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Topic: is he the one??
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moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted April 15, 2007 03:15 AM
I am a divorced female who has been out of bad relationships struggling to find true love. I met this awesome Capricorn guy who date of birth is 8th January 1975 and his time of birth is 9:30 pm (in UTC +5.30 time zone) . His place of birth is Gurgaon India (28.47° N 77.03° E). My birth details are 20th Jan 1976 and birth time is 3:00 pm (in UTC +5.30 time zone) .My place of birth is Satna, India(24.34 N,80.55 E)I am falling in love with him whereas he says he just likes me and he has come out of a love relationship few months back . Do not know what future holds for us....i would be full of gratitude if you can guide me please.... I am currently living in Washington DC while he lives in Rochester,NY and we talk daily for 5 hours on the phone and have met also but dunno how he feels for me ...do not have courage to express my feeling for him.... ------------------ MB
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InLoveWithLife Knowflake Posts: 1527 From: Wonderland Registered: Aug 2006
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posted April 15, 2007 03:46 AM
hang in there, moonbinder, i'll try to look up your charts in a couple of days. IP: Logged |
moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted April 15, 2007 03:49 AM
Thanks a lot i look forward to your reply ...it would really help me in some way to ease my stress since I am worried about me getting hurt by one sided love... your reading will help me decide whether or not to unchain my heart to him... thanks a lot again.... ------------------ MB IP: Logged |
moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted April 15, 2007 04:01 AM
I have included mine and my boyfriends natal chart ..hope this helps...Mine (female) born on 20 Jan 1976 local time 3:00 pm in Satna, INDIA U.T. 09:30 80e50, 24n35 sid. time 22:48:57 Planetary positions planet sign degree motion Sun Capricorn 29°27'08 in house 8 direct Moon Virgo 12°07'54 in house 4 direct Mercury Aquarius 5°46'03 in house 8 retrograde Venus Sagittarius 22°50'54 end of house 6 direct Mars Gemini 14°43'58 in house 12 stationary (D) Jupiter Aries 17°29'38 in house 11 direct Saturn Cancer 29°31'15 in house 2 retrograde Uranus Scorpio 6°55'44 in house 5 direct Neptune Sagittarius 13°08'24 in house 6 direct Pluto Libra 11°42'01 in house 4 retrograde True Node Scorpio 18°54'05 end of house 5 retrograde Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Gemini 24°07'48 2nd House Cancer 17°55'44 3rd House Leo 12°27'51 Imum Coeli Virgo 10°45'10 5th House Libra 14°13'41 6th House Scorpio 20°19'09 Descendant Sagittarius 24°07'48 8th House Capricorn 17°55'44 9th House Aquarius 12°27'51 Medium Coeli Pisces 10°45'10 11th House Aries 14°13'41 12th House Taurus 20°19'09 Major aspects Sun Conjunction Mercury 6°19 Sun Opposition Saturn 0°04 Sun Square Uranus 7°29 Moon Square Mars 2°36 Moon Sextile Uranus 5°12 Moon Square Neptune 1°01 Mercury Square Uranus 1°10 Mercury Trine Pluto 5°56 Venus Trine Jupiter 5°21 Venus Opposition Ascendant 1°17 Mars Sextile Jupiter 2°46 Mars Opposition Neptune 1°36 Mars Trine Pluto 3°02 Jupiter Trine Neptune 4°21 Jupiter Opposition Pluto 5°48 Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°26 Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle). My boyfriend's (Male) orn on 8 Jan 1975 local time 9:30 pm in Gurgaon, INDIA U.T. 16:00 77e02, 28n28 sid. time 04:18:28 Planetary positions planet sign degree motion Sun Capricorn 17°44'54 in house 5 direct Moon Sagittarius 4°58'09 end of house 3 direct Mercury Capricorn 29°35'35 in house 5 direct Venus Aquarius 2°59'45 in house 5 direct Mars Sagittarius 20°28'28 in house 4 direct Jupiter Pisces 14°39'27 in house 7 direct Saturn Cancer 15°14'30 in house 11 retrograde Uranus Scorpio 2°06'07 in house 2 direct Neptune Sagittarius 10°41'04 in house 4 direct Pluto Libra 9°15'14 in house 2 stationary (R) True Node Sagittarius 9°51'53 in house 4 direct Planets at the end of a house are interpreted in the next house. House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Virgo 7°41'15 2nd House Libra 4°20'55 3rd House Scorpio 4°28'54 Imum Coeli Sagittarius 6°28'30 5th House Capricorn 8°21'04 6th House Aquarius 8°57'24 Descendant Pisces 7°41'15 8th House Aries 4°20'55 9th House Taurus 4°28'54 Medium Coeli Gemini 6°28'30 11th House Cancer 8°21'04 12th House Leo 8°57'24 Major aspects Sun Sextile Jupiter 3°05 Sun Opposition Saturn 2°30 Moon Sextile Mercury 5°23 Moon Sextile Venus 1°58 Moon Conjunction Neptune 5°43 Moon Sextile Pluto 4°17 Moon Square Ascendant 2°43 Mercury Conjunction Venus 3°24 Mercury Square Uranus 2°31 Venus Square Uranus 0°54 Mars Square Jupiter 5°49 Jupiter Trine Saturn 0°35 Jupiter Square Neptune 3°58 Saturn Square Pluto 5°59 Uranus Sextile Ascendant 5°35 Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°26 Neptune Square Ascendant 3°00 Numbers indicate orb (deviation from the exact aspect angle). ------------------ MB IP: Logged |
