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Topic: Karmic complications
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7071
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 24, 2006 05:16 AM
 
I was talking to a friend of mine who believes when we meet up with a soul connection, whatever the circumstances, we should connect with them. He says, whether they have a partner or not then that is of no consequence.This i dont agree with.....! I have met a very nice man and we seemed very drawn to each other, BUT, he has a fiance and small daughter...we, I am sure, could become very close, but then if we did maybe I could be the cause of some friction in the marriage? We are both Scorpios, both into the spirit world and music and other things...we discovered this in just one meeting. I also feel we have spent a past life together and this has shown up when a friend did a lexigram of our names. He certainly feels familiar to me....an old soul. I am married, my husband is okay with me being friends with other men, and he is saying to me I should go and make a friendship with this guy. Its rare I meet males here that I connect with. He has a very different nature to me, he can stay detached from other, whereas I am true to my sign, intense, passionate and can be a little obsessional at times. My intuition says, be careful....what do ye guys think? Thanks  IP: Logged |
luisbunuel
Knowflake Posts: 55
From: Hampshire
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted November 24, 2006 12:51 PM
It's always dangerous territory, I think. I'd stay away. Or, if I felt that I would always be in control, I'd be friends but keep a safe physical distance. IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7071
From: former land of the leprechaun
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posted November 24, 2006 01:05 PM
Thanks luisThat is what I felt....I dont really feel using the soul connection thing gives us permission to dive in....? "a safe physical distance" hmmmm....that is what I would be worried about...we are two Scorpios....could be dodgy...? Damn...he is such a lovely guy too!!! Thanks again...  x IP: Logged |
luisbunuel
Knowflake Posts: 55
From: Hampshire
Registered: Dec 2003
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posted November 24, 2006 01:11 PM
Yeah, Scorpios.
Sexy but trouble....IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7071
From: former land of the leprechaun
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posted November 24, 2006 01:35 PM
haha...totallyare you one?  IP: Logged |
hippichick
Knowflake Posts: 734
From: The Ether
Registered: Jan 2006
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posted November 24, 2006 02:46 PM
SueI totally agree with you... Acknowledging a soul connection is one thing, acting on it is entirely another..I have learned this the hard way more than once. I posted a thread not too long ago about how I used to think that when I felt a deep connection to someone, I was feeling the future, possibilities, etc...What I have come to know that it is a past connection, soul connection. And for whatever reason, we as souls have chosen to meet up again in this lifetime briefly or not, but if the timing is not right, then let it be. Terri IP: Logged |
starflower
Knowflake Posts: 248
From: uk
Registered: Oct 2003
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posted November 24, 2006 05:20 PM
I acted on a Karmic connection, a true soul connection and it proved to be a catalyst, and life changing for me. Dont want to say much more here on a public board, but will say that it was a very challenging relationship. Filled with intensity but also experienced a lot of anguish (on both our parts) and guilt. It was most definitely an important learning experience, but given the opportunity I would not repeat it...go with your intuition.
Good luck..these can be hard relationships to let go of. IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 592
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted November 24, 2006 07:47 PM
I agree! I have always felt that if either yourself or the person you've met is 'unavailable', then let it be. Having said that, and as you know Sue, I acted against my own advice TWICE in the last two years. This was because I felt the deep connection that you're talking about... the first time nothing *happened* but the connection was so deep for me, I was heartbroken (he was newly married, I was in a relationship). The second guy, well yeah he is the one I'm with now and am going through a hard time with... our soul connection is deep and there is at least one past life connection there, maybe more. I recognised him the moment we met, and the relationship is intense for me. So I say if you are happy where you are now and don't want that to change, keep this one at a distance. Good luck!IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7071
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 24, 2006 08:17 PM
Thanks guys, I appreciate your thoughts and words.I actually went within quite a bit on this and then spoke to an amazing psychic women here in Ireland who I have been to twice...she has been a very good "confirmation of my own intuition" She said "he is a very nice man, but you must put some space between you and he because he is with another and it could be quite messy if you got invovled" That is what I had decided to do, but Mary is such a fantastic medium, I was interested to hear her. Yes he is a lovely guy, we mirrored the other just in one meeting...but he has a woman and child in his life, and its one thing I feel very strongly about. Even as a friendship, it probably wouldnt work too well..... I dont respect women who get involved with attached men, especially when they know there could be a chance for involvement on a deeper level. Soul connection or not, I would rather not encourage him... Shame, such a lovely guy....  Damn! IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 592
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted November 24, 2006 08:36 PM
I'm glad you could come to a decision.  I can appreciate that it's a hard decision when there is such an easy flow between you though. The REALLY GREAT thing I can say about it all though, (although hey I'm just a person on the internet who you don't even know!), is that you're among the women in this world who I have a great respect for! There are so many who do just whatever the heck they want despite the consequences for anyone else involved... I hate that quality in a person... so much, MUCH respect to you for your decision! IP: Logged |
