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Topic: Why am I falling for the AQUA??
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GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 05, 2008 08:53 AM
May the universe give me strength, I am falling for the Aqua...What is it about these men??Due to my recent divorce, we are starting out as friends, and taking it super snail slow. We've known eachother for 3 months and only cuddle, hold hands, hug, and kiss on the cheek. Needless to say both of us are getting a little "frustrated". haha. I am starting to feel like I am falling for him and would like to move forward. Can anyone give any insight into our synastry? Thanks in advance. IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 05, 2008 09:04 AM
Here is our chart: http://s263.photobucket.com/albums/ii134/Gem_Gem_Gem/?action=view¤t=Man dAsynastryChart2.gif Thanks.
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AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 11385 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted February 05, 2008 02:06 PM
Yeah, astro.com doesn't allow you to link. You have to store those images somewhere else like Photobucket, and then you can post them here.IP: Logged |
fieryscales Knowflake Posts: 26 From: Registered: Jan 2008
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posted February 05, 2008 02:07 PM
I say Aquas have the ability to make you for in love with them, hehe IP: Logged |
LibraChickety Knowflake Posts: 265 From: usa Registered: Jul 2007
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posted February 05, 2008 04:21 PM
Ohhhh, don't get me started on Aqua men. Sigh.I'm still not over one. I don't know if they're ALL like this, but he left as a mystery (once he 'figured' me out) and that KILLS me. I have a hard time getting over something that I can't figure out and put closure on. Good luck! ------------------ Sun in Libra Asc. in Sagittarius Moon in Virgo Mercury in Libra Venus in Scorpio Mars in Leo Jupiter in Libra Saturn in Libra Uranus in Scorpio ........ I feel so naked ;) IP: Logged |
LibraChickety Knowflake Posts: 265 From: usa Registered: Jul 2007
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posted February 05, 2008 04:22 PM
fieryscales:Oh yeah, WONDERFUL charmers, yet you can SEE THROUGH them....but you ignore and become blind because they're so beautiful. IP: Logged |
GypsyDancer1221 Knowflake Posts: 102 From: Charlotte, NC, USA Registered: Oct 2006
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posted February 05, 2008 05:42 PM
well, he has some Cap, so he may be more stable, but if you're both frustrated, I would say that means it's mutual and you should definately go for it! Again, his Cap may make him patient, but he has a fire moon, so that adds passion. ^_~ I'm in love with an Aqua, so I'd say go for it; they are absolutely wonderful! I don't have time to do the full compatability, but your composite seems very energetic, so it looks like you're quite compatible. Good luck! ^_^IP: Logged |
hippichick Knowflake Posts: 1872 From: The Ether Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 06, 2008 10:31 AM
~~~The Sun is in Aquaruis~~~What a lovely time to fall in love with an Aqua.... I do on a regular basis.... IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 06, 2008 06:56 PM
What is it about them that just makes them so lovable. He says he has never been in love, and has always been the one who breaks off the relationship. I can only imagine the string of heartbroken girls, he's left behind. Am I next? LibraChickety, have you been in touch with your Aqua ex at all since the break up? I think everyone has a right to have closure, so they can move on. I feel he owes you an explanation. IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 08, 2008 08:18 PM
Ok, I finally got the link to work. I added it to my above post. IP: Logged |
LibraChickety Knowflake Posts: 265 From: usa Registered: Jul 2007
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posted February 09, 2008 12:09 AM
GemGemGem:Nope, the Aqua hasn't tried contacting me since. I would do anything to experience that kiss again. YOU know what I mean ------------------ Sun in Libra Asc. in Sagittarius Moon in Virgo Mercury in Libra Venus in Scorpio Mars in Leo Jupiter in Libra Saturn in Libra Uranus in Scorpio ........ I feel so naked ;) IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 09, 2008 09:31 PM
Librachickety, I know EXACTLY what you mean. The unforgettable kiss only an Aqua can give.Maybe it's so wonderful because we secretly know it will be fleeting. The concensus seems to be that Aquas are not to be kept by any one person, they must eventually be set free to go on with their adventures elsewhere. We just have to enjoy their company while we can. The Aqua and I are moving along slowly, but I always keep in mind that he will leave someday, and so I try not to get too attached. Like someone said in one of the Aqua threads...they are like the wind. Have you ever thought of calling your Aqua ex for a talk, just to get some closure? IP: Logged |
GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 13, 2008 08:41 AM
It must have been the bottle of wine that I drank, or the beautiful flowers that he had sent me that morning...but last night on the phone with my Aqua, I shared my feelings with him for the first time. I told him how wonderful I thought he was, and how I felt about him. I am kicking myself this morning!!! What the hell was I thinking? What do I do now? I feel naked, and stupid and we have plans to see eachother tomorrow for Valentine's Day which I feel like cancelling now. I hate emotionally uncomfortable situations, I just don't know how to deal with them. What do I do now that it's out there?
