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From: Birmingham, Al, USA
Registered: Aug 2006

posted November 13, 2006 10:14 PM         

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A sun and moon Sagittarius male and I had been having a friends with benefits relationship, however I started developing more feelings. He had told me two times prior that he needed time apart, because hooking up was "screwing with his head," which I still don’t understand. Anyway I thought things would work themselves out, and I would get over him. Anyway I had been all along talking to other guys, and I had been hooking up (not sex) with other guys to avoid getting attached, and I didn't tell him. Anyway, he had found out that I had started a relationship with someone else (less than one week after we had last been together), and he asked me all these questions like, "what’s his name?", and "does he go to college?” and is he the same guy that I had previously done stuff with? After he found out he became a bit distant, and in fact (in the same conversation) I had asked him if he was dating anyone and he didn't want to say, and I asked him why and he replied with because he was tired of typing. That was how our conversation ended. The next day I decided that I wanted to get over him, and that I would tell him how I felt in a face book message. Well that same night I got drunk and made a fool out of myself (which included knocking on his door, messaging him, and basically making myself look like a psycho). After feeling horrible, I woke up the next day to find out that he had blocked me on aim and face book. Since then (it’s been a little over a week), he has been avoiding me. And I really don’t know why. Is there any chance he is mad at me or hurt? I really do care, but I hate losing control (which in this situation I did), and I hate that even though he has hurt me, our relationship seems so compulsive and passionate. Help me please?!? Thanks a bunch!
Here are our placements:
Me: DOB 7/3/1985 Born in Bellflower, Ca at 5:34 am
Him: DOB 12/1/1986 Born in Baltimore, MD at 12:30 pm

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From: mpls, MN, mpls/st.paul
Registered: Nov 2006

posted November 15, 2006 06:23 PM         

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I don't know if i can give you any advice but it definately sounds like a sagittarius with scorpio infulences. They way he tries to push and pull you when he likes while trying to keep you constantly devoted to him.

I can see where it would be difficult. I guess my best advice is to just give it a little time. talk it out. if you get involved in a relationship i'd suggest a lot of "girls night"s out. because chances are he really likes you and is devoted[the scorpio's are] but needs more space then any other sign. but i'm not fimilar with many sagittarius's so my advice may just be jibbirish, but good luck.

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posted November 15, 2006 10:12 PM         

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bump

(ill write something in later when i have time)

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From: Birmingham, Al, USA
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posted November 21, 2006 02:12 AM         

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As of yesterday the boy unblocked me, and we had a really good talk, which also included me showing how possessive I can be. I asked him if he was hooking up with someone else and he replied he wasn't sure and I was like well either way good for you. He then told me he's not, to which I replied why would you say that, you know how I am. He then said he didn’t realize how much I care. To which I replied that I didn’t care. But that I was slightly jealous and he said ok. Our conversations are very strange however today he decided that he didn't really feel like talking to me so he blocked me again. It's so weird he treats me like crap but all his friends think were really good friends, and that were attached at the hip. One of his friends told me so. I don't know what to believe. He says that he doesn't didn't realize that I was taken but I told him like three times that I had a boyfriend (which I am not with as of now), and he seems very controlling like sometimes he cares and other times he doesn’t. What’s up with him? My venus in taurus is fixed and doesn't want to give him up.

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posted November 21, 2006 06:47 PM         

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Hi GG

Unless you're the sort of person who has lots of interests of your own and doesnt want a joined at the hip type relationship, you'll never be happy with a Sag, even one with Scorp placement in his chart.

I'm speaking from experience. I really get on well with Sag men and had 4 year relationship with one (still friends) but I need a lot of space and have lots of intersts of my own (Sag Moon) so works out well for me.

Oh and I should think you behaving, in your own words, 'like a Psyco' would really scare him, moreso than it would other men - need to curb that one girl lol

Good Luck anyway.

Venus

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