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Lady Dee
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From: Costa Rica
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posted June 25, 2006 09:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lady Dee     Edit/Delete Message
Hello everyone, first post. I must say what a wonderful site this is. I have been lurking for quite a while, so be gentle with me.

I have met a wonderful man(Mr Virgo) four months ago. We had a period of seperation for a couple of weeks due to me shifting countries. When we made contact again he said that he had missed me terribly. In our latest contact he told me that I was the "Ultimate Woman". I was floored, but of course being a Scorpio I didn't say too much. What do you think? I am quite taken by this kind, intelligent, good man.

Me/Him
05/11/70 13/9/79
Hawera Chicago
New Zealand USA
14.25 6.30

Yes, I know he is younger (blushes) but I feel there is something very special here. ANY comments would be most welcome. Have a wonderful day!

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Lady Dee
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posted June 25, 2006 09:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lady Dee     Edit/Delete Message
Oh, I meant to add that I know that I should ask him but I don't want to frighten him and I'm not the sort of person who wears my heart on my sleeve either.

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writesomething
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posted June 25, 2006 09:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for writesomething     Edit/Delete Message
You guys have VENUS CONJUNCTION PLUTO! this is a very powerful/soulmate aspect, I would believe him if he says youre the ultimate woman!

LadyDEE's Mercury sextile HIM's Mercury:

It is easy to understand each other, as your minds work in similar styles. Making decisions together
is supported, and when communication difficulties do arise, they are readily resolved when there is
the intention to do so.

LadyDEE's Saturn trine HIM's Saturn:

You solve life's difficult situations in a supportive manner, allowing you to appreciate each other's
help and assistance. You are able to learn from life together, and thus can avoid making the same
mistakes over and over again.

LadyDEE's Ascendant opposition HIM's Ascendant:

Your attitudes about approaching most everything conflict with each other. To have a healthy
relationship, you both are forced to stretch your acceptance of these differences to offset the
tendency to get irritated with each other.

LadyDEE's Sun conjunct HIM's Uranus:

There is something electric, exciting, and liberating about your relationship with each other. You
encourage each other to cast off cultural expectations and pursue your authentic natures. Although
exciting, Uranus is a wild card and the unsettledness and uncertainty that comes with Uranus is part
of the territory.

HIM's Sun conjunct LadyDEE's Pluto:

This is an extremely powerful aspect that has to be handled wisely. LadyDEE's will has a
subconscious impact on HIM. The relationship can facilitate major transformation; rarely would it
be casual. There can seem to be something fated or karmic about this tie, unleashing a tremendous
amount of power and passion between the two of you. If this is healthy, bravo, this can be an
extremely profound relationship. If either person feels threatened in any way by the other, not much
good can come from the tie.

HIM's Sun trine LadyDEE's Moon:

A natural flow exists in the relationship with your energies naturally supporting one another.
LadyDEE feels safe to drop defenses and be at ease around HIM's natural energy, allowing HIM
to feel accepted and appreciated.

HIM's Sun trine LadyDEE's Saturn:

You have patience with each other and can work well together either professionally or when
sharing life's responsibilities. You can even be patient with each other's "bad" days. You learn from
your experiences together and typically don't make the same mistakes twice with each other.

HIM's Sun sextile LadyDEE's Mercury:

Communication and a natural understanding of each other are favored. You "get" each other and
readily resolve the natural conflicts that arise in relationships. You stimulate each other's mental
activity and readily learn from each other.

HIM's Sun sextile LadyDEE's Venus:

This is one of the sweet ties in relationship astrology, leading to natural affection and simply
enjoying being in each other's company. If it's not a romantic relationship, the arts and cultural
opportunities are a few of a multitude of ways to share and enjoy life with each other. The natural
magnetic flow of attraction that exists between the two of you makes it easier to overlook each
other's shortcomings.

HIM's Sun opposition LadyDEE's Ascendant:

Tension exists in the way you each approach situations, and there can be a conflict of will unless
you allow for your differences. This combination is very favorable for natural magnetic attraction
between the two of you.

