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Topic: Frustrated and really need to vent....
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scorpbaby Knowflake Posts: 509 From: Ny, USA Registered: Jun 2004
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posted September 12, 2005 11:12 PM
Ok well there is this one guy that I liked last semester at school. We had similar friends and would usually be around eachother at parties. I felt an immediate vibe with him, and I couldn't explain it. The only problem was that after I mentioned my liking for him, I hear from a friend that one of my other friends had dibs on him, because she also had a crush on him. She is a more aggresive girl then myself and of course being the pushover I am, I backed down, and never mentioned I liked him again. Now that I'm back at school from summer vacation I see him ofen at parties. Him and my other friend are no longer involved but she still gets jealous when he is around other girls. He has flirted with me so much recently but I try not to take it too seriously, even though I do feel the same connection with him. I know that even mentioning that I still like him would cause so much unwanted DRAMA from my group of friends. I'm just completely discouraged. I knew almost instantly upon meeting him that there would be something astrological to explain this strong chemistry, and I was right. I just found out his birthday today the AND the synastry speaks for itself... Here's one example: Me Sun in Scorpio & Moon in Taurus Him Sun in Taurus & Moon in Scorpio Too bad I don't have the courage to do what it takes to make myself happy
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Mystic Gemini Knowflake Posts: 603 From: New York City Registered: Jul 2005
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posted September 13, 2005 12:29 AM
Sounds intense. Yummy LOL. I am a gemini and I am currently interested in a scorpio with a scorpio moon!
I am a gemini with a taurus moon.
Check out this link: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001670.html
------------------ Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
Isolaede Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Studio City, CA Registered: Aug 2005
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posted September 14, 2005 12:47 PM
My vote: Go after your man! Seriously, in the grand scheme of things, drama will pass, but love will either linger for eternity or touch your soul for a time and transform you. Any friend that wouldn’t support you in your quest for love isn’t worth your time. Good luck girl! IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 3681 From: Sierra Vista, Arizona Registered: May 2002
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posted September 14, 2005 03:48 PM
You have a few options. How close are you to your friend and group of friends? Maybe getting to know him at parties and school will allow to evaluate if you "really" like him.If you just "go for it" you may find out he is a total creep and you've lost your friend at the same time. IF you are close enough to your group of friends, you may experience a ripple of discomfort, but they will get over it. I would worry about creating tension or losing my good friends only to find out the guy was a total jerk. That said, if you get to know him as a friend and find out he is perfect for you, then take the chance. True love is worth more than shallow friends. IP: Logged |
scorpbaby Knowflake Posts: 509 From: Ny, USA Registered: Jun 2004
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posted September 14, 2005 08:25 PM
Well she is my roomate but I don't know if I would consider us to be good friends. It's really just the fact the whole group of girls I'm friends with would get involved and it would be bad news. Oh well I'll get over it... there's plenty more fish in the sea, right? IP: Logged |