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hippichick Knowflake Posts: 1872 From: The Ether Registered: Jan 2006
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posted February 13, 2008 09:02 AM
don't cancel, there is nothing wrong with being honest, tho I hear ya on the wine thing...opened my mouth a time or two like that!Just be cool and let it go. Aquas, while very non-emotive at times, well most of the times, often have thick skins and heads and chances are, he let it go in one ear and out another anyway, registering somewhere deep in his psyche. If I were you, I would play the Aqua role for a bit now, to balance out your emoting to him, be nice, respectful, but cool and aloof. This also will seduce him further, as disorientation, throwing an individual off balance is key to seduction! It would give him something to think about as well...they live their lives under the rule of Uranus and have learned to expect the unexpected. Whatever you do, I would highly suggest not going there with the feeling thing again for a while. Much can be said with body language, acts, etc. O, and, I have had my kids hide my phones when I know I am going to be drinking and did not want to slip and contact my Aqua...now I have built up restraint, but in the early days....yea...alcohol and phones do not mix!!! IP: Logged |
praecipua Knowflake Posts: 303 From: england Registered: Aug 2007
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posted February 13, 2008 09:37 AM
hippichick, you're soooooo cool. and i'm sober!!!you really understand aqua male... what gemgemgem needs is a litlle hippichick in her bag when she goes out to meet him tomorrow. gemgemgem, just be cool tomorrow... you said what you feel, so this is clear, no misunderstanding about that (and fixed as are aqua, we like time to adapt).... now you can just relax and enjoy your day with him tomorrow talking about anything that crosses your mind... anything, except may be the feelings thing, which doesn't need to be discussed tomorrow. the fact that you enjoy each other company tomorrow should be more important than trying to talk again about your feelings. i like different kind of friends (oh yes) but i love being around gems because i know their mind will be quicker than anyone to get an idea. which is essential to me. (i've got compassion for slow paced souls but i prefer intuitive or quick thinkers to avoid to have to explain everything twice ) for example the part in bracket would have been useless if i had been talking only to a gem... gems are open and help aqua to stretch a bit their fixe side. they bring diversity to aqua who love that but are may be to fixed compare to the flexibility of a gem! the best thing when gem and aqua are together, is that aqua know and gem think that they can talk about anything... if you have an idea, just put it forward and let's the debate start... it doesn't mean the debate as to be an argument (and even if, heated exchanges with a positive intention are highly valued), but it means that it's only when we are exhausting our strengh by exchange that we feel happy and fulfilled. one of my closest friend was gem and we shared a room together. yeah, a room! and i loved it. we were talking about everything until 4 or 5 am. non stop. that was so cool. even the feelings become discussed but in a clinical way like if we were talking about the price of the oil or the chinese economy. and then you go doing your business with more ideas in your head! for that, gems are the best!
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CoralBird Knowflake Posts: 38 From: Registered: Jun 2007
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posted February 13, 2008 10:02 AM
There must have been something in the air last night. I kind of did that too. At least you had a bottle of wine in you and slept through the night. I was up all night worrying. Me and my big mouth; things just come out too quickly before I even think to stop myself. I would just leave it out there. You can’t really retract it (especially if you were honest) because that would make it really weird and uncomfortable...and appear fickle. Maybe let him figure out what he’s going to do with it. But, who am I to give advice
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GemGemGem Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Registered: Dec 2007
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posted February 13, 2008 11:55 AM
Thanks everyone for the good advice.So, I will...do nothing, let it hang out there, and act cool! I will just pretend it didn't happen. There definitely was something in the air last night, because I'm not really a drinker, but for some reason I just felt like having wine...lots of it! haha. Hippichick, next time, before I take that first drink, I will ask my family to hide the home phone, my cell phone, and my laptop! IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 2227 From: Registered: Jun 2005
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posted February 13, 2008 12:21 PM
Luckily for me I don't drink and if I have a glass of wine its not enough to start telling ppl off..BTW I have Mercury in the 1st house and well I speak with out the wine, but just think if I had enough wine and my mouth together..**puts head down** IP: Logged |