LadyDEE's Sun opposition HIM's Chiron:

Your natural instincts for helping each other through wounding times can be off target. Try not to
judge each other's wounds and, instead, see what you can do to offer support, even if your ways
of dealing with wounds are radically different.

LadyDEE's Moon trine HIM's Mercury:

Communication over personal issues is favored. You can always depend on each other for
understanding when needed, and this brings clarity into your lives.

LadyDEE's Moon trine HIM's Venus:

You can feel very natural and comfortable in each other's presence, making time spent together
enjoyable. You support and even take delight in each other's emotional responses to life. You can
become interested in the arts and socializing together.

LadyDEE's Moon trine HIM's Saturn:

You work well together on both the personal and professional fronts. HIM gives steadiness and
patience to the relationship. LadyDEE adds emotional support to HIM's efforts in the world of
responsibility.

LadyDEE's Moon trine HIM's Ascendant:

You feel at ease and comfortable in each other's presence. This relaxed flow between the two of
you allows you to spend considerable time with each other.

HIM's Moon trine LadyDEE's North Node:

You both naturally support each other's soul growth. You feel familiar and comfortable with each
other.

LadyDEE's Moon opposition HIM's Mars:

This aspect often leads to a stormy emotional tie. LadyDEE is always on edge and feels threatened
by HIM's energy. LadyDEE's emotional responses irritate HIM. Without restraint, this can be a
wounding combination.

LadyDEE's Moon square HIM's Pluto:

LadyDEE can feel threatened, unsafe, and powerless to withstand HIM's will. A healthy
relationship can develop only if HIM can remain conscious of the potential misuse of this power of
intimidation. Otherwise, the potential for unhealthy psychological patterns to develop between the
two of you is strong.

HIM's Moon square LadyDEE's Ascendant:

Misunderstandings often arise when HIM's emotional needs are expressed in a way that irritates
LadyDEE. Your relationship benefits from spending a little time apart in the daily schedule to avoid
getting on each other's nerves.

LadyDEE's Mercury conjunct HIM's Uranus:

This is a very exciting connection for communication and learning together. HIM's energy liberates
LadyDEE's way of thinking, though it does make it difficult to stay on the topic at hand. While in
conversations with each other, ideas just come flying in about all types of issues, not just what you
are currently discussing. Some of the ideas that you come up with together are likely to be out of
synch with your culture, so it's best to think things through before you act on some of your radical
ideas.

LadyDEE's Mercury trine HIM's Mars:

This tie is favorable for motivating you both to act on ideas. You rarely trigger each other's
defenses in communications, and can even work through difficult moments together without feeling
threatened by each other.

HIM's Mercury trine LadyDEE's Saturn:

You are able to handle responsibilities well together. You not only make plans well, you are able to
follow through on them with patience and commitment. When difficulties in your relationship do
arise, this combination facilitates an ability to work through the issues patiently.

HIM's Mercury sextile LadyDEE's Venus:

This creates a stimulating spark in your exchanges as you both enjoy each other's personality. HIM
communicates in a way that LadyDEE enjoys, and thus friendship and romance are favored.
Creative outlets are also favored, although any relationship and any activity would benefit from this
delightful combination.

LadyDEE's Mercury sextile HIM's Ascendant:

You have a natural understanding of each other and feel free to express yourselves to each other,
knowing you will be understood.

HIM's Mercury opposition LadyDEE's Ascendant:

Misunderstandings are not uncommon with this aspect, as you both tend to misinterpret each
other's attempts at communication. Avoid this potential for misunderstanding by double-checking
important communications with each other.

LadyDEE's Mercury opposition HIM's Chiron:

You likely have different opinions and views concerning health issues. It is not easy to accept each
other's help, because your views about what would be helpful differ. Try not to convince each
other of the right way toward health and healing, and instead, acknowledge and allow for the
differences to help avoid difficulties.

