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OzMeg222
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posted December 06, 2006 08:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message
Pisces-boy! My god he's like a whiny child sooking for a toy. I'll bet he drove his mother nuts as a child-probably still does cos he still lives with her. Lol.

He text me heaps last thursday and I thought I'd finally gotten through to him that I didn't want to be with him anymore. Told him I didn't want to be with anyone casually anymore. He knows I was with cancer-guy and didn't care, but got funny when I said I liked him although I didn't think anything was going to happen.

But I digress.

Anyway, I had dinner at my best mates tonight, she lives next door to him. Sure enough he starts texting me doing the fully suck job, trying the sweet talk and everything.

He asked how cancer-guy was by name (nickname actually, they grew up together and are sort of friends), I knew he knew who it was (he asked me so many times last week but I knew he was just fishing). Said I hadn't seen him. He text again and I replied I was going home (50kms away). I had planned to stay the night but I knew if I did he'd keep texting or ringing all night so I came home.

He rang me when I was half way home and was whining and pleading for me to come back. He asked what was happening with cancer-guy and I said nothing I didn't think he was interested. It doesn't change anything though. He can't understand why I don't want to 'play' with him anymore. I ended up getting really frustrated with him, told him he just wasn't listening to me and hung up cos I was going out of range.

To be perfectly honest I've kinda liked the fact that he's still chasing me. Its good for my self-esteem, how silly is that??? He was being awfully cute and sweet when he was texting before I left my friends and I was temped to go and see him, just to hang out. I decided to leave instead.

When he rang me the sound of his voice just didn't sooth me or turn me on the way it used to a few months ago. He was whiny, cajoling and quite annoying actually and I was seriously glad I didn't even bother to go chat to hang out with him.

If he doesn't stop calling/texting me now I don't know what I'll do. I thought ages ago he was going to stop but I'm getting firmer and firmer and he doesn't seem to want to take no for an answer. I'm trying to move on with my life and am staying away from all men at the moment, he's just being a pain and its neither cute nor funny. If he's not careful I just might complain to his best mate (female) and sister. Surely they can get him off my back???

Rant over!

Feel better now. Decided if I get another text from him I'm gonna be rude and simply not reply or answer if he calls.

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eatbooks
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posted December 06, 2006 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eatbooks     Edit/Delete Message
PISCES men...

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your pain is my pain, is that love?

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Dulce Luna
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posted December 06, 2006 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dulce Luna     Edit/Delete Message
I don't get it, why don't you just block his number? He'll definitely get the hint then.

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OzMeg222
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posted December 06, 2006 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for OzMeg222     Edit/Delete Message
You know I hadn't even thought of that! Duh! Don't think I need to go that far though.

I did delete his number from my phone but I still recognise it. I guess I feel I haven't been very fair to him, much as he's been quite awful to me in the past. I would like to be friends with him because we do have fun when we hang out and in such a small small town I really wouldn't want to stop talking to him altogether.

I just want him to understand that I don't want to 'play' with him anymore. Not just him, that goes for anyone. I'm over the casual thing. Pisces-boy and I first got together in january so its time to move on. For both of us. I just don't feel the same way about him anymore. I was grumpy when I first posted so I was probably complaining a bit more than I needed to. I get dramatic when I'm tired and emotional (leo moon).

I just wish he'd understand, I've been quite firm with him. A few months ago I would've been over the moon had he showed me such attention, especially the sweet talking suck up job he's been doing since he found out I had feelings for someone else.

Honestly, how long does he expect us to keep seeing each other casually? I could see us still going round in the same circles 5 years from now if I hadn't ended it.

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