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tinasparkle
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posted October 19, 2006 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tinasparkle     Edit/Delete Message
Hi all,

I am trying to get some kind of insight into my fella's probable behavior in the bedroom. I read an interesting article about Mars and Venus placement, but his Mars and Venus are so drastically different I can't make heads or tails of it. It the house palcement significant. Any help would be appreciated.

Him:
Venus Virgo 08° 34' 11th House
Mars Scorpio 00° 51' 1st House

Me:
Venus Scorpio 07° 27' 4th House
Mars Sagittarius 21° 13' 6th House

I posted this on the astrology board as well.

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Arnicka
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posted October 22, 2006 12:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Arnicka     Edit/Delete Message
hi TS:

Here's some insight with Planets in Love by Townley:

VIRGO VENUS
You are likely to be most comfortable with a familiar lover who knows your habits and desires very well. Youre aroused by very specific things and equally turned off by others, so your partner should be completely aware of your likes and dislikes.

Indeed, you should spend some time sorting out your desires, for you may be missing out on some fairly unusual ways of gaining pleasure simply simply for lack of investigation. Do not let antiquated moral taboos keep you from living up to your love potential, as you may find stimulation in many things besides your lover.

Cleanliness is quite important in loving, and showering with a lover can be a delightful erotic treat in itself. Also it eliminates a host of problems that might arise in lovemaking, leaving both of you free for pleasant experimentation.

You and your lover can find pleasure in writing down your fantasies in detail and exchanging them. In this fashion you can get and give exactly what you both want in a way that is unlikely to happen in more spontaneous love play; this will make your lovemaking, in its own way, a dream come true.

VENUS 11TH
Your prefer a lover who is well coordinated physically, emotionally and socially, someone whom you can show off proudly to your friends so that they will have a higher opinion of you. For this reason you tend to associate with very fine people, who will improve your social standing in you can keep the right perspective.

In this area your judgment must be very acute so that you can separate true substance from the showy or trendy. Try not to harry your partner unnecessarily about details of dress, image and social acceptance. Although externals are important, a long-range relationship must be based on internal excellence, and that is the standard you should emphasize. It is better to do what you can to improve appearances than to force an unwanted responsibility on your lover.

This is particularly important, because you want your partner to be more than a helpmate or a showcase; you want a close and dear friend whose love will endure beoynd the convenience or necessity of the moment. Therefore, by being patient about small matters, you can cement a lasting relationship that will elevate you both. That would go far beyond momentary considerations of social importance, heightening your own self esteem as well as drawing respect and admiration from those around you.

MARS SCORPIO
Your energies tend to be rather muffled and smoldering, in that you harbor a desire for a long time before allowing it to break out, and then it is very intense. For this reason, your lover may not be truly aware of the nature or extent of your needs, which when revealed may surprise or overwhelm him or her. It is wise to express yourself verbally beforehand so that your partner is prepared.

Because of this rather dominating high energy, you often rule a relationship, directly or indirectly, particularly in its physical aspects. To you, sex is a kind of mutual self-immolation, which you sometimes lead your lover into without warning. You need a partner who is open to sexual adventure and self-abandonment, someone who can experience your kind of sexuality.

Your may rely particularly on the physical and organic aspects of sex for relaying cues of affection to a lover, and therefore
you should avoid sexually conservative types unless you relish continually shocking your partner. True communication takes a while for you to develop, but once established, the ties are very deep and not easily broken.

MARS 1ST
Your sexual energies are quite direct and are not likely to become confused or sublimated into other areas. This is a very honest approach to an area that is seldom treated that way, and you may have to hold back for a partner who prefers to be more circumspect about sex. However, you are happiest with someone who has a similarily open style with whom you do not have to continually repress your natural drives.

You probably have a good deal of stamina in sexuality as well as in other physical pursuits, and you don't tire easily. Indeed, youre likely yo get the most pleasure from fairly lengthy lovemaking and may be somewhat frustrated by a hasty conclusion. Be sure to take your lover's energies into account, however, because what seems to you like a short run around the block may be more like a marathon for your partner. For that reason, you would do well to match yourself to a lover of similar energy.

You may be impatient in matters of love, wanting to get on with the affair with a minimum of talk or banter. That is an honest reflection of your feelings, but you should avoid being too hasty; often the delays before a relationship is consummated give you time to think twice about whether you really want to commit yourself to that particular lover. By slowing down, you can avoid relationships that are too crowded with undesirable complexities.

Of course aspects matter Blend Blend...And the Moon is so incredibly important as well.. dont underestimate that.

(p.s)
With an ASC I can give a very detailed maybe too detailed description from Schulman's book.

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tinasparkle
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posted October 22, 2006 08:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tinasparkle     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Arnicka,

The info was so helpful and since it seems we are going to move forward with this relationship (I will update everyone shortly)I would like to know as much as possible. His chart is below. There have been suggestions that I look at Eros and Descendent but I am not experienced enough to figure those things out.
Thanks again.