LadyDEE's Venus conjunct HIM's Uranus:

This creates an electric magnetism between the two of you, but it is highly unstable. HIM liberates
LadyDEE from conventional attitudes, and LadyDEE is excited by HIM's uniqueness. The
unpredictable nature of HIM keeps a tone of uncertainty in the relationship.

HIM's Venus conjunct LadyDEE's Pluto:

A compelling, nearly hypnotic attraction can exist between the two of you. With highly developed
souls, this can lead to deep, transformative passion. With lower types, the compelling energy can
lead to obsessions or manipulative love.

LadyDEE's Venus trine HIM's Mars:

There is very favorable magnetic flow between the two of you that could best be described as
delightful. This creates an energetic spark that is well received by both of you. You are skilled at
keeping this spark of magnetism alive long into your relationship.

HIM's Venus trine LadyDEE's Saturn:

This aspect adds stability to your relationship because you have the patience and commitment it
takes to work through the rough spots. You complement each other's lives, as HIM brings out
LadyDEE's personal side, and LadyDEE helps HIM keeps it together in the world.

LadyDEE's Venus sextile HIM's Ascendant:

This is a highly magnetic and sweet combination. LadyDEE is very attracted to HIM's looks and
style. It is easy to love one another, and interests in the arts, entertainment, and culture are favored.

HIM's Venus opposition LadyDEE's Ascendant:

Your values and sensitivities to beauty clash with one another. LadyDEE's natural style of
presentation is a turn-off for HIM HIM can seem uptight to LadyDEE.

LadyDEE's Venus opposition HIM's Chiron:

Your values concerning health and healing can be at odds with each other. LadyDEE's desires for
pleasurable activity can activate the wounds HIM is carrying from previous relationships.

LadyDEE's Venus square HIM's Jupiter:

It is not always easy to find ways to socialize together. What one of you considers a
growth-oriented activity, the other might not value at all. When you do get together, there is the risk
of encouraging each other's excessive behavior.

HIM's Mars trine LadyDEE's Neptune:

This combination is excellent for romance as it brings the best of imagination into your passion. You
can inspire each other creatively in all types of ways, and the danger of the blind spot with Neptune
is minimized.

HIM's Mars trine LadyDEE's Ascendant:

Your energies flow well together, making it easy to work or play together. You rarely trigger each
other's defenses, allowing you feel safe with each other. Knowing you can count on each other's
support in any conflict gives you courage.

HIM's Mars sextile LadyDEE's Saturn:

This aspect is excellent for working on difficult projects together, or anything that requires patience
and determination. This gives strength and backbone to the relationship, allowing you to get
through the difficult times without falling apart.

LadyDEE's Jupiter conjunct HIM's Uranus:

This aspect creates excitement between the two of you about the soon-to-be-discovered future.
You both have the potential to be a liberating influence on each other's beliefs, allowing there to be
continued growth and evolution together. You encourage each other's radical freedom, for good or
ill. If ungrounded, this combination can lead to reckless, speculative behavior with no thought of
caution.

LadyDEE's Jupiter sextile HIM's Saturn:

You work well together on career and professional matters, as well as all issues of handling
responsibility together. You are especially effective at planning together and follow a step-by-step
approach to getting to your shared goals.

LadyDEE's Jupiter sextile HIM's Ascendant:

This aspect is favorable for most relationships as the two of you share common philosophical,
political, and religious beliefs, as well as cultural interests. It simply feels uplifting to be in each
other's company.

HIM's Jupiter opposition LadyDEE's North Node:

The past-life karma of this relationship is HIM having been a teacher or benefactor for LadyDEE in
a past life. When you first met each other, it was likely a positive experience, and getting to know
each other is facilitated by the trust that has already been established.

LadyDEE's Jupiter opposition HIM's Chiron:

Your beliefs and philosophical views clash with each other concerning health and healing issues.
Although not with malicious indent, LadyDEE can encourage directions that hinder, rather than
help, HIM's healing process.

HIM's Jupiter square LadyDEE's Neptune:

You encourage each other into blind spots and plans based on false optimism. With this aspect, it
is always best to think things all the way through before heading off on a fantasy. You can
encourage indulgent behavior in each other, and this could be trouble if either of you has problems
with escapism or addictions.