InLoveWithLife Knowflake Posts: 1527 From: Wonderland Registered: Aug 2006
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posted April 15, 2007 12:45 PM
Holy Schmolly !!! at just a cursory glance, i noticed a sun trine moon, and a sun sextile moon (not sure of the orbs, but i think it will work), and a mars conj venus !! i don't think he just 'likes' you girl being very cappy like (or may be its the venus in aqua??). he is just being non-committal. FIVE HOURS and he says he just likes you!! he's got to be kidding you know i am a cappy too, and i too would be cautious if i just got out of a bad relationship. we cappies tend to be a little low on self confidence. and a bad relationship just dips it further. so don't worry my dear. don't be negative. try not to worry too much about the future...dont focus on his words but his actions....try to go with the flow. IP: Logged |
moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted April 15, 2007 04:25 PM
Gee Thanks ...I guess I am capri too ..and those traits are present in me . I need to know my destination before i start my journey... guess love isn't like that ... You need to go with the flow... But so much thanks for your wonderful comments.... I guess someday he would have courage to let me know he really loves me... or not... I would appreciate if you can let me know my future with this guy and whether or not I would marry him.... Thanks a lot for your post... it really cheered me up... ) ------------------ MB IP: Logged |
moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted April 18, 2007 07:33 AM
Lately he has been ignoring me .. i don't know why . He didn't call me up or two days and when he did I asked him why he hadn't called and his reply struck me .He said "Is it necessary to talk everyday? ". I don't know why is he doing it but I thought his reply was rude and I feel he is taking me too much for granted. Guess I should not talk to him anymore.... Please suggest.------------------ MB IP: Logged |
moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted April 28, 2007 03:40 AM
No one replied to my message... me sad ... dunno what life holds for me------------------ MB IP: Logged |
thearistocrat9 Knowflake Posts: 11 From: Registered: Aug 2006
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posted April 29, 2007 03:50 AM
Give me a little while-- I'll reply when I check out the synastry between you.IP: Logged |
moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted April 29, 2007 08:06 AM
Thanks a lot I look forward to reply from your side... help to atleast end my delimma...------------------ MB IP: Logged |
moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted May 14, 2007 07:47 AM
I wish someone should post reply on my message still waitingIP: Logged |
moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted October 16, 2007 03:55 AM
still no reply....can anyone please help me hereIP: Logged |
let ther b light Knowflake Posts: 290 From: bombay, india Registered: Aug 2005
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posted October 16, 2007 01:04 PM
hey moonbinder i noticed its been six months since ur first post...is the situation still the same?i'm not to great at reading charts...but i dont mind listening to what u have to say....i know how it feels to really like someone and not get a positive response from the person...it can be quite bad.... my only solace is to pray about it....i've done all sorts of mad things to just see the guy i like....like just accidently being in the same place i know he'll be....and sometimes i think he must be really dense to not feel the same way i'm feeling(btw thats what i tell myself to make myself feel better).....and sometimes i feel its not possible that u like someone so much and they dont like you back....but maybe there are better things/ppl in store fr us.....sorry i just realised i'm rantin abt my story when i shud be talking about yours.....do u guys still speak fr 5 hours a day? IP: Logged |
Geocosmic Valentine Knowflake Posts: 66 From: New York, NY Registered: Sep 2007
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posted October 16, 2007 05:09 PM
