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Topic: cancer men...... again
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anni17
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: minnesota
Registered: Apr 2007
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posted April 19, 2008 06:22 AM
 
ok you don't have to scroll down far on this site to see that there are troubles galore with cancer men!
now i too am joining this confused by cancer club....
i was with a cancer boy for 1 month..
i guess it got pretty intense prtety fast, but my relationships have a habit of doing that as i really prize them, and invest a lot into them
and he seemed reciprocal
he told all his friends he really really liked me and 'wanted to stay with me for ages'
other things suggested he was in it for the long-haul
including:
1. when i was asking him what to wish for on the 1st star of the night, he responded ' that we stay together for aaaages!';
2. he has told me i am beautiful many times, that he is 'crazy about me', 'adores'me and that i 'changed his life';
3. he often joked about how he wanted to grow old and said, a couple of times, 'grow old with me'.
also, my brother told me that altho it was weird to say so soon, he could imagine us staying together for a really long time, even getting married . (i didnt pass on that message haha as im quite sure it would scare any young guy)things were good, we were happy together ... then one night he suddenly said it was moving too fast and he called it off. just like that.
the reasons he listed were that he was not ready for a relationship, he had too much other stuff going on his life (if he does, i certainly didnt know anything about it!.. one problem was that i felt he didnt open up to me as much as i'd like) and that he wasn't 'emotionally ready to sustain feelings for one person'. of course i assumed he had feelings for someone else, but he assured me he had 'feelings for nobody at the moment' (which didnt hurt any less).
later when i tried to talk about it he got defensive & wouldn't say anything to explain it to me further... yet he is adamant he wants to remain 'friends'
since then (about a week ago) i have avoided all contact in order to give him the space he craves and let me sort through my own emotions (which are going crazy)
does anybody have insights or clues to what might come to pass in the future??? he is a cancer sun, scorp moon, cancer mercury and gemini venus.. i dont know his ascendant as it would be kind of creepy to ask his birthtime ha ha i am a libra sun, moon, venus & mercury and taurus ascendant if anyone would care to shed some light i would be SO grateful
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ghanima81
Moderator Posts: 1604
From: MAINE! :)
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted April 21, 2008 01:03 PM
It would be beneficial to see your whole charts, as far as getting an astrological viewpoint that's more complete...I think his Gemini Venus could be wishy-washy... and that Scorpio moon is rather secretive. Don't be shocked when cancers get defensive... he seems quite watery, but is probably rather closed off until he really REALLY trusts someone. But it would be good to know the houses and how your aspects interplay... Good luck!  Ghani IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 363
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 01:26 PM
where is his mars? u already provided this info? only mars is rather important 4 men i think...........IP: Logged |
winky_winky
Knowflake Posts: 363
From: SPAIN
Registered: Oct 2007
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posted April 21, 2008 01:28 PM
well his cancer mercury would be prone to express thoughts sort of on and off depending on his moods i would assume...but scorpio moon... he knows what he wants... rather intense bloke no? IP: Logged |
anni17
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: minnesota
Registered: Apr 2007
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posted April 22, 2008 06:10 AM
wait now im confused. i entered his d.o.b into 2 sites and 1 lists him as a libra moon, and the other a scorpio moon :S
hmmmm
and his mars is in aries.IP: Logged |
anni17
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: minnesota
Registered: Apr 2007
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posted May 04, 2008 06:36 AM
sorry for being annoying but does anyone have further insights? ive tried to avoid all communication with him recently cos when i do i invariably get upset and say something i later regret.. distance is easier but i do miss him.. he told my sister he thinks i hate him now.. hmm thats all to update i guessIP: Logged |
lechien
Knowflake Posts: 181
From: Germany
Registered: Apr 2008
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posted May 04, 2008 07:09 AM
as ghanima81 mentioned maybe post the charts? i'm just a beginner at this so i can't give you much insight astrologically, but one thing is that if i'd known this forum at the time i would not have dated that cancer guy back then myself! oooph!IP: Logged |
Meduza
Knowflake Posts: 96
From:
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted May 12, 2008 04:39 PM
anni17, what happened with your guy?
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bunnies
Knowflake Posts: 170
From: U.K
Registered: Mar 2007
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posted May 12, 2008 06:32 PM
If I recall ghanima you are an Aqua.
Hey! Isn't it a relief to see us Aquas getting a break and someone else being beaten up for a change.
I was seriously beginning to doubt my capacity to l..lo...lov.....
Oh I'm sorry.
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Unmoved
Knowflake Posts: 1099
From: Born in S.Africa
Registered: Jun 2007
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posted May 12, 2008 09:00 PM
bunnies, you're right.Last year there was carnage against Aquas, now it's Cancer. It must be a transit thing. IP: Logged |
Meduza
Knowflake Posts: 96
From:
Registered: Feb 2008
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posted May 13, 2008 10:37 AM
aquas are yummy, in my opinion...IP: Logged |
anni17
Knowflake Posts: 76
From: minnesota
Registered: Apr 2007
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posted May 16, 2008 08:07 AM
meduza, in answer to your question... nothing. we have remained out of contact.
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