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Topic: your first thoughts about a virgo -leo cusp lady
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cancerrg Knowflake Posts: 2461 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 10, 2007 04:01 AM
what are your first thoughts about a virgo-leo cusp lady ? what if she is quite a beauty , smart(both in positive and negative sense) , silent kind . and what might be her thoughts reagrding cancer male - thats me . any inputs welcomed and truly appreciated ! IP: Logged |
cancerrg Knowflake Posts: 2461 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 12, 2007 03:21 AM
anyone? IP: Logged |
Dulce Luna Knowflake Posts: 4334 From: The Asylum Registered: Mar 2006
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posted September 12, 2007 08:58 AM
I don't know much about Virgo-leo cusp people, but I did know one who was pretty funny...we had classes together. Somehow she always ended up in the spotlight (inadvertenly (sp?)) So *bump*
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cancerrg Knowflake Posts: 2461 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 12, 2007 09:52 AM
thanks
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cancerrg Knowflake Posts: 2461 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 21, 2007 09:34 AM
ain't here any virgo ladies ? IP: Logged |
OMG Jay Knowflake Posts: 248 From: Registered: Sep 2007
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posted September 21, 2007 09:44 AM
I know one. She is funny, sweet, crazy, and I love her. She's like my little sister I never had.She usually attracts Gemini's. IP: Logged |
Virgo/Aries75 Knowflake Posts: 69 From: Registered: Jan 2007
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posted September 21, 2007 02:58 PM
I just typed 2 responses and I couldn't log in. Ok, I have a 13 year old daughter with a Cancer. I'm a Virgo on the Leo cusp(bday 8/24). We were initially together when we were 18, but only for 1 year. Broke up. Tried again years later, but we've never been able to get it together. Gonna share the good & bad points from my view. Good: We were both very romantic, thoughtful, generous, kind, and affectionate with each other. Sex was pretty good & there was plenty of it(maybe it's the Leo cusp thing, my moon in Aries, or my Scorp Asc, but I need a lot of it and he's the only man who could ever keep up). He wanted a "serious" relationship(marriage) as I do, not playing games. We felt very much "at home" with each other. We enjoy the good times we share with each other going out or staying in. We have a beautiful daughter together. Bad: We FOUGHT worse than anyone else I've ever been with!!! He tended to be extremely sensitive to & protective of his own thoughts, feelings, and needs, but had no problem ignoring or stomping on mine. He wanted to stay together no matter what and often said that "couples" can stay together if they choose to "work things out." However, when it came down to US working things out he would stop it by either a)pretending that whatever happened didn't actually happen -or- b)change the conversation to my "tone" of voice(not yelling, cussing, or insulting - but he would act overly sensitive to hearing any emotion in my voice. as though I should talk to him like he's a baby no matter how upset I am or how bad he's hurt me. Oh, and he can talk to me any way he wanted to!). So needless to say, we never were able to work things out, but he still wanted to be with me. But then again, he never voiced any complaints or problems with me. We also didn't have too many "deep" conversations. I like to be stimulated mentally & emotionally, but we just didn't "click" like that. Finally, he was pretty insecure. He would accuse me of cheating when I went to the stupid grocery store! BUT he had "backup" women just in case I rejected him because his ego couldn't handle it. He always has to have someone. ANYONE! Even then, I don't really doubt his fidelity, but I do feel that if things went on too long or got too bad between us, he might have went there. With all that being said, if I were to find a Cancer man that was as sensitive to my thoughts, feelings, and needs as he was to his OWN it would probably be a match made in heaven. Hope that helps. IP: Logged |
cancerrg Knowflake Posts: 2461 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 22, 2007 10:15 AM
that was excellent ! i am sry the relation didn't work out . i think you are the most right person that needs to help me thank u for being here !
actually her b'day is 08/25 .
