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Topic: "Meant to Be.."
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Taurus80 Knowflake Posts: 816 From: Registered: May 2005
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posted August 07, 2006 12:01 AM
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Azalaksh Moderator Posts: 6403 From: New Brighton, MN, USA Registered: Nov 2004
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posted August 07, 2006 12:26 AM
Hi T80 ~Being told that you are “meant to be together” by a man you feel is NOT good for you seems scary to me Perhaps, as Sylvia Browne wrote, this person showed up in your life just to see if you had learned how to avoid them yet….. you wrote: quote: he was very destructive, and honestly i don't want to know him or if he's changed, i'm afraid i'd fall into that unhappy pattern again..i want him to be happy, but just not in my life..i hope that doesn't sound mean..
No worries, girl -- it doesn’t sound mean, it sounds like self-preservation!! Listen to your instincts – I wish I had. When I met the man I ended up spending almost 5 years with, I didn’t like him at all. I told myself I was being silly, and there was no reason for these irrational bad vibes. So I got into a relationship with him, which I finally escaped by taking our baby and driving 2000 miles across country just after he was carted off to jail for domestic violence. Listen to your heart, T – and don’t return his phone calls or fall prey to any suggestibility: remember the Red Flags you’ve noticed, be strong and don’t allow him in your life!! Zala IP: Logged |
Taurus80 Knowflake Posts: 816 From: Registered: May 2005
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posted August 07, 2006 12:36 AM
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Scorpionic Web Knowflake Posts: 487 From: Pennsylvania Registered: Dec 2005
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posted August 07, 2006 07:21 PM
This past May, I told a long-time Taurus friend that she should've had my baby instead of her loser ex's, I could see something click in her, and she forced sex on me that night.The December before last, I was at a restaurant with another long-time Taurus friend and told her that all I wanted was her (true, she was and may still be all I want), but it freaked her out. Toward the end of our drinks, I went to the bathroom, walked back out, and she was just standing there. She slammed me up against a wall and made out with me, so many people watching. It was so sexy. We went back to her place and her immoveable Taurus ways kept our clothes on, but I didn't want to push her, either. It was a really nice night of kissing and closeness. Since that night she has stopped returning my calls, and I haven't bothered trying for the past year. My feelings for her, for years, were RAW DESIRE, they still ARE, and after 8 years of knowing her, no other girl has driven me so wild. I could only dream of getting into this Taurus girl's head the way this guy has gotten into yours... The first Taurus is too much to handle, the second Taurus found me too much to handle. Go figure... IP: Logged |
Taurus80 Knowflake Posts: 816 From: Registered: May 2005
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posted August 07, 2006 09:05 PM
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Venus De Milo Knowflake Posts: 514 From: USA Registered: Jan 2006
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posted August 08, 2006 02:04 AM
My ex-husband used to say that to me all the time when I wanted a divorce. I always felt trapped and suffocated with him. I disagreed!!!We both have natal stelliums that conjunct one another's South Nodes. My "soul mate" always said he missed the boat with me, when we first met, he would always say we were meant to be together. Words mean very little If you feel negative energy coming from this person and he is destructive in your life and not a positive influence that brings you up and makes you happy, then run for your life. WHO CARES what he says. Listen to your gut. If you don't want to be with him, then absolutely don't be! IP: Logged |
Taurus80 Knowflake Posts: 816 From: Registered: May 2005
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posted August 08, 2006 10:32 AM
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