LadyDEE's Saturn conjunct HIM's Chiron:

This combination works best when LadyDEE is a natural authority for HIM concerning health and
healing concerns, and if HIM willingly surrenders to the mentoring of LadyDEE. If mutual respect is
not present, LadyDEE can inadvertently hold HIM in HIM's wounds, restricting movement toward
healing.

LadyDEE's Saturn trine HIM's Ascendant:

This is a stabilizing aspect for all relationships. LadyDEE is patient with HIM and can be a source
of guidance without being heavy-handed. HIM helps LadyDEE stay focused on manifesting
ambitions and goals. This combination is excellent for being able to work through the difficult times
together on any type of commitment.

LadyDEE's Saturn opposition HIM's Uranus:

There is tension from LadyDEE wanting to maintain the status quo and HIM wanting change.
LadyDEE feels HIM is a loose cannon and disruptive to what is going on. HIM becomes frustrated
by LadyDEE's narrow thinking.

HIM's Saturn opposition LadyDEE's Ascendant:

LadyDEE feels disempowered by HIM 's disapproval. You can both feel disrespected for what
you stand for. The relationship feels strained unless you overcome your judgments of each other.

LadyDEE's Uranus conjunct HIM's Pluto:

You are catalysts for each other to pursue interests beyond the ego. You could fuel each other's
interest in social/cultural change, or animate each other's spiritual interests. Your relationship may
take on a greater purpose and get pulled into some type of movement together, as in the
consciousness movement, the peace movement, or other important social causes.

HIM's Uranus trine LadyDEE's Ascendant:

You encourage and support each other's uniqueness and individuality by giving each other
permission to be just who you are without pretension. You support each other's path of awakening
and evolution by encouraging each other to stay in an attitude of discovery.

HIM's Neptune square LadyDEE's Ascendant:

A lack of clarity between the two of you can cloud the relationship. You likely misinterpret each
other, and difficulties arise over illusions that one or both of you have about each other and the
relationship. Honesty is essential, even if conflict erupts; better to deal with the issues and stay clear
than to pretend there aren't any issues and remain in illusion.

LadyDEE's Ascendant sextile HIM's Chiron:

You have a natural, unspoken empathy for the trials and tribulations you both have endured. In this
quiet acceptance, a healing occurs, and you help each other move beyond the wounds of the past.

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"

"Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation"

-Khalil Gibran

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lotusheartone
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posted June 25, 2006 09:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotusheartone     Edit/Delete Message
Lady DEE..Welcome!

if you do not give Love..you cannot receive it..if you cannot say it..how can it come back to you..
we get what we give

Trust..that doesn't Rust. .

Follow your Heart. ...

LOts of LOve and Light to U...

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lotusheartone
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posted June 25, 2006 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotusheartone     Edit/Delete Message
Writesomething..awesome work!


LOve and LIght. ...

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Lady Dee
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posted June 25, 2006 09:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lady Dee     Edit/Delete Message
Oh, thank you so much for your kind words and welcome, especially writesomething. I truely appreciate your efforts.

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yogeshmishra
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posted July 01, 2006 01:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for yogeshmishra     Edit/Delete Message
Listen dear
Why you are looking for others suggestion.Go straight do what u wanna to do .Alwayas listen to your heart whatever he says blindly follow, it will a new exp. .Donot say it will be a foolish act.In love you should offer donot ask 4 anything see in the eye of your beloved and dippppppppppp

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Lady Dee
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posted July 01, 2006 09:55 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lady Dee     Edit/Delete Message
Dear Yoge, I appreciate your comments however, the only reason that I asked was that there is so much written about Virgos and the need to take things slow with them and not frighten them. Especially with my Scorpio intensity. They are also difficult to read so I was asking for others advice.

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sarah9
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posted July 01, 2006 11:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sarah9     Edit/Delete Message
Ladydee,

Virgo's generally dont make such sweeping statements...maybe hes right!

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