later I lost my car. He paid the tickets and got my car back. I didn't ask him too but I did let him do it.
This was a problem after... not the money but the total disregard of 'taking care of business'. It shook us both up alot. He started acting strange (at the same time a female friend came back from the past - her marriage had just ended months before and she had been looking for him-I thought it was her. We had a huge blow-up that lasted 24 hours back and forth and he final told me what was bothering him. It was good and we are past it now but I know it is still an issue. He knows that he will be responsible for the money if we are together, I don't think he minds that but having to do it. He is very sucessful and there are women around that are more sucessful than I would ever be...but the one thing I have going for me is...

They are not ME

I know I am the one he wants he will just have to decide if I am worth the risk...

We'll just have to see....

Amber

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posted June 15, 2004 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Natasha - my heart is doing a happy dance after reading your response to my inquiry.

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posted June 15, 2004 03:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Total Pieces     Edit/Delete Message
I didn't answer about the move.

I won't leave my job unless I'm married. (I work for UCLA and although the pay isn't great the benefits are out of this world) He knows that and I think that he feels that pressure. If I had a 'regular job' I would consider leaving.

We'll just have to see...

Love,
Amber

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