Sun Cancer 28° 15' 10th House
Moon Capricorn 29° 27' 4th House
Mercury Cancer 12° 20' 9th House
Venus Virgo 08° 34' 11th House
Mars Scorpio 00° 51' 1st House
Jupiter Leo 11° 36' 10th House
Saturn Aries 12° 33' 6th House
Uranus Virgo 21° 30' 11th House
Neptune Scorpio 21° 35' 2nd House
Pluto Virgo 18° 40' 11th House

Ascendant Libra 21° 14'
2nd House Scorpio 18° 38'
3rd House Sagittarius 20° 27'
4th House Capricorn 25° 19'
5th House Aquarius 28° 50'
6th House Pisces 27° 39'
7th House Aries 21° 14'
8th House Taurus 18° 38'
9th House Gemini 20° 27'
Midheaven Cancer 25° 19'
11th House Leo 28° 50'
12th House Virgo 27° 39'

Sun Opposition Moon 01° 11'
Sun Square Mars 02° 36'
Sun Trine Neptune 06° 40'
Moon Square Mars 01° 25'
Mercury Sextile Venus 03° 46'
Mercury Square Saturn 00° 13'
Jupiter Trine Saturn 00° 57'
Uranus Sextile Neptune 00° 06'
Uranus Conjunction Pluto 02° 49'
Neptune Sextile Pluto 02° 55'


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Arnicka
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posted October 22, 2006 08:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Arnicka     Edit/Delete Message
His DSC is Aries ruled by that Scorpio Mars in the 1st.. Wow firecracker haha No planets in the 7th so the ruler takes on extra importance. Hes definitely looking for a strong passionate woman. Or at least has most of his experience with that "type." Thing is he really is like that, its just he projects that side onto his partners, which is soon to be you as I understand. So watch out for insults of the manipulative selfish variety [the negs of Scorp Aries]. This isnt for definite but if things go wrong he might hurl those.... This Mars is square his already defensive Capricorn Moon, so either there are random bursts of anger [since Cap Moon is already defensive by nature and Scorp Mars is very cutting] or he channels this energy into some sport, work life, hobby. Its very close to being an actual square but with the Moon so late in Cap, its possible that it might difuse some of the energy.

His Moon in capricorn is always very sensitive but prone to covering up, hiding--its opposed his Sun but at his age Im sure he's found a lot more balance than he had in the past so i guess its good that youre getting a "seasoned" partner

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Here's the Libra ASC portion of the Schulman text.

LIBRA FIRST HOUSE ARIES SEVENTH HOUSE
With Libra in the first house, sex tends to mirror the needs of the mate. The individual has difficulty knowing who he really is, and he is usually in love with love. Often he goes through life with rose colored glasses, imagining romance in many situations. He can fool himself as well as those around him by not wanting to see the reality of his relationships.

The sexual identity is a passive one needing encouragement from the mate's enthusiasm. Basic insecurities and fears of rejection lead the individual to seek a forceful and sometimes selfish partner who knows how to lead. The sensitive, gentle and kindhearted nature of the Libra ASC is perfectly content to follow the right person.

With all the ethereal lightness of this placement, the Taurus eighth house that usually accompanies it makes the sex needs quite earthy and strong. The natural physical and spiritual beauty of this individual can, through sex, find a very special outlet for expression. Individuality and a sense of identity occurs through marriage because the Libra ASC (being the natural sign of marriage) tends to make the individual feel like only half a person when life forces him to function only for himself. When the identity is focused towards "we" instead of "me," the natural inner beauty of this placement begins to shine in all its fullness. It is through the Aries seventh house that a sense of one-mindedness andthe impotance of a singular direction in life is established. Being highly sensitive, this individual will absorb any selfish qualities that the partner has. Instead of this being something negative, however, it helps to add drive and momentum to an otherwise passive ego.

On a sexual level, the individual wants to please his partner, but it is his partner that teaches him he must also please himself.

The lesson od this house placement is to focus the passive ego through marriage while at the same time learn how to balance partnership through the impersonal self.

KEYWORDS: senstive, peacemaker, sacrificial to partner, impersonal identity, tactful, aesthetic, lewd relationships, sometimes bi-sexual, unconscious sado-masochistic complex, youthful mate, energetic sexual partner.


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tinasparkle
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posted October 23, 2006 11:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tinasparkle     Edit/Delete Message
Very interesting. I think we are probably pretty compatible in this area and the heat between us is just unbelievable. There are times when we are doing nothing but talking and I almost feel faint it's so intense. I think that my Desc. is Capricorn. I'm not sure how this matches up. This is me:

Sun Sagittarius 08° 27' 5th House
Moon Sagittarius 17° 28' 5th House
Mercury Sagittarius 19° 20' 6th House
Venus Scorpio 07° 27' 4th House
Mars Sagittarius 21° 13' 6th House
Jupiter Leo 09° 01' 1st House
Saturn Virgo 13° 27' 3rd House
Uranus Scorpio 18° 02' 5th House
Neptune Sagittarius 17° 40' 6th House
Pluto Libra 18° 25' 4th House

Ascendant Cancer 21° 1'
2nd House Leo 10° 10'
3rd House Virgo 02° 39'
4th House Libra 01° 29'
5th House Scorpio 08° 11'
6th House Sagittarius 17° 29'
7th House Capricorn 21° 1'
8th House Aquarius 10° 10'
9th House Pisces 02° 39'
Midheaven Aries 01° 29'
11th House Taurus 08° 11'
12th House Gemini 17° 29'

Sun Trine Jupiter 00° 34'
Sun Square Saturn 04° 59'
Moon Conjunction Mercury 01° 52'
Moon Conjunction Mars 03° 46'
Moon Square Saturn 04° 01'
Moon Conjunction Neptune 00° 12'
Moon Sextile Pluto 00° 57'
Mercury Conjunction Mars 01° 53'
Mercury Square Saturn 05° 53'
Mercury Conjunction Neptune 01° 40'
Mercury Sextile Pluto 00° 55'
Venus Square Jupiter 01° 34'
Mars Conjunction Neptune 03° 34'
Mars Sextile Pluto 02° 49'
Saturn Sextile Uranus 04° 36'
Saturn Square Neptune 04° 13'
Neptune Sextile Pluto 00° 45'

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