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From: mpls, MN, mpls/st.paul
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posted November 15, 2006 11:08 PM         

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my best friend gemini[i think she has a cancer moon] and me haven't been close lately. at first i kinda of resented her for spending so much time with her new friends and boyfriend, scorpio. I got over it and decided to just be happy for her. But the next thing I know ever time i see her we're alway with her scorpio. Now she's upset with me. She thinks he might like me. and that I'm trying to sabatige their relationship because one night i started asking scorpio relationship advice on a friend of mine[ i figured their both water sign he could help me] and the next day gemini said she was really made at me for telling scorpio all the [good]things gemini said about him to me because scorpio doesn't like people knowing stuff about him[and i was suppose to know that, it was common sense, i guess ...but i honestly wasn't thinking about it. i was just trying to get advice.] the next thing that happened was i asked gemini if scorpio would give me a ride home[beceause none of us drive] she told me to ask him, i did. and he said we could go when your ready. i asked if gemini was comming she said "you guys go" and later is mind that I didn't ask her to come with.is that my fault? should i really have picked up on that? and she said that one night i was talking to scorpio a lot[i can't even remember that ..buti do know its usually me that no saying anything while the two of the wispher and cuddle and make-out] and then she said i probably like the attention he's giving me because i don't get the kinda of attention i want from someone else. that really hurt. first of all i think i would know if scorpio liked me and i don't think he does. and he's just not my type mentally or physically. and i guess gemini had this dream where the two of us crawled into scorpios bedroom and had a threesome.......ummm ok. she told me today on the phone that she had told me before........i swear i don't remember this. and i guess scorpio had been joking about it again and again. probably because gemini's getting so mad. and i don't know what to do. I feel like gemini doesn't trust me and if she had to she'd pick scorpio over me. They've only been together a month. we've been best friend for almost three years. she's never this crazy about guys. she usually has that typical gemini feeling towards them. I've seen her go through a lot of changes lately...and it just never feel right anymore. i already feel like i lost my friend. gemini and scorpio are comming to pick me up soon and where going to go over to a mutual friend house...she wanted to help put up chrismas decoration but now i thinks she so upset and that it will feel too awkward that she wont. i'm not exactly looking for advice. but if you have comments feel free to share i guess i'm just venting...but if you have any insight thats alway good too.

thanks for listening.

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posted November 15, 2006 11:23 PM         

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oh yeah....she also kinda has low self-esteem what can i do to make her think better of herself? I try telling her she looks pretty and that she's skinny['cause she is, she's lost so much weight but she still thinks she big] what else can i do. i really hope her and scorpio work out.

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posted November 16, 2006 03:39 AM         

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Oh man I had a friend like that once. Just once! High maintenance, it can be too much. Its as though they try to trap u, like when she told u to ask scorp for a lift then cracked when u did! Bizarre!
Obviously she's too preoccupied with her scorp to be a proper friend to u (in my opinion, i don't know that as fact) I hate when people ditch their mates for the new significant other. Its like they don't trust them out of their sights which obviously she doesn't.
Forget about it for now, she'll probably come crawling back when/if it all falls apart.
Don't mean to sound harsh thats just my opinion!

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posted November 16, 2006 07:10 AM         

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i would suggest , mave away from both of them . and let them decide if they both want realize your value .
i think , the gem would once come and ask (jokingly , she wouldn't let you feel that something serious is going on ) waht happened and that would be the time for you to clear matters .

its not that she doesn't care about your friendship but the thing she wouldn't let herself understand that your emotions are way more important than her antics .

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posted November 17, 2006 06:48 PM         

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thanks we all spent time with eachother yesterday i didn't get the feeling she was upset with me anymore. but I'll keep all your advice open incase i do stumble on another another arugument thanks OzMeg222 and Cancerrg!!!! if either of you need any help a pisces might be able to provide just ask.

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