Hello Moonbinder,Your chart with this other Capricorn shows some patterns of strong romantic attraction and sexual chemistry, however, the chart also shows some strong measurements of great tension. Only the two of you can decide if it feels good enough to get involved with one another. No one, except maybe a psychic can tell you if you will eventually get together or get married, that’s up to you two and your free will. You do have Pluto trine Venus which many consider to be a soul mate measurement because it suggests a deep attraction. You also have Venus conjunct Mars between you which is also a measurement suggesting romantic and sexual chemistry. However, your Saturn opposes his Venus and this is a measurement that suggests that at some point in the relationship, he may become fearful of loving you for whatever reason, be it excess criticism or low self-worth or whatever. If you ever do get together, the relationship may last for a while because of this measurement, but it doesn’t guarantee happiness. You both have two nice measurements involving both of your Jupiters with his Moon and your Sun. These feel good and happy, but once again they are tense aspects and when you have tense aspects with Jupiter-Moon or Jupiter-Sun, you find people who may have a vast difference in their religious, spiritual or philosophical views. But tense aspects give your relationship something to work on. It’s up to you to decide if it’s worth it. Your Mars opposes his Neptune suggesting that you may irritate him from time to time. Mars turns on the blow torch of anger and Neptune flinches and swims away. Your Saturn also opposes his Mercury which suggests that he may stop communicating with you from time to time, it’s also a possibility that your communications can be depressing to him sometimes. Your Uranus squares his Venus which suggests an instant attraction and more sexual chemistry, but it can be a measurement that suggests an attraction the lasts only a short while, but you do have other measurements that are a little more lasting in the attraction department so you may not have to worry about this one too much With astrological synastry there are some things you need to keep in mind. You and the other person have free will. You and your partner may have the best synastry on the planet and it is no guarantee that a relationship will last. The most important part of your relationship must be proximity. If you don’t live near each other, the relationship will not happen, no matter how great the physical attraction. You always hear the stories about relationships and marriages that break up because the couple can’t be together as often as it takes to build a substantial life and bond. It’s very rare and that is the reality component of your life right now. That could also be what the chart is suggesting also with the Venus opposite Saturn and the Mercury opposite Saturn. Mercury rules movement as well as communication, movement may be hindered somehow effecting your ability to get together to love one another. But once again, it is up to the two of you to make this happen if it’s what both of you choose. Good luck to you, Moonbinder, I hope things go your way. Geocosmic Valentine
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annaf Knowflake Posts: 124 From: Registered: Oct 2006
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posted October 16, 2007 05:30 PM
Moonbinder, yes do let us know how the relationship has been developing. Is he still saying he only sees you as a friend? With his venus in aquarius isnt that a good thing to start off with?! And with his venus conjunct your sun, I would think that you strongly appeal to his inner anima. Also, the others have already pointed out the number of other strong links between you. The saturn oppositions can certainly put up some barriers in synastry, also you both have sun-saturn oppositions natally, so a lot of barriers. So are you sure that this isnt just a case of both of you hiding your feelings?IP: Logged |
moonbinder Knowflake Posts: 10 From: Hyattsville,MD,US Registered: Apr 2007
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posted October 17, 2007 02:16 AM
Thanks but fact remains we do not talk anymore as we used to but we keep in touch ... he is moving to my city in march 2008... i hope we are able to connect more than and meet more in person ... and some connection would trigger... living on hope cause he is awesome guy.. Thanks a lot for wonderful replies... it gives me hope for MarchIP: Logged |
Diandra23 Knowflake Posts: 1005 From: portugal Registered: Mar 2007
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posted October 18, 2007 08:17 AM
The fact that he is moving to your city may show sth--positive!! I hope you two get together if it is that fpr your best good! IP: Logged |