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Alope
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posted November 18, 2006 02:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alope     Edit/Delete Message
To make a *really* long story short, there is this ex-boyfriend that I just can't get over, and he has told me the feeling is mutual. Unfortunately though, we can't be together. I feel like this relationship is truely unique and would rather be alone than with anyone else. I'm afraid I may just be making this up though and missing out on other opportunities.

I've looked at our charts to find some evidence to back up my intuition but don't know enough about astrology to compare it to much. Could you please take a look and let me know what insight you might have into this? I would love so much an outside opinion!

Me:
planet sign degree
Sun Virgo 7°16'41 end of house 9
Moon Pisces 11°14'23 in house 4
Mercury Leo 19°17'57 in house 9
Venus Leo 3°03'41 in house 9
Mars Leo 23°26'11 in house 9
Jupiter Aquarius 8°53'25 in house 3
Saturn Scorpio 22°29'36 end of house 12
Uranus Sagittarius 13°59'16 in house 1
Neptune Capricorn 0°53'25 in house 2
Pluto Scorpio 2°36'02 end of house 11
True Node Taurus 11°12'30 in house 6

Ascendant Scorpio 23°33'52
2nd House Sagittarius 24°13'06
3rd House Aquarius 0°29'29
Imum Coeli Pisces 7°30'36
5th House Aries 8°50'55
6th House Taurus 3°30'09
Descendant Taurus 23°33'52
8th House Gemini 24°13'06
9th House Leo 0°29'29
Medium Coeli Virgo 7°30'36
11th House Libra 8°50'55
12th House Scorpio 3°30'09

Him:
planet sign degree
Sun Sagittarius 28°00'09 in house 4
Moon Aquarius 20°22'03 in house 5
Mercury Capricorn 14°21'30 in house 4
Venus Capricorn 9°16'33 in house 4
Mars Aquarius 7°46'43 in house 5
Jupiter Scorpio 28°48'18 in house 3
Saturn Scorpio 1°59'30 in house 2
Uranus Sagittarius 6°16'05 in house 3
Neptune Sagittarius 26°48'15 end of house 3
Pluto Libra 28°58'54 in house 2
True Node Cancer 4°14'56 in house 10

Ascendant Virgo 28°00'37
2nd House Libra 24°10'06
3rd House Scorpio 24°29'47
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 27°44'00
5th House Aquarius 1°02'01
6th House Pisces 1°32'38
Descendant Pisces 28°00'37
8th House Aries 24°10'06
9th House Taurus 24°29'47
Medium Coeli Gemini 27°44'00
11th House Leo 1°02'01
12th House Virgo 1°32'38

Us: (midpoint method)

Sun Scorpio 2°38'25 in house 1
Moon Pisces 0°48'13 in house 4
Mercury Scorpio 1°49'44 in house 1
Venus Libra 21°10'07 in house 12
Mars Scorpio 15°36'27 in house 1
Jupiter Capricorn 3°50'52 in house 3
Saturn Scorpio 12°14'33 in house 1
Uranus Sagittarius 10°07'40 in house 2
Neptune Sagittarius 28°50'50 in house 3
Pluto Scorpio 0°47'28 in house 1
True Node Gemini 7°43'43 in house 8

Ascendant Libra 25°47'15
2nd House Scorpio 24°11'36
3rd House Sagittarius 27°29'38
Imum Coeli Aquarius 2°37'18
5th House Pisces 4°56'28
6th House Aries 2°31'23
Descendant Aries 25°47'15
8th House Taurus 24°11'36
9th House Gemini 27°29'38
Medium Coeli Leo 2°37'18
11th House Virgo 4°56'28
12th House Libra 2°31'23

PS. I don't actually know the time when he was born but I *know* it. His ascendant is Virgo or it's nothing!

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sunshine9
Knowflake

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From: Durham, NC, USA
Registered: Feb 2005

posted November 23, 2006 01:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sunshine9     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Alope,

Welcome to the forum! *waving*

Whoa... with all those planets in Scorpio in the composite chart, no wonder your relationship feels so intense! The synastry looks good too - his Mars conjuncts your Jupiter, a real feel-good aspect, and your Moon sextiles his Mercury & Venus, so your conversation must have an easy flow, and you appreciate each other so much.

WHy don't you post the charts - it would be easier to see the aspects.

So why can't you be together?

Sunshine

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Alope
Knowflake

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posted November 27, 2006 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alope     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you for your thoughts and the welcome!

We can't be together right now because of his career. He moved to the other side of the country in order to persue his dream. He is making monumental progress and I am so happy for him and proud of him. I would be more than willing to have a long-distance relationship, yet he maintains that he has to be dedicated 100% to whatever he pursues... and right now that needs to be this dream and not me.

I have been having trouble understanding why he couldn't have both, and I have been continually second-guessing his feelings for me because he doesn't even make the attempt to be together. Logic tells me then, I can't really be that important to him. So I waver back-and-forth in thinking that I'm either being strung along by continuing to communicate with someone that doesn't have true feelings for me, or else I'm too harsh and judgemental towards someone who really cares but just expresses themselves differently than me. He tells me how hard it all is for him and he wishes it were different but that he will never be happy if he doesn't go and do this, and I feel so awful that I can't understand. I'm so confused!!!

I'm not sure how to paste in the actual charts. I'll try to figure that out...

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Alope
Knowflake

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posted November 27, 2006 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alope     Edit/Delete Message
This is a picture of our composite:

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Knowflake

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From: Meet me in Montauk
Registered: Jun 2006

posted November 27, 2006 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for and     Edit/Delete Message
If he wanted you to come along on his journey, then he would have asked you to... Its hard but you need to let him go, its hard, blah blah....If he felt strongly for you, he wouldnt want to let you go....you'll meet someone better, chin up, Jupiter is in Sagittarius!...Love is around the corner for you...(your venus in leo)

Hope it gets better...

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"WHATEVER the soul longs for, WILL be attained by the spirit"-Khalil Gibran

Love truth even if it harms you, and hate lies even if they serve you.
Believe what you see and lay aside what you hear.
-Lebanese proverbs

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Alope
Knowflake

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posted November 28, 2006 07:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Alope     Edit/Delete Message
I know you're probably right. Why is this always so hard to accept?

His north node is in cancer and I guess I thought that it explained why he was struggling between his ambitions and emotional life... but maybe it isn't a struggle for him, just for me.

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