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From: england
Registered: Sep 2001

posted September 22, 2007 09:14 PM         

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I`m an aqua man in love with a lioness, being aqua i do admit i get love and friendship mixed up! The lioness is abroad and very busy at the moment, but i can`t help myself from offering the constant reassurance of love that i need but am not getting. I am told that i`m not a boy friend and she wants to be able to date other men, we have shared Kisses and cuddles and she asked for sex, i declined as i want to make love and to me there is a big difference, do i take the chance of being played and ending up in more pain for the possibility of unlocking loves secrets or move on and stop the contact?

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From: Still out looking for Schrödinger's cat
Registered: Mar 2005

posted September 23, 2007 01:57 AM         

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When you no longer feel the need to question it and it feels like coming home, like you know this is where you are meant to be.
She does not seem to be ready for the real love you are able to give...to the right person who sees love as you do...real and true.
Love exists with or without sex. Sex can express it in the sharing but sex alone is never love.

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posted September 25, 2007 03:28 PM         

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Imagine that!!!!

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From: The Ether
Registered: Jan 2006

posted September 25, 2007 04:26 PM         

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"real" love has no meaning Aqua man....

it just is...

it is without wonder, worry, co-dependency, games, manipulation, stratagies, sex, kisses, cuddles, words, physical connection....

it IS the only thing that is real in this existence of illusion...

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From: england
Registered: Sep 2001

posted September 25, 2007 05:48 PM         

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Thank you for your delicious comments.
I feel alot better about the Love thing, its great to have your shared wisdom & support.

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posted September 25, 2007 10:50 PM         

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Your soul will tell you.

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