posted October 22, 2006 12:48 AM
hi TS:Here's some insight with Planets in Love by Townley:
VIRGO VENUS
You are likely to be most comfortable with a familiar lover who knows your habits and desires very well. Youre aroused by very specific things and equally turned off by others, so your partner should be completely aware of your likes and dislikes.
Indeed, you should spend some time sorting out your desires, for you may be missing out on some fairly unusual ways of gaining pleasure simply simply for lack of investigation. Do not let antiquated moral taboos keep you from living up to your love potential, as you may find stimulation in many things besides your lover.
Cleanliness is quite important in loving, and showering with a lover can be a delightful erotic treat in itself. Also it eliminates a host of problems that might arise in lovemaking, leaving both of you free for pleasant experimentation.
You and your lover can find pleasure in writing down your fantasies in detail and exchanging them. In this fashion you can get and give exactly what you both want in a way that is unlikely to happen in more spontaneous love play; this will make your lovemaking, in its own way, a dream come true.
VENUS 11TH
Your prefer a lover who is well coordinated physically, emotionally and socially, someone whom you can show off proudly to your friends so that they will have a higher opinion of you. For this reason you tend to associate with very fine people, who will improve your social standing in you can keep the right perspective.
In this area your judgment must be very acute so that you can separate true substance from the showy or trendy. Try not to harry your partner unnecessarily about details of dress, image and social acceptance. Although externals are important, a long-range relationship must be based on internal excellence, and that is the standard you should emphasize. It is better to do what you can to improve appearances than to force an unwanted responsibility on your lover.
This is particularly important, because you want your partner to be more than a helpmate or a showcase; you want a close and dear friend whose love will endure beoynd the convenience or necessity of the moment. Therefore, by being patient about small matters, you can cement a lasting relationship that will elevate you both. That would go far beyond momentary considerations of social importance, heightening your own self esteem as well as drawing respect and admiration from those around you.
MARS SCORPIO
Your energies tend to be rather muffled and smoldering, in that you harbor a desire for a long time before allowing it to break out, and then it is very intense. For this reason, your lover may not be truly aware of the nature or extent of your needs, which when revealed may surprise or overwhelm him or her. It is wise to express yourself verbally beforehand so that your partner is prepared.
Because of this rather dominating high energy, you often rule a relationship, directly or indirectly, particularly in its physical aspects. To you, sex is a kind of mutual self-immolation, which you sometimes lead your lover into without warning. You need a partner who is open to sexual adventure and self-abandonment, someone who can experience your kind of sexuality.
Your may rely particularly on the physical and organic aspects of sex for relaying cues of affection to a lover, and therefore
you should avoid sexually conservative types unless you relish continually shocking your partner. True communication takes a while for you to develop, but once established, the ties are very deep and not easily broken.
MARS 1ST
Your sexual energies are quite direct and are not likely to become confused or sublimated into other areas. This is a very honest approach to an area that is seldom treated that way, and you may have to hold back for a partner who prefers to be more circumspect about sex. However, you are happiest with someone who has a similarily open style with whom you do not have to continually repress your natural drives.
You probably have a good deal of stamina in sexuality as well as in other physical pursuits, and you don't tire easily. Indeed, youre likely yo get the most pleasure from fairly lengthy lovemaking and may be somewhat frustrated by a hasty conclusion. Be sure to take your lover's energies into account, however, because what seems to you like a short run around the block may be more like a marathon for your partner. For that reason, you would do well to match yourself to a lover of similar energy.
You may be impatient in matters of love, wanting to get on with the affair with a minimum of talk or banter. That is an honest reflection of your feelings, but you should avoid being too hasty; often the delays before a relationship is consummated give you time to think twice about whether you really want to commit yourself to that particular lover. By slowing down, you can avoid relationships that are too crowded with undesirable complexities.
Of course aspects matter Blend Blend...And the Moon is so incredibly important as well.. dont underestimate that.
(p.s)
With an ASC I can give a very detailed maybe too detailed description from Schulman's book.