posted September 05, 2005 09:20 AM         

i thought maybe we could just have a light fun kind of topic.
I thought it would be really cool if we could hear form all the different starsigns, male and female,what are there turn on's and off's.

okay,like, i'll go first:
I'm an areis female and things that turn me on are guys who are spontaneous, like guys who don't have to be in bed before 12.
Biggest turn off is a guy who is close minded,like he still believes women belong in the kitchen.

What is yours?

posted September 05, 2005 04:51 PM         

Biggest turn offs - being bored; guys who are very sexually inhibited/conservative; too much mushy/emotional/romantic stuff; sexual encounters that are too complicated or preplanned (I like spontaneity too); crude/sexist/macho talk; anything that makes me think the guy learned all he knows about sex from watching porn; anything involving food or ice cubes during sex

posted September 05, 2005 05:10 PM         

You are hot stuff.......S & M .......mmmmm LOL !!!!

xtc xxx

posted September 06, 2005 12:52 PM         

Turn offs- Women who dont know they dont have to be in the kitchen, or wish the world didnt move beyond that already, as well as women who dont know how to recognise when women have finnaly gotten there equal rights [atleast here in usa].

Women who take a little too much encouragement to explore new sexual worlds can leave me feeling flacid... As well as a women who tries to bring too much "pureity" into the bedroom.

TURN ONS-
A women with a good mix of knowing how to be demanding, yet not overbearing... Someone who can flip a power play back on me [in or out of the bedroom] . A women who can outshock me is nice as well. Lgiht games of "s N m " as well without getting to carried away [most peaple seem clueless as to what the words Sadistic masachism used to realy meen and suggest]...

My personal view- "cant be good at dominating for oyurs or anothers benefit untill youve learned what it is, and how to be domminated!"

Someone who knows how to keep feelings of lust and romance/love seperate- yet is capable of experiencing both without confusion.

and BIG BONUS would be- suggest a game or act, that I havent coem acrost ,or thought of yet.

posted September 06, 2005 02:46 PM         

How can I follow that now........so articulate.......mmm.....I will have a think...

okay......Scorpio (very much so)

Men who are into Black Magic/S & M, death metal.,.......aahhhh only joking guys

Turn ons: humour, devilment, sincerity, sexualy open and available, truthful, and trustworthy, I have liars, free spirited, easy to talk to, not possessive (bloody hypocrite that I am, still working on my own), long hair, nice smelling hair and body, soft eyes that you can melt into, love hazel eyes, full mouths, I like men who are slightly feminine, as long as they dont steal my clothes LOL !! Must be into music, art, creative by nature, and definatley dont like men who openly flirt with other women!!

Turn offs: loud voices, chauvenists, insensitivity, clumsy in bed, inattentive, low of intelligence, no humour, unkind to others.....

there must be more.......T B C

love

posted September 06, 2005 04:21 PM         

Turn offs- insensitivity, crudeness or crassness, unwillingness to be experimental in bed, rough features, insincerity, lack of goals or direction, withdrawn men.
Turn ons- dreamy eyes that twinkle, baby faces (ever man I've dated has fallen into this category..soo cute), sense of humor, open-mindedness, intelligence (big one). I love to banter and carry on a heated debate...always leads to great sex. I like men who are secure enough in their sexuality to try anything once. I love sensitive guys, great smiles, free-spirited, and willingness to dig beneath the surface to find out who they really are. Self-relization is very sexy to me. I like men who are INTUNE with who they are, where they are going, and what they must do to get there and have no quibs about sharing their deeper sides be it in poetry, a conversation, or the best in bed.

posted September 06, 2005 05:29 PM         

GASP...........again !!!

posted September 06, 2005 06:15 PM         

And of course........he has to love me !!!!

xxx

posted September 06, 2005 06:47 PM         

Okay Pisces Female

Turn On -Basically everything water sign men are ( the good stuff that is )

Turn Off - Someone who isn’t considerate of my emotions - that’s the biggest no no sweetheart

Doesn’t talk to me - I hate that…why?
Guys who play games. Keeping me around by making me feel insecure? - trust me…fish don‘t play that game.

You know it’s hard to describe what I want and don’t want - I guess I want to feel wanted & needed.

And not feel pain caused by someone I love.

Of course if you look like OB that’s ok too

posted September 06, 2005 07:58 PM         

Sue- [GRINNING here] , yes demand nothing less then to be loved.

Lie WaterNymph says, alot of its aobut wanting someone that makes ya feel needed and wanted. What else could simply let someone know you love em ?

posted September 07, 2005 03:05 AM         

love

Sue xx

posted September 07, 2005 02:16 PM         

Egomaniacal, egocentric. Doesn't ask any questions. Rarely appears interested in other human beings. Pedestrian or dogmatic.

Two-faced. Liars.

Weird food issues, can't or won't try new cuisines, eats no vegetables or fruits, refuses dessert (LOL).

Moody, ill-tempered, constantly crabby, always depressed. Bad memory.

Loathe to pay a compliment

Babified, mommified men.

Turn-Ons
Looks are of minimal importance though I am never attracted to blond men, ever.

I find conversation and intelligence to be tremendous aphrodisiacs. I like interest and knowledge on a variety of interests. If a guy can talk movies, books, world politics, sports and astrology without batting an eyelash, it's a bit of a lock for him. I am always turned on by curious men. If they are curious as they age, I find that even hotter. Wanting to know things, why they are the way they are, what makes what tick, etc. is sexy.I like men who have minds that go buzz buzz.

Men who know where to put their hands, how to use their hands. Whether it is to lift a baby, a hammer, or your legs. LOL.

Really good kissing.A hand on my back at the right moment.

I like men who present as quiet, shy, observant and a bit tough to know but who will melt into laughter and get turned on when you least expect it. I like a rare show of heated conversation or temper. Please Feel passion about something but usually maintain a degree of composure.

I refuse to be told what to do. I was told what to do as a child and I did it. I love my independence, my solitude, my quiet. Men who can get in that zone are a turn on.

Biggest Turn Ons: A really funny man who can cook, make a great cup of coffee, call my name and moan (oh god a man moaning when turned on...), slip my blouse off like that's the first time he's done it, and look at me defiantly when I screw up.

posted September 07, 2005 03:52 PM         

I got that Aries rising thing going on too.....oh my.....dont we just get so so impulsive at times.......Magus is lovely and I dont think he would be wounded. Did he tell you me and him are gonna be married....we are planning ahead with the wedding, in about 200 years time or so,,,,,,gives me plenty of time to practise the sex magick stuff LOL !!

posted September 07, 2005 04:12 PM         

I’m hoping he didn’t read it I feeling really bad right now.