BornUnderDioscuri
Knowflake Posts: 190
From: Brooklyn, NY, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted November 24, 2006 08:51 PM
Yea this is a very tough issue, while i myself also thinking that keeping distances is a good thing, i did break my own rule. I dont know i think you should go with the flow, im sure the universe will provide you with the answer in time, just with some patience. Lots of luck to you Sue IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7071
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 25, 2006 12:42 PM
Thanks again!Its so hard isnt it when you want to have a friendship, but feel it could develop into something else.... One of the reasons I abhore women who steal other women's men is because when I was younger my best friend and husband ran off together. Even though I had met another, it stung that it was her...anyone else maybe I could have accepted. It left a deep wound... Ive also found that some women who get involved with attached males, would be the ones who reacted the most violently if it happened to them!!! Will keep my fingers crossed that all shall work out well... Oooh but he is a very nice kind guy....I only met him the once, and he put his hand on my back....such a very warm feeling coming from him. He rang me and asked why I seemed so nervous around him....and I said "because I opened up to you a little and you are a Scorpio"....he laughed!!! He says he wants me to read for him and have some healing.....eeeeek!!! At least he knows...he knows the story....most Scorpio people do...they intuit at a deep level.... IP: Logged |
Jazzebel
Knowflake Posts: 271
From: Georgia
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted November 25, 2006 03:24 PM
listen to your intuition.
We always go wrong when we go against our intuition.
I dont know where our intuition comes from, is it the voice of our guardian angels, or is it a state of our minds which we still have not fully developed....IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7071
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 25, 2006 04:42 PM
Yes JazzI totally agree with you.. In the past when I have gone against my gut feeling,I have fallen on my face, especially in matters of love.. Thanks
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sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7071
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 26, 2006 04:22 AM
GemloverThanks for the positive and kind words Bless you... When I saw a psychic recently here in Ireland (and I went twice in four months..the second time to support a friend and ended up having another session)....one thing that stood out for me was when she said " love in abundance". She said exactly the same during both sittings. I feel a lot of that love is generated here....I can feel it...sure is wonderful... Thanks xxx IP: Logged |
GeminiLover75
Knowflake Posts: 592
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Registered: Apr 2006
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posted November 26, 2006 05:07 AM
Yes and I can feel it too! I get a wonderful 'warm fuzzy' feeling from your posts, I really do.  IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7071
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 26, 2006 07:52 AM
"Warm fuzzy'...haha....sweet I love that...thanks!Lets hope everyone else can feel it..... I believe love can reach the darkest of places....that is what healing is after all...LOVE!!!
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GypsyDancer1221
Knowflake Posts: 23
From: Charlotte, NC, USA
Registered: Oct 2006
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posted November 26, 2006 03:34 PM
I don't know exactly how to approach this situation, but if I were you I wouldn't initiate anything more than friendship. What will be, will be, though, so if something does start to develop, accept it and do NOT hide it! I know you're a Scorpio, but trust me, you want to be open about these things. People will understand and accept them, and if not, it's not because of you, it's because they have narrow perspectives. If you knew him in a past life then talking to him is DEFINATELY a good idea. Good luck! IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted November 27, 2006 12:30 PM
Yes leave that alone totally..
I went through that about a year ago with A libra guy with a Pisces moon. Man he was so handsome and we were instantly drawn to each other. I found out that he was married of course through my intuiton bc he did not mention it. I said uh nope, I don't go there at ALL..
I felt such a deep deep connection between us even after I said nope. I met him at the gym and after that he did not show up to the gym for about a month..I guess he was embarrassed or something..I see him now in the gym and I smile and speak and keep going, however I still feel his vibe from across the gym.. I knew that he was special bc anyone that knows me knew how much in love I was with this Aqua guy and this Libra man pulled my interest away from the Aqua, he has been the only man to do that period that deeply.. I wish things could have been different but they are not and oh well... IP: Logged |
sue g
Knowflake Posts: 7071
From: former land of the leprechaun
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted November 27, 2006 06:13 PM
Thanks Gypsy and Mama..MM, i remember that Libra guy very well....good for you for using restraint...it aint easy is it girl? Luckily this guy lives over 50 miles away, i met him when he delivered a trampoline for our son's birthday. He is a courier. He was asking me what I did and asked if he could have a reading and some healing....he rang me twice and now since I have put out for him not to contact me, he hasnt!!! I would like to be just friends with him....I would like more male friends, but we had such an instant connection and warmth between us I am not sure... AND he is a Scorpio....  Not sure what I would do if he rang to book a healing session or a reading.....? Am I being toooo cagey?
Damn again!!!!
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