ok the good part : i dont know much about her but i think i have all the positivs of a cancerian . and yeah , sex ........ i know i can keep up with most of the demands ,even my scorp friends say this . (ah , well i find it embarassing to talk of it here ) the bad part: i think i have worked pretty hard on alot of things and i am not normal cancerian in this sense (thanks to LL and the people here ) but yes , i dont deny , i believe realtions are for life , so i go to lengths to prevent a breakup but once i have made up my mind . its the 'THE END' . i never go back . ok , so now the situation is , i met this pretty girl during one of business interactions , we dont interact initially but she senses , my eyes have been following her . so finally i break the ice and talk . she responds well , we exchange cell nos. . but then my too fast style( i have aries asc. and my moon is in third house gemini , though my mars is in virgo ) makes her a bit esceptical( i hope thats the correct spelling ) she acts formal . i write her a sentimental msg that night . she calls back instantly without uttering a single word , the same thing happens very next morning . she doesn't answer my 'hello' though both the times . no communication for four day then i msg her and dont get an answer . thats the situation , do u think i should pursue further . any guesses whats in her mind ? she knows she is beautiful . she is into face modelling . any suggestions ? IP: Logged |
Virgo/Aries75 Knowflake Posts: 69 From: Registered: Jan 2007
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posted September 22, 2007 11:19 AM
Hey Cancerrg;I don't know your friend, but for *me* when a guy comes on too strong or moves too fast I tend to back up. Way up. I question his motives for moving so fast(think he wants sex) and figure if he's serious he'll slow down but continue to be persistent. I put space between us. Act in a formal manner. If he can still interact with me but in a warm & friendly manner, then he'll get more of my time. As far as your friend knowing she's beautiful, while she might be confident, she also knows that this will attract a lot of men who *ONLY* want to sleep with her. So she'll have to weed through those. The best way to do this is with time & a little icy formality. If you're serious then you'll understand and try to be patient with her. If she's anything like me, she too will think about "the big picture" and not be too much into light "flings" or one night stands. The guys that I have been with were persistent and patient. I think the persistence was the most important thing. The most significant relationships were with a *Cancer*, *Aries*, & *Scorpio*. All were persistent. They called consistantly & gave me a little space when I pulled back, but didn't disappear. There were times the *Aries* gave me too much space which is where we broke down. The *Scorpio* stalked me(no kidding - it sucked). The *Cancer* probably had it the most right, but we had so many problems it just didn't work. Sorry this was so long, but the best thing I could suggest is that if you're SERIOUS then just be consistant and friendly. Try not to rush or crowd her. If she likes you too, she'll come around. Hope that helps. IP: Logged |
cancerrg Knowflake Posts: 2461 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 23, 2007 04:44 AM
actually , it does ! thanks! so you feel i need to call and be patient too , right ! i'll call up her tomorrow . lets see ! ok what if she acts all formal ? IP: Logged |
Virgo/Aries75 Knowflake Posts: 69 From: Registered: Jan 2007
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posted September 23, 2007 11:44 AM
If she acts formal, just continue to be friendly. Let her know you were thinking about her and wanted to know how she was doing.For me, a few times of that and I start to feel more comfortable and let my guard down a bit and will be more friendly. If I *really* don't like a guy then I'll STAY formal no matter what, and eventually stop answering the phone or responding to any contact. I used to tell a guy that I wasn't interested and to stop calling me, but that seems to make them call more(?!?!?!?!). So I just ignore them now. But if she likes you, even a little, she'll warm up after a few friendly phone calls. After that I'm usually open to getting together. Me *personally*(I'm not her), I prefer to be invited out to lunch or something light like that initially. That way it's not like a precursor to bedtime, no commitment to a full blown date, etc. If that goes well then I'm open to dinner, movies, etc. But I find that some guys don't even date anymore! That's one of things I appreciated about the Cancer I was with: He wanted to spend fun, quality time with me. Not just, "Let's just go to my place/your place & hang out." He also acted like a gentleman, always suggested where we could go but left it open for me to decide, and he paid for everything. For some reason this new "thing" where guys invite you out, tell you where you're going, then expect you to pay kind of rubs me the wrong way. If I wanted to do that I could go out by myself or hang out with girlfriends. I grew up kind of old fashioned with the man still being "the man" so this might have absolutely nothing to do with your Leo/Virgo friend. Sorry for the rambling, but yeah. Just stay friendly & kind. If she likes you, she'll warm up. IP: Logged |
cancerrg Knowflake Posts: 2461 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 24, 2007 08:04 AM
Superb ! it all worked ! Thank u for your advices , lady ! love u ! i read your last post this afternoon , i had certain doubts so ,planned to post you but couldn't cos had a meeting lined . i come out of the meeting , i dont what but just felt like calling her . and guess what , she is more receptive than i could think of . though i was my formal self . i even ask her , if we can meet someday , she didn't gave the date but she was like ....hmmm... ok...
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cancerrg Knowflake Posts: 2461 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 27, 2007 02:01 AM
Hey lady , where are you ? IP: Logged |
Virgo/Aries75 Knowflake Posts: 69 From: Registered: Jan 2007
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posted September 27, 2007 08:21 PM
Hey cancerrg!So happy to read that things are working out! Glad I could help. I'm not on here all the time, just pop in and out. Post once in a while. If there's anything else I can help with, let me know. Let us know how things go! IP: Logged |
celticfyre Knowflake Posts: 568 From: VA,USA Registered: Aug 2005
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posted September 27, 2007 08:44 PM
Go for it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ------------------ ML ~~~~~~~~~~~ "In my end is my beginning" Mary,Queen of Scots IP: Logged |
cancerrg Knowflake Posts: 2461 From: Registered: Dec 2004
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posted September 28, 2007 03:18 AM
sure ladies !
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