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Taurus80
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posted August 07, 2006 12:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Taurus80     Edit/Delete Message
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Azalaksh
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posted August 07, 2006 12:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Azalaksh     Edit/Delete Message
Hi T80 ~

Being told that you are “meant to be together” by a man you feel is NOT good for you seems scary to me
Perhaps, as Sylvia Browne wrote, this person showed up in your life just to see if you had learned how to avoid them yet….. you wrote:

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he was very destructive, and honestly i don't want to know him or if he's changed, i'm afraid i'd fall into that unhappy pattern again..i want him to be happy, but just not in my life..i hope that doesn't sound mean..
No worries, girl -- it doesn’t sound mean, it sounds like self-preservation!! Listen to your instincts – I wish I had. When I met the man I ended up spending almost 5 years with, I didn’t like him at all. I told myself I was being silly, and there was no reason for these irrational bad vibes. So I got into a relationship with him, which I finally escaped by taking our baby and driving 2000 miles across country just after he was carted off to jail for domestic violence. Listen to your heart, T – and don’t return his phone calls or fall prey to any suggestibility: remember the Red Flags you’ve noticed, be strong and don’t allow him in your life!!

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Taurus80
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Scorpionic Web
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posted August 07, 2006 07:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Scorpionic Web     Edit/Delete Message
This past May, I told a long-time Taurus friend that she should've had my baby instead of her loser ex's, I could see something click in her, and she forced sex on me that night.

The December before last, I was at a restaurant with another long-time Taurus friend and told her that all I wanted was her (true, she was and may still be all I want), but it freaked her out. Toward the end of our drinks, I went to the bathroom, walked back out, and she was just standing there. She slammed me up against a wall and made out with me, so many people watching. It was so sexy. We went back to her place and her immoveable Taurus ways kept our clothes on, but I didn't want to push her, either. It was a really nice night of kissing and closeness. Since that night she has stopped returning my calls, and I haven't bothered trying for the past year. My feelings for her, for years, were RAW DESIRE, they still ARE, and after 8 years of knowing her, no other girl has driven me so wild.

I could only dream of getting into this Taurus girl's head the way this guy has gotten into yours...

The first Taurus is too much to handle, the second Taurus found me too much to handle.

Go figure...

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Taurus80
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Venus De Milo
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posted August 08, 2006 02:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Venus De Milo     Edit/Delete Message
My ex-husband used to say that to me all the time when I wanted a divorce. I always felt trapped and suffocated with him. I disagreed!!!

We both have natal stelliums that conjunct one another's South Nodes.

My "soul mate" always said he missed the boat with me, when we first met, he would always say we were meant to be together.

Words mean very little

If you feel negative energy coming from this person and he is destructive in your life and not a positive influence that brings you up and makes you happy, then run for your life. WHO CARES what he says. Listen to your gut.

If you don't want to be with him, then absolutely don't be!

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