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Topic: Pisces & Gemini - four times the trouble?
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Swerve unregistered
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posted November 02, 2002 02:15 PM
Hello guys, I've just joined, having been a keen reader of Linda's books since childhood really. Despite this I have a question...Do Pisces boys and Gemini girls ever make realistic combinations? I have been falling somewhat gently in love with a Twin who is already attached for 6 years to an Aquarian. Now, I'm not expecting or attempting to break them up, but I am curious to know if the "connection" I think we share is real. Its almost childlike, as if we are dancing around with the possibility without commiting to anything, kinda flirty friends. I love being around her, and she is drawn to me despite her good intentions. We can talk and laugh and play..it all seems so natural and innocent. I think under different circumstances nature would take its course, and I don't want to lose touch. At one point we fell out in a big way and she ignored me with such deliberation she started to affect herself. Since then I came to her rescue when another gentleman overstepped the mark, and we are back to the friends thing. She seems to be a little scared of me yet drawn towards me all the same. I have learnt that she will only come closer of her own will. This is all very strange for me as I usually like intense relationships, with Scorpion Ladies being my faves. But this is gentle, like two children playing with their emotions...though there is the distinct possibility of something stronger going on underneath. I don't expect to ever have her...I just love being around her. My birthday is 22-Feb-1976 @ 1:15am Hers is 22-May-1982 @ 12:00pm (or thereabouts) Both born in London,England. Any insights would be greatly appreciated Swerve IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 76399 From: From a galaxy, far, far away... Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 02, 2002 02:17 PM
Welcome to Lindaland! ------------------ "Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark IP: Logged |
Oxychick unregistered
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posted November 02, 2002 10:00 PM
I don't know anything about Synastry, but I can tell you that Geminis are very flirtatious, playful, child-like creatures! I have dated Geminis and I have Gemini rising...it's in their nature. I can also say that if you see a potentially hurtful situation on the horizon that can be prevented, it might be wise to steer the other way. No use in setting yourself up for heartbreak (I didn't say that, my Venus in Capricorn did). Good luck! I hope everything works out for you. ------------------ "What lies behind us and lies before us are small matters compared to what lies within us." -Ralph Waldo Emerson IP: Logged |
Swerve unregistered
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posted November 04, 2002 01:56 PM
Thanks Oxychick. I have a Geminian Mars and Mercury, so I imagine that might be impressing her in some way.Could anybody give a small interpretation of our birthdates please? Thanks Swerve IP: Logged |
Aphrodite unregistered
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posted November 04, 2002 11:44 PM
hi swerve,please give this request some time to process. thank you for your patience. hope you can stick around long enough for me to post back to you. in the meantime, i hope you are enjoying the site aphrodite IP: Logged |
Swerve unregistered
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posted November 05, 2002 12:32 PM
Thank you. I am more than willing to wait.Swerve IP: Logged |
Swerve unregistered
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posted November 05, 2002 12:34 PM
Oh, and I had it wrong! I have an Aquarian Mercury...going with my Aquarian Venus and played off against all the Scorpionic attributes I possess (Asc. & Moon) this looks like a very contradictory combination. No wonder I m so confused when it comes to love!! Swerve IP: Logged |
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posted November 11, 2002 02:04 AM
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posted November 11, 2002 02:08 AM
hi swerve,this relationship has a strong uranus feel to it when i look at your charts together. it's an "expect the unexpected" undercurrent running between the both of you. for which you are right, it can be lots of fun when it's between friends. i can see from your chart that emotional security is very important to you. somehow, i think you already know, and have calculated what you are emotionally willing to give and what amount of vulnerability you are willing to experience with this woman. hence your nonchalant: "I don't expect to ever have her...I just love being around her." such a smartie pisces with scorpio rising and scorpio moon on the ascendant aphrodite IP: Logged |
Swerve unregistered
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posted November 11, 2002 03:00 PM
Thank you Aphrodite. She seems to have drifted out of my life for now, and though I am a little sad, it has a feeling of inevitibility.Funnily enough as one door closes another opens, there is an incredibly beautiful & intriguing Scorpio Lady (aren't they all?)whom I am hoping to grow closer to. Do you think that my Moon & ascendant placements make this a more viable option for me? I have had trouble with Scorpios before as they can be a little judgemental when I display the typical Pisces attribute of "drifting"...she calls me "indecisive"...whatever does she mean? Any Scorpio ladies able to give me a few pointers? She is very very difficult to get to know, but the ice IS cracking...so very challenging and daunting, but you never know.... Thanks again,
Swerve
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Carlo unregistered
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posted November 15, 2002 10:55 AM
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eyes_like_a_pisces Newflake Posts: 0 From: minneapolis, MN, USA Registered: May 2010
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posted November 15, 2006 07:42 PM
hmmm wow. we're both pisces with moon and ascendants in scorpio. and my current best friend is a gemini. I think the attraction between you and the gemini was that you were closly born under aquarius just as she was closly born under cancer...cusps usually make great combinations. but that like you said is in the past and now there's a scorpio women in your life, at least you hope. Interesting thing my very first and best friend for many years is a scorpio and your right there very secreative not to mention unreciprical. and they know it. oh, and my gemini friend is dating a scorpio by the way. umanyway ....lets see I'd suggest not to force her to open up or even push. There good with small talk and humor. Chances are, she's smart too! and thats usally a turn on. and remember there ruled by pluto so they can be a bit gloomy, but intriging. the things is your going to have to open up first. Spill your heart out if you want to get to know her at all. it will be hard because you have all this planets and aspects in scorpio too. but when she notices your not hiding and not going to use any knowledge against her she'll open up to you. and when she does things will run smoothly! goodluck. p.s. I had no intention of writing that much, sorry. IP: Logged |
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posted November 16, 2006 07:28 AM
Phew!Talk about blast from the past!!! I've messed up lots of different relationships since this one, I've moved on, honestly I have Swerve IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 3396 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 16, 2006 10:16 AM
SwerveYou have messed up nothing--all good things in time....... All realtionships are for learning and as long as you have accomplished that..... You have accomplished everything!! Terri
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~jane_says~ Newflake Posts: 0 From: Registered: Aug 2009
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posted November 16, 2006 05:24 PM
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solstice42 unregistered
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posted November 18, 2006 06:21 PM
Wow, that is so neat. Swerve, you are almost my astro-twin -- I was born on Feb. 19 of that year. Talking with you would be like finding out what I would be like with a Scorpio moon... heh.IP: Logged |