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Topic: in love with an aquarian...
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downforten Knowflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 21, 2006 12:38 AM
i'm in love with an aquarian and as much as i'd like to be happy about it, it's becoming a source of huge discomfort to me knowing that either a) he will never reciprocate or b) he's as slow as most the other aquarians out there or c) i'm just insane and need to move on!!!so i'm going to go with option C, but things get complicated becuase the truth is i still have some hope that one day he will somehow come to the realization that he, too, likes me. i wish i could talk myself out of it and i've tried on numerous occasions (esp. recently) but he's just created a permenant corner for himself in my head and heart!!!! i can't begin to explain how frustrating this is for me as a gemini - i'm so used to being all over the place, having my interest switch from one guy to another in a short span of time but with him... i don't know... we've known each other for about 8 years. i was his first girlfriend and vice versa, although we were so young (12!!) that i doubt it matters or that he even remembers. ever since that we've been casual freinds, only recently have we gotten somewhat closer...and i wish he was boring and unintersting but he is so much fun to talk to and i can actually see myself in a serious relationship wiht him (eep!!). call me crazy but becuase he is so friendly and open with me, he is usually very shy, i think he might like me too? i feel like a mess right now! and i know that there are tons of girls chasing him so where does that leave me? it was all fair and good, im currenly dating a wonderful libra, and hardly thought of the aquarian. but on the occasion i do see him or talk to him, about 3-4 times a year, my mind goes biserk! i become a nervous wreck becuase i dont have control over my feelings. and i found out that he is mvoing to my city in a few months...how will i survive with him in such close proximity!!! i need help!! how do i get over him, someone please tell me! maybe it would be better if i just confessed and got some closure, but knwoing me i would never do a thing and i guess part of me doesn't want to let go of the "what if" possibitlity. he's told me on more than one occasion that he is not looking for a serious relationship, but when we meet and talk why do i feel like he's notioning towards something more? please take mercy on this poor gemini girl and give me some advice!! i feel internally tormented!! lol. seriously...i would really appreciate it since i can't seem to bring myself to tell any one of the million ppl in my life about this particular situation or how i feel -------------------------------------------------
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yourfriendinspirit Knowflake Posts: 17 From: Registered: Oct 2006
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posted October 25, 2006 03:49 AM
Here dear sweet Gemini girl, I'll let you save face and answer your own questions... {{{ NOTE: ONLY READ THE BOLD PRINT }}} Read what you wrote again: quote: i'm in love with an aquarian and as much as i'd like to be happy about it, it's becoming a source of huge discomfort to me knowing that either a) he will never reciprocate or b) he's as slow as most the other aquarians out there or c) i'm just insane and need to move on!!! so i'm going to go with option C, but things get complicated becuase the truth is i still have some hope that one day he will somehow come to the realization that he, too, likes me. i wish i could talk myself out of it and i've tried on numerous occasions (esp. recently) but he's just created a permenant corner for himself in my head and heart!!!! i can't begin to explain how frustrating this is for me as a gemini - i'm so used to being all over the place, having my interest switch from one guy to another in a short span of time but with him... i don't know... we've known each other for about 8 years. i was his first girlfriend and vice versa, although we were so young (12!!) that i doubt it matters or that he even remembers. ever since that we've been casual freinds, only recently have we gotten somewhat closer...and i wish he was boring and unintersting but he is so much fun to talk to and i can actually see myself in a serious relationship wiht him (eep!!). call me crazy but becuase he is so friendly and open with me, he is usually very shy, i think he might like me too? i feel like a mess right now! and i know that there are tons of girls chasing him so where does that leave me? it was all fair and good, im currenly dating a wonderful libra, and hardly thought of the aquarian. but on the occasion i do see him or talk to him, about 3-4 times a year, my mind goes biserk! i become a nervous wreck becuase i dont have control over my feelings. and i found out that he is mvoing to my city in a few months...how will i survive with him in such close proximity!!! i need help!! how do i get over him, someone please tell me! maybe it would be better if i just confessed and got some closure, but knwoing me i would never do a thing and i guess part of me doesn't want to let go of the "what if" possibitlity. he's told me on more than one occasion that he is not looking for a serious relationship, but when we meet and talk why do i feel like he's notioning towards something more? please take mercy on this poor gemini girl and give me some advice!! i feel internally tormented!! lol. seriously...i would really appreciate it since i can't seem to bring myself to tell any one of the million ppl in my life about this particular situation or how i feel
P.S. My first love was an Aquarian as well
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downforten Knowflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Mar 2006
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posted October 26, 2006 09:39 PM
omigod you are the best! this post made me laugh and want to cry. thank you. it was very very sweet of you.. but are you seriously saying i should not give up? that i should continue to be infatuated (although at this point i dont think i have control over that )? did u chase ur aquarian love? once again thank you ------------------
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GypsyDancer1221 Knowflake Posts: 9 From: Charlotte, NC, USA Registered: Oct 2006
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posted November 25, 2006 10:45 AM
YourFriendInSpirit put it better than I can... but I think I feel your pain. I'm also in love with an Aquarian and I hardly ever see him... Look at his moon. There was a post about how men tend to act like their moon signs when they're dating. Of course, my Aquarian was born on a new moon, so he acts Aquarian anyway. Also, progressive charts could help. Anyway, good luck! ^_^ ~ CocoIP: Logged | |