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Topic: When thinking about someone obstructs your life
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problematique Knowflake Posts: 151 From: Registered: Jan 2021
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posted February 23, 2024 05:08 AM
i just sort of need to open myself here a lil bit because there’s no other place for me to do that. last year a very special, lovely bond happened between me and someone and due to reasons, it abruptly stopped. we haven’t spoken since october and it’s been really hard but as time went by i managed to sort of pull myself together. recently, in the past 10 days, it’s been unbearable. i started having dreams about him and the girl i think he’s with, (maybe) waking up in the middle of the night, crying, having the urge to vomit etc. during the day i can barely eat properly. yesterday i missed my bus stop because i zoned out so hard. a woman started talking to me and i could barely contain myself not to cry in public. my soul feels tired, i feel used and neglected and it’s been months but it seems it’s only getting worse especially nowadays. i literally skip lunch because i can’t make myself to eat. my entire body feels like dying. an educated lady told me this is someone else’s energy being projected onto me if it completely obstructs my life. what do you think about that? and have you ever felt this way? i know times heals it all and that’s not what i’m asking but. why is all this happening to me and it just keeps going on and on. is it unfinished business? IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 184540 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted February 25, 2024 06:39 PM
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anonymidarkness Knowflake Posts: 8221 From: Registered: Aug 2012
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posted February 26, 2024 09:45 AM
It might be that you have not fully faced the pain of separating from him, perhaps it was buried deep within you until now and now it is coming up very intensely. It takes quite some time to heal from the pain of separation for me too, takes many years. Were you two involved in physical intimacy? I have found deep intimacy can merge someone else's energy with me. My usual go-to solution for that to ground myself from it is meditation, as well as time.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 184540 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted March 13, 2024 10:25 AM
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