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shop22much
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posted December 19, 2005 01:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for shop22much     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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pixelpixie
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posted December 19, 2005 02:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Alot of Mutability going on with that sun/moon combo.....
However...
I will say....
Sag's, however reputed they are, can settle down, although at this juncture, I would still treat it as a very pleasant visit with a good friend, and perhaps keep it that way... Pisces Moon wants to connect as well.. but again, the level of commitment needs depth and light.... you need to stay friends, while being in a relationship, keep it fun and keep it alove and guessing... but enjoy it.
Sag's are sincere above all else... they truly tell it like it is, and while they may stretch the truth inside themselves, by mitigating explanations for comfort, if they feel it, they feel it, same as anyone.
The trick is not a trick at all.. it is simply .. no games, but play....Stay playing. No games though.. you know what I mean? You can really talk to this guy. Don't question, just be. He will support you in gentle ways. Though he may urge you on...
what are your placements?

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shop22much
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posted December 19, 2005 02:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for shop22much     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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pixelpixie
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posted December 19, 2005 09:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your composite sounds transformative... and I find Tenth house within synastry and composite does seem to emphasize what each of you can bring to the world through each other..... it feels important. You want to build them up and provide support....
Plus, you've got merc conjunct sun, allowing you to really talk and express....
Does your Moon fall into his fifth house in synastry? That would explain some of the draw he feels toward you...

It's hard in any situation ( especially with your seventh house stellium) to give in to partnership and open yourself up to possible hurt, through love... sometimes you have to risk.. it sounds like he is honest, and communication is strong between you. Your Sun in his third?
So maybe keep yourself treading, as you discover more about the depth here, and just trust your intuition....and maybe trust him....
Sag's tend to want to settle down, same as anyone, but it must be worth it.... and it's hard for anyone to determine to risk themselves.. you both have things on the line... so keep the commnication open and alive, have fun together...

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pidaua
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posted December 19, 2005 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Shop....

His chart is extremely similar to mine, which tells me his b-day must be close to mine (maybe a year before me).

I have almost the same aspects / planetary positions, with the exception of the fact that I have Moon in Aries, Mars in Pisces and a Virgo rising (Pluto conjunct Ascendant).

Pixie is right. We are straight forward and like to tell it like it is. We are also VERY capable of settling down into a relationship where we are loyal and somewhat domestic.

It is very important for us to feel like we are friends with the person we want to be with. We also want to make sure that we do not become someone's possession and jealousy is kept to a minimum. For him to express himself in that manner (with the poems..etc...) is a big thing. I am sure he means it when he says he can talk to you for hours and that is unusual. I am the same way... if there is someone that I can talk and laugh with...well, they end up holding a special place in my heart.

Make sure to ask him about events in his life (that is very important to Sag people because many times we are so involved with others, that they tend to forget about our own feelings). I would also advise that you trust him enough to let him know about what is going on in your life. Saggies hate feeling left out of a person's life.

Good luck.. and enjoy yourself. His moon and your Sun have a nice vibe as do your moon and his sun

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Scorpionic Web
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posted December 28, 2005 08:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sagittarius females can definitely settle down. But I have four (known) Sagittarius male friends, all early-to-mid 20's, and I haven't known any of them to look to women for anything more than sex and friendship. But the 20's are still really young, and I'm sure settling down comes with maturity, so perhaps my observations aren't very relevant.

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pinkfairy
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posted December 29, 2005 10:27 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i knew

of a sag

male who

loved his

wife so
much he
spent a
whole year
chained to a
fence and
consumed
only birdseed

commitment
or madness

you decide

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sthenri
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posted December 29, 2005 06:49 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sags can be more faithful and commitment minded than other signs, I have received more cards from Sags than others.

My Sag friends are givers and a giver is always commitment minded.

Natasha

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shop22much
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posted December 29, 2005 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for shop22much     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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marsconjunctmercury
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posted December 30, 2005 07:52 AM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have all the planets below in Sagittarius.
What i would say is it can make you a bit licentious, but generally there's no-one more eager or risk-taking in love. I could love someone in 5 minutes. I can be non-commital but not with someone i really liked. I think Gemini's (Sun and Venus) are the worst for that personally. Sagittarians are quite deep and if they have Venus there i think you'll find an exceptionally honest, faithful, and passionate partner.

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4th December 1974 18:00GMT Isle of Wight U.K
Sun, Mercury, Venus, Neptune in Sagittarius. Moon in Leo. Mars in Scorpio. Cancer rising. Jupiter in Pisces... You get the picture...

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pidaua
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posted December 31, 2005 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Shop.. why not take the chance? I know people sometimes worry about us Archers.. but we really are faithful.

I also have Venus in Sag conjuncting my Sun. I am honest in a relationship, even if it only casual dating. Mr. Taurus (new one) and I were talking about that the other night. Before I decided that I wanted to only date him, I had let him know that I was dating other guys.

He was patient and open about everything. Never trying to push me, but he did let me know that he cares for me and he understood my position having just got out of a relationship with a terrible Bull. As time has gone on.. I too cut it off with the guys I was dating casually. Not just to show him that I care only for him in that way, but because the more my feelings for him grow, the less I want to add any confusion by dating another.

Natasha and other's are right. We are very deep and sensitive, even if people don't readily see past that outer smile and joke cracking way we have about us. We like that slow steady partner that can bring us down to earth, but also will laugh at our antics and jokes. (Not too slooooow or we may fall asleep).

The more you are open with him (my new guy is extremely open to my astrology / shamanism) the more he will open up to you. The connection will be unbelievable if you let it develop.

The other key word is TRUST.. I know we can be very gregarious and sometimes even flirty. But we know who we want and we won't take the chance on hurting them for some stranger of brief encounter (at least though of us that are evolved.. which by our 30's we normally are.. or at least getting there). Young Saggies can be terrors.. but we even out with age.

I am excited for you... please keep us updated.

Good luck

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