posted September 30, 2007 07:43 PM         

i have had a smouldering heart stopping drop to your knees crush on a guy for over a year now. hardly spoke with him at all until about two weeks ago (due to circumstances and him having had a gf) and now we chat (on an IM thingy) for hours almost every day. he lives far away now and we have not gotten intimate physically at all, but we seem to have completely hit it off. the thing is he is very shy about talking about feelings and things (triple cancer!) and is evasive about his emotions (gemini moon!) so i am never 100% sure how he feels even though WHAT he says seems to always be infused with feeling for me!

as an aquarius i just want to knooooowww.. haha, but really. i mean, i'm not actually worried about it and it just feels amazing and i'm totally cool with moment to moment finding out.. but i thought maybe if i post up some of our aspects someone could tell me if this is fated? i mean it feels REALLY intense and strong and it has felt that way for me since the moment i met him. just absolutely perfect.

so,

his moon trine my sun
my moon sextile his sun
his venus sextile my moon
his moon probably conjunct my dc (not sure the exact time)
his sun, merc, venus in my 7th house
his chiron exactly on my DC
my vertex exactly on his mars (my jupiter conj more widely)
his vertex very likely on my NN
his NN exactly on my sun/moon midpoint
his vertex/pluto opposite my chiron
his psyche conjunct my NN
my eros conjunct his neptune

okay there are a lot more aspects, but aren't these pretty significant? any idea? this just seems soooo fated and i am wondering if we have a lot of fated aspects, or am imagining things?

posted September 30, 2007 10:16 PM         

our junos are one degree apart (and each form many happy seeming aspects to our individual charts, including sextiling my chiron)

posted September 30, 2007 11:00 PM         

so i was just doing random searches and found out about isis and osiris asteroids and a thread on here about them.

his isis is exactly conjunct my DC (and his moon) and
his osiris is exactly conjunct my moon

my isis trines his chiron and sextiles his jupiter but there are no synastric conjunctions
my osiris however is exactly on my anti-vertex AND exactly conjunct my mercury and mars AND opposite his mars (exactly conjunct his vertex), so me thinks there is some big door opening here in terms of soul recognition..

my ceres exactly trines his moon/my DC and trines his chiron
his ceres is on my ASC, within 2 degrees and is exactly on my venus/neptune midpoint (which are conjunct widely)

also,

his valentine is one degree off my moon, and mine is sextile his sun..

also, my venus trines his jupiter, exact
his venus trines my uranus exact
his uranus conjuncts my asc, etc.

HELP! is this a lot of great stuff or should i settle down!!? yikes i might faint with joy about now!!!

posted October 07, 2007 06:25 PM         

holy heart cakes..
wellll.. we just spent 20 hours together and they were the most amazing twenty hours of my life. he is everything astrology cracked him up to be and i will never ever be skeptical about astrology ever again!

he is SUCH a cancer and everything i have ever wanted. i am serious, on all levels it was perfect. it is so weird.. my mind constantly rejected it as impossible but everything between us just felt so right. i mean, even the awkward stuff; like when one of us was awkward or nervous or anything, the other just knew how to make it better instinctively.. and .. it just felt so .. pure and new and real and everything was 100% in the moment and i have never ever experienced that with anyone before..!

i think you are maybe right that it was my ego that wanted to be remembered, but i think there was more. it was that *i* intuited that we had this connection and somehow felt it and just knew it was this deep and it confused me because his eyes seemed to reflect that, but i think they just contained it and i recognized it, you know? i didn't ask him if he actually remembers me and i don't care. i actually really love that he is shy about expressing his feelings, because i can feel them and it is much sweeter to take care of his feelings than to have to be asked for reassurance constantly (haha that is my department, and luckily he likes reassuring me! but i found i needed it less and less.. ); his moon is in my 12th house so i think this must be why..

which reminds me that my moon is in his sixth and i was amazed to see it in action. he wanted to cook our meal and wanted to clean up after us and grab stuff from the other room and things like that and it was just so awesome (well as you can see i am used to lazy selfish guys).

anyway, i just wanted to tell everyone how peacefully thrilled i am and give a great big WOOHOO! to intuition! and i wish big huge loooooooooove and sweetness to everyone here!! i mean, i really feel like i found him because i believed.